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    I'd say no if the behaviour of my straight friends is anything to go by.

    What say you.

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    Re: Are Gay Men Any More Obsessed With Sex Than Straights?

    You’re right, Cormac. I believe it’s hormones/testosterone. There’s no differentiation between straight and gay guys. I know of the myth that gay guys are supposed to be much more promiscuous than straight guys, but I know, from my straight friends too, that it’s just not like that in the real world.
    There are just so many sex maniacs out there - I’m one of them! Sometimes! Anyway let’s turf out that myth once and for all. Guys are guys, with needs whether gay or straight. It really is that simple. Enjoy being gay. I am.
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    I don't know, but I know which one has better sex.

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    Is bluebee unable to post for himself now?
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    Quote Originally Posted by NotHardUp1 View Post
    Is bluebee unable to post for himself now?
    Well it very well could be one of his, i cannibalized it from page 1457ish of HT.

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    Re: Are Gay Men Any More Obsessed With Sex Than Straights?

    I think that those who say that they are straight might be more inhibited to admit what their sexual proclivities might be.

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    Re: Are Gay Men Any More Obsessed With Sex Than Straights?

    I'm not sure about obsessed, but gay men seem to place a BIG emphasis on sexualizing other men. It presents itself as "THE" reason to like someone. (i.e., "He's so hot" instead of "He's hot..and he's nice, too. And goodhearted.") I think it was less so before the rise of the Internet, though.

    So I vote yes. After 1999. Before that? Much less so before gay culture was "out" (post Stonewall).
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    I know I'm more sex-crazed than my straight friends, lol.

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    When it comes to hard core cock hounds versus pussy hounds.....I've never noticed a difference.

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    Re: Are Gay Men Any More Obsessed With Sex Than Straights?

    If not, then why are the classic STI's making a huge comeback in the gay community? I think the onky thing that is preventing men from having more sex is women. Remove then from the equation and...BAM! More sex.

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    I guess you could ask if gay men fall in love less often or straight men pretend to fall in love more due to social pressure to settle down

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    The difference is availability of sex. Women are less likely to give it up to multiple people. A lot of gay guys love variety and see nothing wrong with having sex with 5 or more guys in one night. The more the better. Plus we have parts of the country where we have baths and sex clubs. Some straights have swingers clubs but since horny men outnumber horny women they have to bring a woman there with them.

    A 1 on the scale of 1 to 10 can have a beautiful big dick and go to a glory hole or a dark room and have as much sex as he wants. Women are much more picky. It's a biological thing. they can get pregnant or they can get STDs that ruin the chances of them ever having kids.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    If not, then why are the classic STI's making a huge comeback in the gay community? I think the onky thing that is preventing men from having more sex is women. Remove then from the equation and...BAM! More sex.
    agree---know a lot of straight guys---and there are just enough slutty girls to satisfy the guys that absolutely have to have pussy---but a lot of the ones I know would rather not fuck a slut and risk a disease . They actually talk about the girls and if they are safe or not ---maybe some gay guys are not as picky because there are a lot more guys ready willing and able.

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    Re: Are Gay Men Any More Obsessed With Sex Than Straights?

    Fortunately this question has an answer you can just look up.

    https://www.theguardian.com/commenti...omiscuous-myth

    Most gay men and most straight men share an equivalent appetite for sex, totalling out at 20 partners. Literally the same number for almost all men, gay or straight. There are a few over-achieving hypersexual aficionados of sex, with hundreds of partners, and they tend to be gay. So if you look at the gay average, it’s higher than straight men. But that’s only because we have a few guys making an extra effort for the team. 98% of gay men and 99% of straight men stop at no more than 20 partners.

    That’s still a hell of a lot for how I work. I didn’t want 19 rejects before I found my guy. And I don’t understand wanting someone to be a stranger again after you liked him enough to sleep with him. I would be a far better candidate for some polyamorous sex commune than a bunch of one-time hookups or some serial monogamy thing. If a guy is okay sleeping with more than one person in his life, he should be willing to do it all at once.

    Anyway yeah gay men and straight men are mostly the same. We tend to be more enthusiastic and honest about sex than women. Even me, after 20 years with the first and only guy to get me off, and never figured out hook-ups to save my life, I actually like sex. It’s one of those things like “what would you do if you won the lottery?” -more sex! “What do you suggest for a weekend get-away, sex or kayaking or visiting a history museu—“ SEX! And do you enjoy “making love” or “fucking” your man? Both! Sometimes it’s nice to be intimate and sometimes it’s nice to just get off on each other.

    A lot of women don’t seem to enjoy sex, or they think they’re doing a favour or enduring a chore or that it’s really ALWAYS about something else other than physical pleasure with someone you enjoy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    I don't know, but I know which one has better sex.

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    Good question. I honestly don't know and because Im bi, I don't think I know where I fit in. I can say that I go through cycles, but I'm always horny so I'm always obsessed. I'm no help but this is going to be a cool thread, quantification will be sweet.
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    Re: Are Gay Men Any More Obsessed With Sex Than Straights?

    Well I cant speak for all people, but maybe most of the gay guys I know are "hyper sexual" then and constantly frequent bath houses, gay camp grounds, and almost anywhere else sex is plentiful. Also most I know don't care if they catch an STI as its almost a badge of honour in the community and any others who don't fuck at the drop of a hat are considered "pearl clutchers." Even HIV is no longer an issue to most gays I know. They just talk about who has the lowest viral load and bareback all they want, no disclosure.

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    OMG only 20 - going back to a previous thread I may be an older whore type

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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    Fortunately this question has an answer you can just look up.

    https://www.theguardian.com/commenti...omiscuous-myth

    Most gay men and most straight men share an equivalent appetite for sex, totalling out at 20 partners. Literally the same number for almost all men, gay or straight. There are a few over-achieving hypersexual aficionados of sex, with hundreds of partners, and they tend to be gay. So if you look at the gay average, it’s higher than straight men. But that’s only because we have a few guys making an extra effort for the team. 98% of gay men and 99% of straight men stop at no more than 20 partners.

    That’s still a hell of a lot for how I work. I didn’t want 19 rejects before I found my guy. And I don’t understand wanting someone to be a stranger again after you liked him enough to sleep with him. I would be a far better candidate for some polyamorous sex commune than a bunch of one-time hookups or some serial monogamy thing. If a guy is okay sleeping with more than one person in his life, he should be willing to do it all at once.

    Anyway yeah gay men and straight men are mostly the same. We tend to be more enthusiastic and honest about sex than women. Even me, after 20 years with the first and only guy to get me off, and never figured out hook-ups to save my life, I actually like sex. It’s one of those things like “what would you do if you won the lottery?” -more sex! “What do you suggest for a weekend get-away, sex or kayaking or visiting a history museu—“ SEX! And do you enjoy “making love” or “fucking” your man? Both! Sometimes it’s nice to be intimate and sometimes it’s nice to just get off on each other.

    A lot of women don’t seem to enjoy sex, or they think they’re doing a favour or enduring a chore or that it’s really ALWAYS about something else other than physical pleasure with someone you enjoy.
    The question was: are gay men more OBSESSED with sex, NOT, DO THEY HAVE MORE SEX.

    Being older, and having more life experience - in San Francisco, no less - I can't dispute the Bay Guardian stats about guys having sex, but I sure find gay guys are more obsessed with it. Gay men having been going to the gym FAR longer than straight men, whose first health/bodybuilding magazine didn't come out until 1990. The gay community had been gym-goers since the early 70s (in New York) and then, in San Francisco, although there was a certain coterie of guys who worked out (mainly, the FIRST "A" crowd - those who were 20 years old by 1970 or around that) constantly.
    I'm surprised there's any question about that: just look at how many comments in the fetish/relationship forums are about how to "get" a guy (usually straight, but not always) into bed. I feel like a senior citizen milling around 16-year olds who've just discovered their dicks.

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    Re: Are Gay Men Any More Obsessed With Sex Than Straights?

    The point of the above post about the gay crowd working out starting in the 70s was simply this: it was to attract more guys - for sex. Ok Cupid is fine for a company that's 14 years old, but they hardly represent the last word in gay attitudes, unless you want to exclude anyone born before 1990. If you go back to the first "out" generation, you'd find an extremely high number of guys who were obsessed with who they were going home with on a Saturday night. It was an observation I made to my roommate around 1977. She was starry-eyed about how wonderful it was, and some of it WAS wonderful. But I pointed out that most of the guys there looked like they were hunting for the Saturday Night Special and she should observe more closely. The next morning (post-acid, but still...) she said that she saw what I meant. As I recall her words, it went something like, "I saw guys looking around like, 'Who can I bear to fuck tonight?'"
    So, I'll stick with my original observation: gay men are quite a bit more obsessed with having sex. But then, again - as I already said - when you're a marginalized culture, you have to be careful about your desires. And I doubt someone living in Mississippi is able to just go out and have sex whenever they choose, so of course they're going to be thinking about it more often than someone who's gay in, say, LA (although Michael Fassbender did a great job portraying a sex obsessed man in his film "Shame" in 2011). NOW, he was straight in the film, but still got head off of guys.

    When you can't get as much of something as you want (like sex) without worrying about having your head bashed in, shot, or otherwise beat up, you spend a LOT more time thinking of how to get it. I think that qualifies as "obsessed."
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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    Fortunately this question has an answer you can just look up.

    https://www.theguardian.com/commenti...omiscuous-myth

    Most gay men and most straight men share an equivalent appetite for sex, totalling out at 20 partners. Literally the same number for almost all men, gay or straight. There are a few over-achieving hypersexual aficionados of sex, with hundreds of partners, and they tend to be gay. So if you look at the gay average, it’s higher than straight men. But that’s only because we have a few guys making an extra effort for the team. 98% of gay men and 99% of straight men stop at no more than 20 partners.

    That’s still a hell of a lot for how I work. I didn’t want 19 rejects before I found my guy. And I don’t understand wanting someone to be a stranger again after you liked him enough to sleep with him. I would be a far better candidate for some polyamorous sex commune than a bunch of one-time hookups or some serial monogamy thing. If a guy is okay sleeping with more than one person in his life, he should be willing to do it all at once.

    Anyway yeah gay men and straight men are mostly the same. We tend to be more enthusiastic and honest about sex than women. Even me, after 20 years with the first and only guy to get me off, and never figured out hook-ups to save my life, I actually like sex. It’s one of those things like “what would you do if you won the lottery?” -more sex! “What do you suggest for a weekend get-away, sex or kayaking or visiting a history museu—“ SEX! And do you enjoy “making love” or “fucking” your man? Both! Sometimes it’s nice to be intimate and sometimes it’s nice to just get off on each other.

    A lot of women don’t seem to enjoy sex, or they think they’re doing a favour or enduring a chore or that it’s really ALWAYS about something else other than physical pleasure with someone you enjoy.
    Oh, and just for the fun of it, there was also a "study" done back in 1977 (or was it 78) about how many partners the "average" gay man had. It was stated that the average gay man had 500 (yes, you read that right. 5.0.0) sex partners, which just goes to show why it was also called the "swingin' seventies."

    So, Ok Cupid's fine if you're a Millennial, but for the first "out" gay generation, it seemed to be "lemme at 'em!!!"
    It sure showed up in the huge number of AIDS cases in the 80s... You didn't see straights getting it remotely as much. That's why AIDS was named 'The Gay Disease." The extremely homophobic Black community had the stupidity to call it "The White Man's Disease." Fortunately, my mother - a strong personality (like me) went around telling people that her son was gay (that would be me!) and I wasn't white (well, partially white, but that's beside the point).
    There's a lot of history that younger writers/journalists only know by the stories they read: they weren't actually THERE, just like most people weren't in San Francisco when Harvey Milk was assassinated. And then there are those of us who lived through those times, we KNOW how promiscuous guys were in SF (AND LA) and some of us lived in SF and remember when Harvey was murdered. I don't need to read stories about anything that happened in San Francisco in the 70s, 80s, 90s or up to 2002. I saw it, read it or reported on it when it happened.
    So, points to OK Cupid, whose target audience is..what, 21 - 38? Not exactly a sweeping survey. AND, only conducted in North America. (read the fine print). I suppose, as a former reporter, I'd want to examine the questions asked very closely. But us (former) reporters were much more investigative about our stories.
    I'm open to rebuttal, especially from someone in my age group (60-80). Maybe I'm off the mark. But I really doubt it.

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    I doubt it, but then again I'm sex crazed for both genders.

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    I don't think obsessed is the right word to use here. Do I think gay guys tend to a) have sex more often and b) tend to be both more focused on sex and more more quick to get to sexual encounters, then yeah, I would. I don't think it is an obsession though. I think straight guys if anything tend to be more obsessed with it, but in terms of needing a partner and putting so much focus on relationships with sex being the ultimate goal. for gay guys, I think it is just easier to have sex, sex tends to be less serious, and comes with less baggage. I hate to put int in terms of stereotypes, but for straight guys, they go through the whole dinner, date, chatting up, the whole dating scene, so really they get to have sex. Whereas a guy, if that is all they want, can pretty much say "Hey, want to go have sex", and has a decent chance of getting a positive reply if done to the right crown.And since it is so much more available and so much fewer repercussions thy tend to spend more time doing it.

    I think those straight guys who start getting it sex with other men (some of the "Bi" crowd) I think they tend to be the same way.

    I think though too that really when you talk about straight and gay you are really talking about those who are active with their sexuality, because if you don't really have sex or participate in sex or have relationships, do you really even think of yourself as gay?
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    Mcbrion, you make some good points!

    Only thing I’d say about averages is that they are average. If it’s 500, that really means one guy like me has slept with one guy, and another guy has slept with a thousand. If you average it out it’s 500 but me and this other guy are no where near the average bin way bÍle, he’s way above

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    If the question is being “obsessed” with sex, then I agree with Cormac135: judging by the people I know, I think straight guys are just as horny as gay guys.

    Women, on the other hand, tend to be a lot less horny (with plenty of exceptions of course). So I do think straight guys have a harder time acting on their urges, whereas we gay guys don’t have that issue. To me, that’s the big difference, not the number of sex partners or whatever....

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    No. We're just more honest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    Mcbrion, you make some good points!

    Only thing I’d say about averages is that they are average. If it’s 500, that really means one guy like me has slept with one guy, and another guy has slept with a thousand. If you average it out it’s 500 but me and this other guy are no where near the average bin way bÍle, he’s way above

    Anyway good point about the 70’s and millennials, and thanks for your POV.
    And some gay guys have sex with more than 1000 guys, If you go to the bathhouse once a week and have sex with 10 guys a night that's 500 in only a year. A lot of gay guys went thru their crazy sex years when they were younger and it was mostly casual hook ups. One time at a get together some guys in their mid 50s were talking about the late 70s and early 80s and how they used to go to sex clubs.

    I think things are a little different now with gay marriage and more people accepting gay relationships but many people grew up in families where it was forbidden to be gay or where you felt shame about it.
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    I think location has a lot to do with it too. If you live in a small town, there may be less gay sex available. But, if you live in a major city with a large LGBT community, gay sex is plentiful everywhere you turn. Personally I know several gay guys who claim to be sex addicts and can AND do fuck 20-30 guys a week.
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    How exactly are people defining sex? At what point does oral become defined as "sex"

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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    Mcbrion, you make some good points!

    Only thing I’d say about averages is that they are average. If it’s 500, that really means one guy like me has slept with one guy, and another guy has slept with a thousand. If you average it out it’s 500 but me and this other guy are no where near the average bin way bÍle, he’s way above

    Anyway good point about the 70’s and millennials, and thanks for your POV.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Paradigm View Post
    How exactly are people defining sex? At what point does oral become defined as "sex"
    The minute a penis and a mouth touch of their own free will.

    It's not called "oral flirting."

    When you see your grandma she doesn't blow you because "it's not sex, dear, it's just oral, now come give grandma a nice bit of 69."

    Oral sex. The clue is in the name.
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    ^^^

    Thanks. The idea that your mouth swallowing someone's dick is not "sex" is pretty ridiculous. And the same argument Bill Clinton using during his trail in 1998. It's like Clinton having said, "that depends on what the meaning of "is" is." I liked the guy, but he was an emotional idiot, sadly. but then, he was only 14, emotionally speaking. It's called "oral SEX."

    YEESH. Who even argues this point? A 3-year old maybe. But anyone older than 14? You've either lived in a monastery, or....wait, that's not a good example, either.
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    So you think that everyone calls oral sex "sex", straight and gay?

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    No, but I think we act out on it more. That may change when one day being gay is no big deal and we are no longer (self)defined by merely the sexual act.

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    Gay men are obsessed with sex with men. Straight men are obsessed with sex with women. It is just much easier for us to get it.




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    When a straight guy goes after a woman, he buys her dinner, takes her to a movie, and maybe, just maybe if they hit it off real well, they end up having sex.

    When a gay guy goes after another gay guy, they have sex. And if that really, really goes well, they will tell each other their names, and maybe, just maybe, go out to eat sometime.

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    😂😂😂...........

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    Quote Originally Posted by cityboy-stl View Post
    Gay men are obsessed with sex with men. Straight men are obsessed with sex with women. It is just much easier for us to get it.
    I couldn’t agree more!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Paradigm View Post
    When a straight guy goes after a woman, he buys her dinner, takes her to a movie, and maybe, just maybe if they hit it off real well, they end up having sex.

    When a gay guy goes after another gay guy, they have sex. And if that really, really goes well, they will tell each other their names, and maybe, just maybe, go out to eat sometime.
    This one also hit the nail on the head. I speak from experience on this one (though granted, my experiences with women were many years ago...)

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    How would we even measure this exactly?

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    Quote Originally Posted by fabulouslyghetto View Post
    How would we even measure this exactly?
    With persistence and as often as possible.
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    Men are men, we are wired to want sex. Women enjoy sex, but are wired to want love and romance. Just my observation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cormac135 View Post
    I'd say no if the behaviour of my straight friends is anything to go by.
    I would say no, but there motives are very different.
    Straight men are (probably subconsciously) desperate to breed
    Gay men are just in it for the pleasure

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    Quote Originally Posted by KaraBulut View Post
    With persistence and as often as possible.
    I'm talking about obsession with sex not penis size.

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    I think men are more obsessed with sex than women, regardless of sexuality.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Taz View Post
    I think men are more obsessed with sex than women, regardless of sexuality.
    probably true

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    Naw son naw.

    Men want sex.

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    Women are slower to warm up. With men, it's instantaneous, so we think about it more and act on it more. The penis just wants to play all the time.

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