Advice Needed: First Bi-Experience soon... dude prefers smooth guys!

[kareem8]

Hey.

I'm about to have my first bi-experience soon, pretty discreet and well planned sort of thing with a really nice hot guy. I think he's perfect for having some good fun with otherwise I wouldn't dare explore my bi-side. I've got a pretty furry body and the dude's mentioned he really likes smooth guys, even asked if I could shave (but then took that request back, but it's still stuck in my mind now).

Never shaved my chest, can't imagine doing my ass either. But I don't want to turn him off when we're naked...

[HunterM]

One popular alternative to shaving your hair completely off is trimming your chest hair to a shorter length. They call it manscaping.

[kareem8]

Hey thanks! Yeah, I was thinking about doing that. I hope I don't do a dodgy job of it though.

[Blueboy369]

Use electric clippers on everything above the waist. Don't trim pubes too much, just shape up the sides.

[Str8Top14701]

It all depends how hairy you are. If you just have an avg amount of hair, trimming isn't that hard. But if you're very hairy a trim is going to look a bit odd.

[Benvolio]

If he likes smooth, shorter hair is not a substitute. Shave your chest and you may decide that you prefer it that way.

[str8guy]

Back and chest def shave arm pits make sure are neat as for your crotch and ass def clean up bc if he likes shaven hell appreciate the effort and just tell him I tried cleaning up I hope you like... Good luck brotha ; )

[DarkHelios]

If he withdrew the request, don't worry about it.
It's sounds like a preference, not a requirement.

[kareem8]

Hey thanks guys. I was thinking about trimming it quite a lot... but he's cancelled. Second time now. I don't get it.

[innocentbychoice]

^If he's on the down-low too it is pretty normal to cancel, maybe he got scared. Guys in the closet are a little bit annoying to handle sometimes .

[HunterM]

What??? He canceled. Loser! Come over to my place then. I'm available.

[kareem8]

Haha thanks for the offer Hunter. He said although he kept his bi-sex life private, he was experienced. He's been the one encouraging me to meet up but whenever we get close to the day something happens. I think he just likes talking dirty and that's it.

[palemale]

Avoid anyone who asks you to change something about yourself. If he doesn't like hairy guys, move on to someone else. Lots of men who are furry. Me, I fall into the Mae West camp. To paraphrase her, I like two kinds of men. Those that are furry, and those that aren't.

[innocentbychoice]

Avoid anyone who asks you to change something about yourself. If he doesn't like hairy guys, move on to someone else. Lots of men who are furry. Me, I fall into the Mae West camp. To paraphrase her, I like two kinds of men. Those that are furry, and those that aren't.

Well things aren't black or white. It's not like he's asking him to get a rhinoplasty, just to shave...The guy didn't even ask him really, just said that was his preference. There's nothing wrong with that.

[AlmondMilk]

Yeah, it doesn't seem like, from what I'm reading, that he really wants to meet up. I'm sorry man. I also have this problem, but usually it's trying to get a girl to join in on the threesome!

Well hopefully we both have these experiences soon.

[Telstra]

Try to be very clean and fresh before meet.
Its a turn off when people turn up with a smelly ass.

[jktoooo]

Don't do it. The guy sounds like a tease. let it go, make HIM CUM, or COME to you.