I'm a virgin so I have no
practical experience in these things - but after many years of watching all sorts of porn and exploring/discovering my own little turn-ons and turn-offs, I think I have a pretty good idea of what I would/wouldn't be into.
In terms of booty-play: one of my biggest fantasies is for a big black daddy to slowly pull my shorts down and gently bend me over his knee. But I don't like pain so it wouldn't be a rough "Daddy/Master-I've-been-naughty"-type spanking, I just want some gentle butt-play. I quite like the idea of having my booty LIGHTLY slapped - a gentle grabbing and cupping of the cheeks with a bit of friendly patting. Feeling his hands spread my cheeks before slowly and tenderly exploring my hole. I want to hear him get excited and make little noises (does that make any sense? I couldn't quite explain it!) and tell me how beautiful it is/I am and how turned on it's making him.
But the odd thing is - as much as I absolutely HATE the idea of pain, I must admit I get
REALLY horny watching the rough spankings here:
http://www.blackspankmaster.com/ (just the trailers though, I'm too cheap to get a membership, LOL). Perhaps it's the raw masculinity/dominance of the black daddies/masters that turns me on, rather than the spankings they dish out.
As for
giving - I think I would treat my partner's booty the same way I want him to treat mine. I don't think I could ever dish out a rough spanking - I'm a very affectionate person so I couldn't bear to hurt someone I love, no matter how much it turns him on. But I think the black man's booty is the most beautiful thing in the world (well, equal to the black man's penis) so I would
definitely want to play with it and massage it and just rub my hands all over it.
As for rimming/eating - I'm kind of indifferent to it. I love looking at a black crack and would probably even 'nuzzle' it, but as for sticking my tongue right in? I honestly don't know. It doesn't really appeal to me, but if my partner wanted to try it I'd go along with it. But I don't think it's something I'd ever initiate.
One more thing - here's a spanking blog I love:
http://blackmalebuttwhuppin.blogspot.com/
It's a bit on the 'rougher' side, but it's FULL of tasty black booty!