Dis body fluid phobia equate with inability to enjoy sex?

[MrRochesterNY]

I was reading a website today where asexual people post. I was amazed by their antipathy to body fluids, body smells, and body tastes. It seems that this antipathy correlates with asexuality. Pondering this new revelation, the case of our dear Telstra came to my mind.

He really seems to dislike anything that is connected with the natural human body, especially body fluids and secretions, considering them gross and filthy. Even his own, I think. How do people with that mindset ever get to enjoy sex or intimate contact with a naked body? Most JUBbers seem quite the opposite, enjoying some degree of body contact and sharing, even to a degree that might squick the average person. Witness the posting in Gay Fetish, Kink, and Porn room.

P.S. "Dis " in the subject line here is a typo for "Does".

[NotHardUp1]

"Dis body fluid"?

What's up wid dat?

[rareboy]

There are so many people who have been fucked up by their parents or grandparents harping on everything being 'dirty' or dangerous that it leaves them scarred for life. Some also seem to have an innate distaste (pardon the pun) for it....it can relate to sensory receptor wiring that triggers revulsion because of certain smells, tastes or textures.

I feel so sad for them.

[NotHardUp1]

It's also increasingly common to see people averse to anything but the most familiar or bland foods.

So many people will not eat so many foods based on texture alone, much less spices or other factors.

[zombiekiller]

It's also increasingly common to see people averse to anything but the most familiar or bland foods.

So many people will not eat so many foods based on texture alone, much less spices or other factors.

Nothing bothers me more than seeing someone try out something new by taking a tiny little piece, make a face of disgust, make a comment "ewwww", make an even worse face of disgust while putting the tiny little piece in his/her mouth, and pretend to make the vomit reaction.

I've seen this plenty of time. And I'm talking about foods like duck and rice, nothing too exotic.

You are right that there seem to be more and more of this type nowadays. They are unable to eat anything but things like french fries and chicken nuggets. I used to think they're just rich-wannabes and pretending to not be able to eat anything new. Nowadays, I think it's the way they were raised. I blame the parents for not having given them enough variety food-wise. And that created a generation of people who think duck tastes like dog poop or something.

[NotHardUp1]

I have friends who eat a very restricted diet that is by choice, and I love them very much. I'm just disappointed that we cannot share as many great things in cuisine. We all have our quirks in life, and I have my own.

My friends in my hometown managed a Chinese restaurant. They were terrible at it, but I found them very appealing as people and we became friends despite them knowing limited English and me only knowing a handful of words in Mandarin. They soon were inviting me to celebrate Chinese New Year's with them. I have eaten no end of bizarre dishes, the most memorable was some shredded pickled jellyfish. It isn't anything I'd ever order by choice, but I wouldn't give up the memory of having been welcomed for any price. I was honored to be their friend and guest.

[MrRochesterNY]

"Dis body fluid"?

What's up wid dat?

Read the P.S. on my OP. While typos in the body of a text can be corrected, a typo in the subject line can't, and I've got to learn to check the subject line before hitting "Post Quick Reply."

[NotHardUp1]

Read the P.S. on my OP. While typos in the body of a text can be corrected, a typo in the subject line can't, and I've got to learn to check the subject line before hitting "Post Quick Reply."

Thanks.

Mods can and do correct titles when requested . . . if you can find one on the forum.

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

I was reading a website today where asexual people post. I was amazed by their antipathy to body fluids, body smells, and body tastes. It seems that this antipathy correlates with asexuality. Pondering this new revelation, the case of our dear Telstra came to my mind.

He really seems to dislike anything that is connected with the natural human body, especially body fluids and secretions, considering them gross and filthy. Even his own, I think. How do people with that mindset ever get to enjoy sex or intimate contact with a naked body? Most JUBbers seem quite the opposite, enjoying some degree of body contact and sharing, even to a degree that might squick the average person. Witness the posting in Gay Fetish, Kink, and Porn room.

P.S. "Dis " in the subject line here is a typo for "Does".

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[dpnice]

................. Nowadays, I think it's the way they were raised. I blame the parents ..............................

So following on from your arguments parents should have jerked off over their children, peed on them and wiped shit on them in order that they became accustomed to dealing with bodily fluids.

[NotHardUp1]

So following on from your arguments parents should have jerked off over their children, peed on them and wiped shit on them in order that they became accustomed to dealing with bodily fluids.

Wait! Do you mean to suggest some parents don't?

[zombiekiller]

So following on from your arguments parents should have jerked off over their children, peed on them and wiped shit on them in order that they became accustomed to dealing with bodily fluids.

Remember the South Park episode where Mr. Garrison felt neglected by his elderly dad because he never sexually abused him?

[rareboy]

So following on from your arguments parents should have jerked off over their children, peed on them and wiped shit on them in order that they became accustomed to dealing with bodily fluids.

Not really.

But parents can teach their kids from an early age that there's nothing to be ashamed of or that the act of defecating or urinating is somehow bad or not 'healthy'. It is the same with kids eating dirt, or dealing with animal shit.

I've watched how some parents toilet train their kids and deal with using excrement and pissing as some kind of shaming experience.

Good parents and grandparents and teachers can make all of this more normal....that waste is expelled....that it needs to be treated with respect and that personal cleanliness is important for good health. Beyond that, we need to accept that what we excrete isn't always pretty, but that it is easy to deal with without losing your shit (so to speak) over the look or smell of waste.

I was raised in a family that came from a farming background and my mother was a nurse. So on one hand, shit was everywhere when we were out on my grandparent's farm and was completely normal and on the other, my mother had a professional detachment from human waste and taught us that it was no big thing. I also came from an extended family where it was quite clear that many people very much enjoyed sex and it was never treated as ugly or dirty.

I am grateful for all of that.

[Lifeafter30]

Yes of course it does. Every blow job I give, the moment I taste precum I start to think this is it in three months I'm going to test positive for HIV.

[rareboy]

^ Meh. So what?

Something's going to kill you. Pre-cum is at least tasty.

[eastofeden]

I firmly believe that being born in an era of AIDS where SEX=DEATH has fucked up a lot of young gay men....and fears morph sometimes in order to avoid thinking about it.....

Or maybe they were molested and might not even know it or remember it so that is a defense mechanism to avoid it.

Religion has it's hand in the mix too..shame and guilt have fucked up so many people....