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    Liking someone 5000 miles away

    There is this guy. We met on an app which yes, I know what your thinking and yes, I think it too. My dad was a cop.

    Anyway, he likes me but lives in Scotland (cutest town ever, halfway between Glasgow and Edinburgh). Obviously, I would most likely meet him first but he's only 2.5 years younger but so cute but more successful which is a story for another day. Which brings me to the all important legal status. Obviously I would like a job and even before this, I have always wanted to move away the states. I know as an American I have a slim chance anyway because the odds are against us trying to move away.

    But I was just wondering if there was any possibility where this would work in my favor? For a job too?

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    Re: Liking someone 5000 miles away

    You're a little all over the place so I'm not sure I understand.
    What I have is this:
    This guy lives in Scotland.
    You do not live in Scotland.
    You live in America.
    You'd rather leave America.
    You perceive there to be a slim chance of you moving away. (Why?)

    You want to move to Scotland and have a job there, preferable before you commit to moving. (This is vague)

    If I understood that all correctly, then I don't understand why you are asking if this (or even what 'this' refers to) is okay and I don't understand what you're asking for about the job.

    We know that people in long distance relationships have decided to make dramatic sacrifices to be with the person they like and that it has worked out. We also know that people in long distance relationships have made dramatic sacrifices and got burned for it. We don't know enough to tell you if you have a good chance of being the success story or the fail story. Do you have a back-up for if this fails; as in, what are you going to do with your life if you go to Scotland and the relationship crumbles? Where will you go? Are there people you can go to? Could you end up on the street?
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    Re: Liking someone 5000 miles away

    Long distance relationships almost never work, as far as I know, unless there's some kind of mail-order bride situation going on, and even then.

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    Re: Liking someone 5000 miles away

    Perhaps you should actually meet in person before you start making life plans.

    Online relationships aren't the same thing as real-life relationships. It's a little premature to be thinking about big changes to your life until the two of you have spent time getting to know each other in person.
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    Re: Liking someone 5000 miles away

    If you are not a UK citizen you can not move there, you can not go there for work you must have a job there first then you can move there. If you go as a tourist and ook for a job you will be removed imediately its just like what would happen to someone going to the US with there CV. Now if you are worth more than 1 million you can go and even buy a home!
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