The 4 L's

[Stoowii]

Luminosity (Brains), Likeability (Personality), Looks (self-explanatory) and Length (self-explanatory).

First off, I spent way too much time trying to figure out a clever way of explaining Brains, Beauty, Personality and Girth.

I first thought of the 4 P's: Personality, Physicality, Penis but I couldn't find a P for Intelligence. Then I thought of four S's: Smarts, Shape, Soul and Shaft, but it didn't look right.

But, I digress.

For those who are single, when looking for a man, how important is each adding up to 100? How important is his personality, brains, looks and penis size?

Example (Note: Not my actual percentages):
-Luminosity: 5%
-Likeability: 5%
-Looks: 45%
-Length: 45%

[DigitalFudge]

-Luminosity: 1%
-Likeability: 10%
-Looks: 30%
-Length: 59%


Likeability is interesting because I like guys who put up a more rugged distancing exterior but show a softer side to those they trust.


The rest I think everybody gets the picture

[refujiunderground]

luminosity-30%
likeability-55%
looks-10%
length-5%

all you really gotta do is basically be cool, have a bit of everything else and you're good with me. everything just balances itself out. you don't have to be super smart, really attractive, be all good in the body department or whatever the fuck. it's really the simple things that count. someone who has no problem spending time at home cuddling while watching whatever tv show they like one day, wouldn't mind going to the bookstore to read books, willing to go walk in the woods afterwards, get silly, have fun, and basically help ourselves to strive for better in the long run. that's about it. simply someone who just comes as themselves and doesn't let the world dictate who they are but at the same time, is a bit aware of what's going on right now.

[blackbeltninja]

Hmmm. Tricky.

I tend to think the brains and the personality are not separable in my ideal mate. So I would weight them collectively as 70%, but whether this was 25-45 or 40-30 is (probably) immaterial. The looks are unfortunately still going to be pretty important.

The dick... as long as it's there and I can have at it, I'm happy regardless of size.

-d-

[star-warrior]

Brains : Perspicacity : per·spi·cac·i·ty n. Acuteness of perception, discernment, or understanding.

[Phantas33]

- Luminosity: 20%
- Likeability: 40%
- Looks: 30%
- Length: 10%

His personality has to be great, otherwise there's not really a point. Then Looks - he certainly has to look nice, I don't mind too much if he cares about the news but some level of intelligence is appreciated as for Length...nah last on my list really. By the time we get to length the first three stages have been passed already

[refujiunderground]

And another JUB discussion on one-dimensional penises that are all length and no girth.

You're right sis. Girth is much more important.

unless you have a gaping asshole where shit just flies out your ass or have a vagina, girth really doesn't matter. length does though because you're trying to stick your dick up there to the point where you're trying to reach the prostate.

[blackbeltninja]

^A doctor doing a DRE to check your prostate just uses a finger, so that's technically all the length you need.

Unless you're that one morose JUBber*, of course, in which case no matter what you've got and what people tell you you'll never ever think it's enough.

-d-
*Yes, it's him.

[Stoowii]

And another JUB discussion on one-dimensional penises that are all length and no girth.

I actually meant the penis as a whole, not just length. But used Length to play on the "L" theme. =P

[birddog7]

-Luminosity: 5%
-Likeability: 40%
-Looks: 40%
-Length: 15%

[crimsonpaine]

-Luminosity: 15%
-Likeability: 45%
-Looks: 25%
-Length: 15%

[andyspete]

-Luminosity: 20%
-Likeability: 30%
-Looks: 30%
-Length: 20%

[BFizzle]

Luminosity: This one is a fine line for me. No one likes a no it all bitch, but stupid ain't cute either. To give you an example, I was talking to this guy, and I had to stop because his Facebook posts embarrassed me. Talmbout he's finna ride a plain for the first time ever. Please at least have a GED before you approach me.

Likeability: Probably the most important of the four L's. If you have a good personality, that will make me overlook your flaws and focus on your good qualities.

Looks: I have to be the hotter person in the relationship, so average is fine here. (Don't y'all go blowing up my inbox after this. There's a difference in average and not having a profile picture. We all know why.)

Length: I'm a top so I'm not a size queen, but as with luminosity and looks, just because I don't want an overachiever doesn't mean I’ll accept the bare minimum either. One time this guy got me drunk and whipped out his small ass dick, and I swallowed it, but as soon as I sobered up I put my shirt on and left after he returned the favor. But at the same time don't pull out no 8" and expect me to deep throat. It's not going down like that. Literally.

So all things considered, I'd say:

Luminosity: 20%
Likeability: 40%
Looks: 30%
Length: 10%

[Stoowii]

Length: I'm a top so I'm not a size queen, but as with luminosity and looks, just because I don't want an overachiever doesn't mean I’ll accept the bare minimum either. One time this guy got me drunk and whipped out his small ass dick, and I swallowed it, but as soon as I sobered up I put my shirt on and left after he returned the favor. But at the same time don't pull out no 8" and expect me to deep throat. It's not going down like that. Literally.

So all things considered, I'd say:

Luminosity: 20%
Likeability: 40%
Looks: 30%
Length: 10%

The deception.




As for me, I realize I never put mine up.

Of course what attracts me is looks, but what keeps me is likeability. Everything else comes next. However, one thing though (and to play a little on what BFizz said), I have to be smarter than the candidate. So in all:

Luminosity: 10%
Likeability: 45%
Looks: 40%
Length: 5%