I really want to get "raped" by a friend, but can't take anal. If he "forced" himself on me would it work?!?

[curiousregina]

So, first off I have tried anal twice now and the first time it didn't work and hurt WAY too much (felt like I was gonna die for sure), but the second time I tried those "poppers" things and it worked that time (as in it wasn't totally unbearable) but still hurt.

I have a rape fantasy and would LOVE if my friend (who would be willing to do this and super into it too, even) would put a gag in me, tie me down and destroy me anally. BUT I don't know if this would damage me or not (he's really hung and I'm REALLY tight), and also I don't know how painful it would be? I've heard it "gets better" but in this situation would it just be total unbearable pain the whole time (hence the chains and gag to keep me from not letting him in, etc..) or would it start to be pleasurable too? I'm really sensitive but am super into this rape fantasy for some reason... Is this a really dumb idea or could letting myself get "raped" end up being really hot? I'm a super masochist but hate pain. go figure, haha.

Anyone have any ideas about this? Thanks!

[jft245]

Does not sound like a good idea to me. You state that he is really hung and this is only the third time you would be doing anal. I suspect that it would hurt you quite a bit and your friend would have no way of knowing if you were hurting or just getting into it with a gag in your mouth. If you do try it, set up a signal before hand to let him know that you want to stop and that means right now.

[the8thdocter]

use a whole load of lube, and use little sex toys (or whatever you have around the house) and just work your way up to the bigger dildoes and your bum will get used to the stretching

[palemale]

I would not do this if I were you until you are comfortable with and used to getting fucked before you put yourself in a position where you will be fucked and unable to get the guy to stop if something goes wrong or the pain becomes truly unbearable.

Your problem with anal may be that certain positions cause you pain and discomfort. I, for example, am always in pain and discomfort getting fucked doggie style. I've had guys with big cocks try to fuck me doggie and its painful. Getting it from the side or sitting on top with the same guys, however, was no problem.

[benram]

Masochist ? ... , but hate pain ? Been around and thought I'd heard it all, but that's a first. A masochist who hates pain. Hmm... oh well, to each his own. As for getting fucked / raped in the ass , for me anyways, it's really a combination of physical and mental. If I find a man to be very attractive , I seldom have any trouble letting him enter me regardless of how big he is. Even the times when it hurt some in the beginning, I always managed to let him fuck me as long as he wanted. For example, like the married Palestanian man with a muscular hairy body and big fat cock whom I had a brief affair with. I had to open my mouth as wide as possible to get that huge fat cock in my mouth. It was really hard to keep my mouth open so wide for any amount of time. So, what was I to do ? I'll tell you what I did. I threw my legs up in the air and let him fuck me with his big cock , moaning with pleasure while he fucked me for about an hour at a time, while I loved every minute of it. Opps, sorry , suppose I'm just bragging now. Although, I have had many good experiances like that with some very good looking, hung and even (so called) straight as well as openly gay men. Opps, there I go, bragging again. Anyways, back to your problem, why don't you start out by having your rapist start on you orally. You know, I never met a man who does'nt enjoy or is at least open to the idea of being tongue fucked. Then have him slide his hard throbbing cock in a little at a time , once it's in as far as you can take it, he should stop for a moment or so then slowly ease back about an inch then in and out slowly, gently , passionatly kissing each other all over, mouth, neck, chest nipples. Let yourselves go in the passion of the moment and hopefully before long, you'll be taking it like a pro, moaning with pleasure and wanting it to last longer. Good luck with that, I'm going to give my Palestanein man, a ringaling for his dingaling now. ( I'm suddenly in the mood for a good long ass pounding, and he's so good at that.) Ciao.

[benram]

P.S. , Yes it mostly likley will hurt, but for me at least, it hurts so good. Ciao again.

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P.S. , Yes it mostly likley will hurt, but for me at least, it hurts so good. Ciao again.

[hylas]

this is a really bad idea, and you shouldnt do it.

you need to learn first how to "do anal right" before you start with anal rape scenarios. poppers can help, but if you took them and it still hurt, then something is not right. pain is your bodys way of telling you that its taking damage, and you should take those signs seriously, or youre gonna end up doing serious damage to yourself.

so, do some more vanilla anal, find out what works for you, get some experience. if you wanna realize a rape scenario in the meantime, you should leave out anal. he can tie you up, spank you, face-fuck you, and come all over your face. be safe, only do it with people you trust, and agree on a safe-word!

[nycmuscledad]

I think how much your butt relaxes is a lot psychological --- how relaxed and turned-on you are to your partner. So if you get very turned on by him and the situation, I think your sphincter would relax. .....And then there are other guys who'd be turned ON to the pain, but it doesnt sound like youre one of them.

Personally speaking, I am like your friend --- I like the idea of being a top in a "rape" scenario. But even so, if the sub was in obvious writhing pain, that'd ruin it for me. (Actually my true fantasy is "raping" a guy who's asleep...or "asleep" ).

[Hidden Element]

some ideas are probably left as fantasies, if u go ahead could really hurt u and ruin ur fantasy....

[Storybook_Man]

I would wait until you learn how to take it. There are certain spots you should put a guys cock. If the guy aims to high towards your back it will hurt more. If you aim lower to right under your balls it will be looser and easier, or well it is for me (good or bad? I think I have a nice tight hole and know how to use it ). The best things you could try are just getting out of a bath where your hole soaks up a lot of water and will be easier access for your rape scene. I know lubing up or opening you up before fucking sort of takes away from the rape scene but it will help trust me. Also as you said, poppers will help ease the pain and loosen up your hole. I'd try using a dildo first then go to the real thing.

[HornyHenry]

If it's your third time getting fucked you wouldnt want to get raped or "raped" by a well-hung man whether real or a scene because he will most likely rip you open like happens in jails and prisons.