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    I wanna have sex, but I'm worried to death

    I've been struggling with acne and acne scars (currently on medications
    to treat them) all over my back until down below. Plus anal is always painful for me my ex used to go slow for over 30 minutes until he goes hard, which literally makes me tear. Now that it's been months for our breakup I'm terrified of how painful it will be the next time I end up in bed with another guy and it will be really uncomfortable for me because of my skin. What should I do?

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    Re: I wanna have sex, but I'm worried to death

    It sounds like you're tying the acne with the with the anal sex, which is a bit odd to me.
    So if your concern is you'll never find another guy because of the acne, I don't think you have much to worry about. For most people it's going to be a non-issue; it in no way impedes a person's everyday life or ability.

    There are a few options where sex is concerned, you could top (You also wouldn't be showing your acne which might make you feel more confident), you could focus on other sex acts (frotting and oral for example), you could practice with dildos, figuring out your limits, what feels good. Talking with your doctor might be a good idea as well; sex shouldn't be painful, maybe there's a medical explanation for the pain?
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    Re: I wanna have sex, but I'm worried to death

    Not every guy will be grossed out by acne or acne scars, but I do understand this is your fear. You could keep a t-shirt or tank top on if that helps you feel more comfortable.
    As for the sex part, are you exclusively a bottom?

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    Re: I wanna have sex, but I'm worried to death

    Thank you both for your replies. I'm not tying my acne with sex because the moment me and my partner start I forget about everything. It was extremely painful for me at first because it was my first time. Second time until the last time I had sex with him it was still extremely painful. My acne starts from my back until all the way down to my thighs. I can't cover it unless I ask my partner to do it under the blanket, which won't be very satisfying to him. I've been meeting people recently and every time I mention that I'm not comfortable with anal, they start losing interest. Sadly yes, I'm exclusively a bottom. I would love to top but that requires a tremendous amount of trust and confidence because the first time I tried it, it was a disaster

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    Re: I wanna have sex, but I'm worried to death

    Everybody needs a little of what you need. I pray you will meet a gentle-man who makes you comfortable. I hope you two flip in the dark and laugh your hearts out at the end. No sh*t. You're in my prayers.
    See how beautiful we are and blessed, too. Together we are excellent.

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    Re: I wanna have sex, but I'm worried to death

    Get yourself clean before sex, and wear a small buttplug

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