Hey there
Bsidney, thank you for your feedback.

I was sorry that you did not easily find guys in Texas to rim, but while I was single, I had a very hard time trying to find guys here that were "truly" into rimming. It was not uncommon for me to go 4 to 8 years without rimming one single guy or one single guy rimming me . . . it was that bad here in Los Angeles "for me". Though I knew the flings that I had with the guys in Texas would not last forever, however I thoroughly enjoyed it
ALL while it lasted. I don't regret it, and I still often think about both guys.
Oh for sure, I have come across gay men that were not into anal sex as well (giving or receiving). While I was single, I always skipped meeting guys that were not into anal sex, but I could go without rimming (giving or receiving) since most of the guys I ever came across were not into rimming, so I kinda got use to it. Yet over the years, when I was single, I also came across some gay men that were not into kissing, and I skipped meeting those guys as well. If I'm to have a happy sex life, my partner
MUST enjoy regular kissing, French Kissing, anal sex (giving and receiving), hugging and cuddling (giving and receiving), and blow jobs (giving and receiving). If my potential sex partner was not into those 5 things, we were not
EVER having sex.
LOL!!! Yet every guy I had a fling with (even when we knew that we were not going to date), was at least into the 5 sexual things.
In my case Bsidney, since trying to find a nice gay man (in my desired age range) here that was "truly" into rimming (here in Los Angeles) was like trying to find a needle in a haystack, I did not mind flying away to a nice faraway city for a 3 or 4 day weekend, just to have a good rim session with a guy. The guy and the "rim" travel trips were
ALWAYS worth it to me. Yet try going 4 to 8 years without ever rimming a guy.

Since I was growing older and not finding any nice guys here into rimming, that is why it was a necessity for me to fly to where these other "true" rimmers were. As nobody never said that a Fuck Buddy has to live in my city or near my city or in my state.
LOL!!! So I did not mind hopping on a plane to go where the available & willing assholes were.






If I were in your shoes Bsidney, with only 40 miles separating me from suitable rimming partners, I would have tried to make a few Rim Buddies where the available men could be found, then maybe drive those 40 miles (2 or 3 times per month) and go play with those guys while trying to have a good friendship with them, until things either fizzle-out with them or until things got serious with one of them, and then I would have acted accordingly. Thus in my case, I made sure that I stayed connected to both guys until they were ready to move-on. Yet I must say, both of those guys were just so great and outstanding and
AWESOME, I wish I could have afforded to pay to keep them around . . . because each of those guys were both worth their weight in gold, when it came to having an
EXCELLENT rim partner.
I'm happily partnered now, but to me, those mini-vacation extended weekend sex rimming trips, were the next best thing to being in a loving and happy relationship.
Wilson