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    Do you fuck around with your friends?

    Can a gay guy fuck or be fucked by his friends without catching feelings? I've been invited to go to a bath house with some buds, and I really want to go, but I'm so nervous. I'm trying to get over my stigma of 'recreational sex' and just have fun, life is too short to be such a prude. The problem is with my fella, he won't come, but I have his apprehensive blessing, though I know he will mind. Do I tell him? I've tried to talk to him about my needs physically but he still just does what he wants, when and how he wants it, and I'm left feeling unfulfilled. What to I do? 😯
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    Re: Do you fuck around with your friends?

    Well, you know he really doesn't want you to do this, but you feel he is not fulfilling your needs and it sounds like he could if he were willing. This is not first and foremost a sexual issue....it's a relationship issue. Deal with that before you do anything else.

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    Re: Do you fuck around with your friends?

    Just go and do it, fuck the boyfriend if he's not satisfying you, lead with your dick.

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    Re: Do you fuck around with your friends?

    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    Well, you know he really doesn't want you to do this, but you feel he is not fulfilling your needs and it sounds like he could if he were willing. This is not first and foremost a sexual issue....it's a relationship issue. Deal with that before you do anything else.
    I totally agree, it is a control issue. He has to do everything his way, and on his terms. I've been trying to resolve this issue with him for almost 10 years now but with no success and I'm so tired of it. I'm at the point now that, without his cooperation in this relationship, I'm ready to move on. I feel like my life is passing me by. He'a quite a bit older than me and has had his fun, but now he wants me to stay nice and pure just for him. And I'm tired of it. I want more. I want fun before I'm dead.

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    Re: Do you fuck around with your friends?

    Nope, because I don't have any gay or bi friends

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    Re: Do you fuck around with your friends?

    Really? Why not?
    Anyway, I told the BF I'm going and asked if he wanted to join me. He said nope, wasn't interested.
    Last edited by mikey3000; June 26th, 2018 at 07:15 AM.

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    Re: Do you fuck around with your friends?

    Well it sounds like you have your answer.

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    Re: Do you fuck around with your friends?

    I've fucked around with friends before. I never got feelings since i tend to compartmentalize things. But a few have developed feelings for me which just causes drama so I don't do that anymore for both of our sanity.

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    Re: Do you fuck around with your friends?

    Sometimes the title of threads and the content has a little bit of mismatch. There's really two different questions you're asking:
    1. Is it cool to mess around with friends that you don't have any feelings for?
    2. Is is cool to mess around with people outside your relationship without the complete support of your partner?


    On the first question, the answer is "sure". Young people do it all the time. The question for you is whether it's right for someone your age with your obligations. That's something only you can answer for yourself.

    On the second question, it's a lot more difficult. There's more to a relationship than sex. But sex and intimacy are also a reasonable expectation in a relationship. If you're not getting what you want and there's no interest in compromise, then you have to weigh whether you're willing to risk losing what you have in order to get something you want. Open relationships work for some people but they also wreck a fair share of relationships when both parties aren't fully on board with the idea.
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