My hot roommate flaunts it around me...

[Benvolio]

It depends on how important it is for him to stay in the closet. Some are in jobs or professions which would suffer. And I would not assume the other guy is interested. When some homophobic guys guess someone is gay, they flaunt it to test and prove.

[Charmander]

This guy is a douchebag!!!

[gibbons]

I appreciate what everyone has said and I realize it's not a 'Yes/No' type of situation for many -- especially me. I haven't seen Casey in about 3-4 days because of our schedules and when I know he's home when I am, I've avoided him a bit just because I need to be ready to react and I want to be firm in my actions -- whatever they are. I did hear him fucking 2 nights ago and instead of immediately finding porn and jerking it, I realized I've almost become used to it. So instead, I put my headphones on and listened to music while surfin' the web. I used to think Casey did it as a performance and for my benefit, but maybe that's in my head and he's just a real horny guy with a girlfriend and could care less who hears/knows about him fucking. I've always been attracted to that kind of 'I don't give a fuck if you know I'm fucking' attitude. Anyway...

I don't agree with this "giving him power" nonsense. What power? The hot roommate ALREADY knows his roommate is into guys. He's ALREADY seen him checking him out.

The hot roommate ALSO is into guys or he'd never be doing what he's doing. There's no "power" over anyone here.

Take it from me. I let fear keep me from so many times over the years where really good looking studs made passes at me. And the result is me jacking off to what could have been, years and years after the fact.

The original poster has nothing to lose. The "secret" is not a secret at all. Hot roommate already knows. Original poster should take advantage of the situation and have a great time. Now that would be HIS power.

Original poster: Fear nothing, except years from now saying I was too afraid. I didn't do this because I was afraid. I didn't do that because I was afraid. Seize the day, my friend.

Also, i learned in life that when you're comfortable being you, really being you, then this irrational fear of others "finding out" goes away! It really does. Happiness is yours if you allow it.

I really appreciate reading this. It has given me something to think on.

Benvolio
Re: My hot roommate flaunts it around me...
It depends on how important it is for him to stay in the closet. Some are in jobs or professions which would suffer. And I would not assume the other guy is interested. When some homophobic guys guess someone is gay, they flaunt it to test and prove.

This got me thinking too. I've somewhat suspected that some guys who are just cocky and like to be dominant want to flaunt, test, and prove their suspicion about another guy. I fear this may be the case -- but I'm not certain.

[Kyanimal]

Follow your Heart, "G"! Follow your Heart! It will rarely steer you wrong!

Whatever YOU might Feel like doing, or not, at any given time, then that's what you Should do! Don't "over think" it, just DO it! And, if it's putting in ear buds, and surfing a bit, then that's what you should do.

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

(Just as others have said, my main regrets come from what I DIDN'T Do! )

[arpeggi]

If I were you, I would start by talking more openly about being bisexual around this guy. And I don't mean in a joking, innuendo sort of way so that it isn't seen as serious. At least get it out in the open. I've never been one to hookup with straight guys, but many gays I've known have. And they get to because their straight friends know they're gay and take advantage of it to satiate a curiosity.

Either this guy is just a douchebag or he's masking a true curiosity through this alpha male posturing.

Try picking up a guy or having a fuck buddy and performing as loudly as your roommate does. Then proudly tell him how you just know he's jacking off to it, and take it from there.

In my opinion, this guy needs to be knocked down a few pegs. I think you can put him to the test and get him to prove to you that he's as hot, sexy and hung as he thinks he is, and the great performer he believes he is (probably isn't). Otherwise this little bi-curious ego-tripping banter between the two of you will forever remain just that.

[mblad99]

He seems like the type of guy who just likes to get off. I am sure if you want to suck him, he would let you. Porn and beer should do the trick.

But be careful, its going to be awkward after that.

[Benvolio]

Are you ready to come out your friends, not-so-friends, co-workers, and relatives? In your situation you will not be able to put the genie back in the bottle once you come out to this guy.

[dreamerboi]

Exactly, this "tale from the frat house" is TOTAL BS! All of you are just stroking the OP's overgrown porn-scripting imagination.

That is all.

I know right. I swear I have read many gay short stories like this one. lol

[Freespirited2011]

Original poster: Fear nothing, except years from now saying I was too afraid. I didn't do this because I was afraid. I didn't do that because I was afraid. Seize the day, my friend.

Also, i learned in life that when you're comfortable being you, really being you, then this irrational fear of others "finding out" goes away! It really does. Happiness is yours if you allow it.

Ive got to say I think this a great bit of advice and I think I need to take heed of it myself.
Cheers JNewYork

[Lefty]

Come on Dreamer...you to Skininy

He ain't hurtin nothin either way..

fuck all dudes, the thread is a good

serial with your cereal if nothing else.
*************************************

.. .... can lead to

closure maybe? ..

[mcbrion]

Sorry, I don't think following any impulse you have is the same as "being fearful." An impulse to punch someone in the nose is an impulse, but not doing it is the sensible thing to do.
The roommate is "onto" you, but he's also testing you to see what he can make you do. You could say "yes," and then he could say, "no way, man, I was only kidding."

This particular scenario is a long way from being a fearful person all your life, which is an entirely different thing. That kind of thing starts in your youth and pervades all your thinking and actions.
This calls for wisdom and knowing which action is a good move, and which one is not.

[AndrewC88]

Cool. Ive had a roomate like that. We ended being fuck budds

[AmeriCunt]

I imagine he looks like a Cody Cummings lookalike... he sounds perfect, tbh. Judge me. ):

[quasar]

I genuinely think that in order to move on, you have to be clear within yourself of how comfortable you'll be coming out as bisexual. If you're willing for them both (and therefore others) to know, then you can make your move. If you're not happy with coming out, then you simply need to use an attack line like "Dude, if you wanna get it on with a guy you're gonna have to look somewhere else because you've got the wrong person". You'll probably find him backtrack and make excuses for his behaviour.

If, however, you want to test him in the other direction, I've often found the best way to play them at their game is to call their bluff. As others have said, next time he starts making suggestions, take him up on it and see what his reaction is. I've certainly had some surprisingly positive experiences by doing that.

One of the things about straight curious guys is that they're often backward at coming forward, and it could be that this little game he's playing is the best he can do at making a move without making too much of a fool of himself by getting it wrong.

Of course, like others have said, he could just be your typical sporty uphimself fratboy...

Normally I'd ask if, in 50yrs time, you want to say "I'm glad I did" instead of "I wish I had", but equally, it could end up being a case of "I'm glad I didn't" instead of "I wish I hadn't"

[uncutgreekboi]

Is there a chance that he's in to you?

[sean118]

so has anything new happened?? dont leaving us hanging!

[gibbons]

so has anything new happened?? dont leaving us hanging!

Nothing new. I know he's fucked his girlfriend several times but I've been trying to ignore it by listening to music, or getting out of the house.

The other day though, I was walking back to my room after having just showered and only had a towel around me. Casey was walking from around the corner (neither of us realized we were there) and we sorta bumped into each other. He went to give me a playful jab in the arm but to his surprise I caught his hand and said "gotcha this time." I think he was taken aback and he said something like, "nice reflexes" and we went our different ways. I've seen him in just a towel or underwear and I'm always turned on by it. It dawned on me that a way I can find out if he's "into" me or just curious, I could turn the tables and start "flaunting" it around him now. See what happens.

[62624rd]

[quote=gibbons; It dawned on me that a way I can find out if he's "into" me or just curious, I could turn the tables and start "flaunting" it around him now. See what happens.[/quote]
that's a good ideal! But do'nt overdo it." As they say do unto others as they do unto you." use this as an excape clause

[Kyanimal]

Sweet, Gibbons! "Nice reflexes", indeed! I think you might be onto the 'right' approach here!

Best to You! And, yeah, please keep us posted.

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

[str8nready]

I knew Casey before he was my room mate. We have mutual friends. I'd see him out at bars and always thought he was a hot and sexy guy. He's tall, lean, muscularly toned but not too much, he has dark green eyes and wavy dirty blonde hair. He oozes of confidence and sexiness. He's the type of guy who knows he's got it and loves it. Among our friends, he was known as the "pussy magnet" because he always got laid whenever he'd go out. I used to be intimidated just talking to him. But having said all that, he really is nice and always treated me friendly.

So fast forward 2 years later, and I'm living with a friend I've known for a long time. We needed a third room mate to help with expenses and Casey needed a place to move. So it was an obvious choice.

Casey and my other room mate are as straight as they come. I'm bi, but they don't know that and I am very 'straight acting.' I have had one night stands with a few girls in the past so they would have no reason to suspect anything about me.

But lately, I've been more on the gay side of being bi and I haven't had a girl over in quite some time. So here's what my room mate Casey has done lately.

For the last year he's been dating the same girl and she stays here at least 3-4 nights a week. Every night they have sex and he could care less about being loud about it. We live in a townhouse but my room is beneath his so I always hear when he's fucking. He sounds so aggressive.

We had some friends over to watch the Super Bowl and right after it was over, in front of everyone, he told his girl friend he wanted to fuck and they went upstairs and started to go at it. I could her a few slaps in the midst of the bed thumping. I went into my room and couldn't do anything else but jack off. After 45 minutes of this, he came down to get a drink and was only wearing mesh sport shorts without any underwear. I could see his huge bulge and he was a bit sweaty. He looked at me without saying a word and just smiled like he knew he was the shit.

One time he came home really drunk and had a fight with his girl friend. She wasn't coming over. We were in the kitchen drinking a few beers and in front of our other room mate and a friend he kept getting really close to me and staring me down. He looked at me and said, 'you know I hear a mouth is just a mouth, buddy, and I really just want to fuck something. You want me whip my cock out for you?' I was suddenly speechless but I felt belittled in front of our friends who were laughing. Casey grabbed his bulge right in front of me and said 'c'mon I know you do. I just need to shoot my load.' I tried to play it off and just laughed along and then went into my room to jack off again.

A few days after that, we were just sitting around watching TV and out of no where he starts to tell me how he 'skull fucked' his girl friend this morning. He described the whole thing like I had asked him or something. He said how he kept pulsating his dick and hitting her in the face. Then he said how much he liked making her gag. He asked me if I've ever been able to make a girl gag on my dick. Before I could say anything, he said, 'my guess is your just average in size aren't you? well let me tell you buddy, I'm what they call hung and it feels great to watch a bitch struggle to take it.' Then he said how he shot his cum on her face and in her mouth and he took some pics with his phone if I wanted to see. He says all this with a huge smile on his face. I did see one picture of his girl friend with his cum on her face but his dick wasn't in the pic.

Just about 2 weeks ago, I had come home from work and Casey was in his room with this door open and talking to our other room mate. I have to walk past his room to use the bathroom and he said, 'hey buddy how ya doing?' I popped my head in his room to see what they were talking about. Of course, it was sex. He was standing at the foot of his bed and was explaining to us how he likes to fuck his girl friend from behind while he stands with her bent over the bed. He tried to grab me and use me as an example but I fought him off. He said in such a sexy voice, 'I like it when bitches try to resist, but they all give in.' Again, my other room mate starts laughing and I just said nothing. He then said how he likes that position cause he can pull her hair and slap her ass at the same time. Our other room mate asked if Casey's girlfriend lets him fuck her in the ass. He frowned and said, 'I've tried a lot, but she won't let me anymore because she says it hurts too much.' Then he laughed, grabbed his cock and balls and said, 'That's cause I got a big cock.' As I walked away, he said how he'd love to fuck a real tight ass though and commented that he thought I'd have a tighter ass than most pussy he's fucked.

The other day I had just gotten home from work, and Casey came in a few minutes after me. He does construction and painting and stuff like that, so his work clothes are always dirty, torn, and too tight on him. He looks amazingly hot with an I don't give a fuck attitude and swagger. He comes in and starts complaining about how he hates wearing underwear. He took his shirt off and went into his room. He left his door open and took his pants off. I saw him in his boxer briefs and from a profile side, I could see his huge bulge. Right as he turned to look at me, I turned and walked away. When he came back out, he was wearing only those mesh sport shorts and no shirt or underwear. He asked if I got a good enough look, to which I played dumb about.

A few nights ago, he came into the kitchen while I was in there. He was only wearing those cotton Polo pajama pants. I know he wasn't wearing any underwear cause the pajama pants were riding so low. He had a HUGE bulge in his pants that I just couldn't resist looking at. I know he saw me checking him out and then he came up real close to me again and constantly grabbed his bulge to 'adjust' it in his pants. He had this sly smile on his face knowing that I wanted to keep looking. He started talking to me about stupid bullshit that I didn't care about. He just wanted to have a reason to keep me there staring at him and his defined chest with a nice happy trail that led to his bulge where he made sure to keep grabbing in front of me. As I walked away to go down into my room, he said, 'hey, I'm gonna go fuck my girl friend now. I'll try to keep it down, but I can't promise anything. I'm sure you really enjoy the performance though, don't you?' I replied as if I didn't notice or care. He said, 'damn buddy, you haven't had a girl over in a while so I know you're not getting laid which means you gotta be beating off down there, right?' I said what's it matter to you? He said, 'It doesn't matter to me, but I'm sure I'm giving you plenty to work with.' Then he smiled, laughed, grabbed his bulge again and went into his room.

I had been thinking about starting this thread for a little while now, but I finally decided to because just earlier today, I walked into another conversation Casey was having with our room mate about if they've ever taken a Viagra or Cialis or something. Casey said, 'fuck no, I've always got an erection all the time as it is.' I walked in right as he said that and he again, grabbed his bulge, looked at me and said, 'you know I do, don't you?' I said nothing but just laughed it off again. Casey said, 'don't lie, I've seen you try to compare yourself with me.' I said he was crazy, but he laughed and said it's cool and he doesn't care, but if I keep it up he's gonna start 'charging me for looking.' I walked away and came here to get it all out.

I really don't know how this will end up. He's very straight and I feel like he's on to me about being bi or curious about him. There's no way I'd ever believe he'd be willing to let me suck him off or anything. I just think he loves the fact that I want to and that I can't. He clearly knows I've jerked off to him having sex. Does anyone else have similar experiences? It's driving me crazy how he does this.

dude he wants to experiment om my gosh..if mine were that bhlunt i would have gone for it.


suck and fuck him yes

[vulgar_newcomer]

why do these things always read like a fetish story? So detailed and the long responses cover every aspect to what posters have suggested.

If its true clearly he is abusing the situation, and you may dig that sort of turn on.
The best answer for me would be to aggressively turn the tables being loud, suggestive, & flirty with him in front of others. Make it known that you to can play that game big boy, bring it on but you aren't making me whimper head down in the corner blushing thinking you are the big dominate sexy alpha dog. Fuck that.

[oxford99]

why do these things always read like a fetish story? So detailed and the long responses cover every aspect to what posters have suggested.

If its true clearly he is abusing the situation, and you may dig that sort of turn on.
The best answer for me would be to aggressively turn the tables being loud, suggestive, & flirty with him in front of others. Make it known that you to can play that game big boy, bring it on but you aren't making me whimper head down in the corner blushing thinking you are the big dominate sexy alpha dog. Fuck that.

I like your point of view - it would be interesting to see it play out

[palbert]

Exactly, this "tale from the frat house" is TOTAL BS! All of you are just stroking the OP's overgrown porn-scripting imagination. That is all.

^^Agree. Notice the "interaction" almost disappeared after skinIsIn called him. Been had.

[gibbons]

^^Agree. Notice the "interaction" almost disappeared after skinIsIn called him. Been had.

Notice the interaction has almost disappeared because I have been avoiding my room mate while I seek some real advice on my situation?

This scenario is unlike any I've seen/heard/read about so naturally I wanted other gay/bi/curious guys' opinions on how to handle it. If you ask me, there's nothing "porn worthy" in what I wrote.

The little interaction that has occurred since the original post is almost identical to what I've already described. Do I need to comment everyday that I see my hot room mate doing something that turns me on? -- No. I thought that was implied. I've only updated on 2 different encounters where I thought I handled it differently and appropriately.

In my fantasy world, this true story would've ended with my room mate bursting into my room and pinning me down on my bed to make me suck his cock til he forces me to swallow his cum. That's a "porn worthy" story.

To those who have offered advice/opinions/feedback, I appreciate it and if or when something escalates to something worth posting, I'll update.

[skinIsIn]

In my fantasy world, this true story would've ended with my room mate bursting into my room and pinning me down on my bed to make me suck his cock til he forces me to swallow his cum. That's a "porn worthy" story.

At least you got your predictable authoritarian tale of humiliation finished w/o 'fessing up! (Technically)
Oh to be a moderator for a day, I'd move this to the "Gay Short Stories" thread in a New York minute.

To those who have offered advice/opinions/feedback, I appreciate it and if or when something escalates to something worth posting, I'll update.

Quit joshing, Gibby..."the truth shall set you free!"

[Thrasher12]

At least you got your predictable authoritarian tale of humiliation finished w/o 'fessing up! (Technically)
Oh to be a moderator for a day, I'd move this to the "Gay Short Stories" thread in a New York minute.



Quit joshing, Gibby..."the truth shall set you free!"

Good thing you aren't one then

Let us know if something happens Gibbons, were here for ya

[Kyanimal]

Good thing you aren't one then

Let us know if something happens Gibbons, were here for ya

I'll second that!

[menRsexii]

Casey sounds like a bully. He belittles you in front of your other roommates, makes fun of you, insinuates that you want him or to be like him etc etc etc. I guarantee that if you come out to him as bi he's going to make your life hell. He's an asshole. He does those things in front of others just to make himself look cool. Just like saying he wanted sex after the super bowl. he chose to say it loud and in front of the entire room. He's a juvenile show off and just plain mean.

He doesn't sound like a friend at all. Why you want to be around him is beyond me. I'd be looking for a new place to live by now. No way in hell I'd tell him anything personal. He's going to tell all of your friends and use it to make fun of you. Get away from this jackass. He's trouble.

Steven.

^ I think that's really good advice.

It seems like many here are saying the same thing -- that this Casey guy is an asshole. From what it sounds like, he is.

Now physically, he does sound hot, I'm not gunna lie. Reading your stories kind of got me turned on. But really, he's just trouble.

Don't let the pretty facade fool you. Quite often, the things most beautiful on the outside tend to be the ugliest on the inside. Don't let his spell overcome you. I would move out now if I were you, or as at least asap.

goodluck

[pushupsonmymouth]

I have to say, this is one of my very favorite threads. I can not wait until the day you get the chance to suck his cock. (Oh, please let that day eventually come!) I, for one, am Team Gibbons!

[sean118]

any more updates?

[youngnfun987]

id say dont mess around with him

[hotatlboi]

fuck this thread is so hot. YES! suck his cock

[Kulindahr]

You could also tell him that if this is his way of trying to get you to have sex with him it won't work. He should just come out and ask you nicely and take the chance that you might reject him. Then move in real close and say in your sexiest voice, "but who knows, big guy, I might say yes." When he turns red, just laugh.

I like this one.

Here's the flip side of that coin ...

Guys like Casey, as "hawt" as they may be, that act out like that, can be quite insecure individuals, seeking self 'validation' from others, through picking a 'victim' to publicly humiliate, in order to attempt to make themselves look 'bigger'/'better' than they, themselves, 'secretly' think they are. It's not only a shame, but also quite pitiful.

However, in order to 'reach' them, you first have to 'prove' that you can stand up to their deplorable (public) treatment of you.

That can be quite "tricky" though. Depending on the weakness of their own self esteem, turning the tables, humiliating Them in public, could possibly turn them into a real enemy that will only heighten their attempts to socially 'harm' you.

Then, again, standing up to them might earn their 'respect', and get them to back off, and, perhaps, even become a "real" Friend.

In that light, it may be best to walk away when others are around, but, when the two of you are alone, ask him if he really meant everything he said, and, maybe, even intuit that you might be willing to 'accommodate' his "guy on guy" curiosity, but only if he'd promise to keep it on the 'quiet' side.

Of course, if he agrees, and goes along, that still won't guarantee that he'll keep that promise, and not bring it up publicly in the future.

However, if that should happen, and he does "let the cat out of the bag", all you need to do, to drop him down a peg, or two, is to fess up to it, and ask why he seemed to enjoy it so much. It's THEN that you don't back down, or back off!

He'll LEARN! And, YOU will emerge as the Stronger of you two.

Either way, it's a difficult situation. Give him a 'private' chance, but also prepare yourself for a 'public' stand! (Should that become necessary.)

Since I don't actually know you guys, I can't predict what might happen in either scenario. And, the approach you may choose to take is entirely up to You!

However, in either case, do please let us know how things are going. And, I'm wishing You all the Very Best in this matter!

And, Yeah! ... As I've said before ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

(It'll keep Everyone wondering what the Hell you're up to! )

Very astute advice.



I'll add one item: if you're not going to go for the real thing, stop wanking while thinking about him -- it just gives him power over you because when you do it, you're telling your psyche how important he is. If you want him in a fantasy, then imagine yourself with a hot guy from porn, and him peeking in and being envious -- but it would be better to toss him out of your fantasies completely.

[Kulindahr]

BTW, about this being fiction --

I could tell a half dozen stories like this from real life when I was at college, including one where a frat guy brought a girl up late to the sleeping porch and they did it on the middle bunk of a three-bunk tier -- for the next several weeks he taunted the (younger) guys above and below, saying he was sure they were getting off to the action. That ended when the guy from the top bunk told him it was getting boring, and they were waiting for him to do it again, if he was such a hot guy.

On the bell curve of behavior, there are always people out on the 'limbs'. And in the laboratory of life, someone ends up rooming with them. In the real-life version, there are rarely any "porn-worthy" endings; they just sort of drag along like this does.


To the OP: if he says something like "blow me", answer "You can't afford me", or "Take a number", or "Sorry, I'm booked for the month". Don't sound excited.

[attallaborn]

@ OP,

I almost dismissed your story as fictional bullshit. I just couldn't wrap my head around why a straight guy would be this much of an asshole. Could he be that bored and narcissistic to the point of having nothing better to do than strut around a house full of dudes wearing next to nothing, while telling stories about how he fucks the bejezus out of chicks lucky enough to wear his cum shots on their face? Why would he repeatedly torture his roomie when all the guy wants to do is "be one of the guys" and fly under the radar? This can't be true right?

Well, I believe you. In fact, the same thing happened to me while in college after I joined a straight fraternity. Instead of dealing with one hot jerk (as in your case), I had to deal with about ten guys flaunting perfect bodies, playing homoerotic games and basically making my life miserable. It wasn't everyone in our frat but a few assholes did play the game. I don't know if its because they suspected I was in the closet or because they were trying to be macho. I put up with with the glares, uncomfortable bidy contact, comments about me sucking their huge cocks and had to bear listening to them pound sorority whores senseless in the next room. Sadly, that is the price you pay when attempting to live a closeted, straight lifestyle around god-like jocks who know they are hotter than a bag of jalepenos. Not all guys do this; some actually have semi-intelligent things to talk about like sports and video games.

My advice to you is to GET OUT or fight back. I wouldn't dare revisit those times and cannot imagine how unbearable it must be living with this guy. In my experience, guys like him have been bi or in the closet. The others suspect that you are gay and probably gossip behind your back as to why you never have girls over. This guy can see it your eyes that you want to fuck his brains out and either wants to let you or it boosts his ego to see you squirm. And only you can allow him that power.

The next time he stares you down, lick your lips. He grabs you in one of those compromising positions, go for his crotch. He dresses down in front of you in the other room then walk in the room and get a really good look. Tell him how hot he is and how you'd like to see that big cock. You see him siting on the couch and damn near naked (for no reason), sit down right next to him leaving as little room as possible. Next time he mentions fucking you, tell him you got the hottest piece of ass in town. This may seem out of character for you (it was for me) but you will get use to it and even become bolder. Play the game dude; that's what I did and the taunting stopped. I never went as far as to actually hooking up with my homoerotic, games-playing frat bros but the torment did stop and I got to cop a feel in the process. Call this dude out and stop being a push over dude. Best of luck to ya and message me if you want more info on my situation, stories or advice.

[sean118]

are we going to get to find out if anything else happened?? would love to know

[lambdaboy]

He sounds like the kind of guy you wish had a different personality and you imagine that as you beat off.

[str8guy]

Casey sounds like self-centered trash to me and I wouldn't give him the time of day if I were you.

I agree 100% screw that dude you def don't Wana deal with his bullshit

[MisterB]

Older dude here who experienced a lot of this same stuff when younger. Here's what I learned about "straight" guys--those who are truly hetero, don't do this. It's the ones that are unsure about their own sexuality that pull this crap.

Senior year of high school I was tormented by the jock football player. Wore me out with the taunts, teasing--always in front of his posse. Ha ha. Well, I turned the tables on him in front of his posse when I simply asked if he wanted to go out sometime. His face was a beautiful bright red! Guess who was laughing then? And best of all, no more bother from him or his friends that year. Fast forward--saw him in a gay bar in Washington DC about two years later. And he wasn't there by mistake!

IMO--this alpha guy is struggling big time with his sexuality.

H

[gibbons]

Update: I moved out this past June. It wasn't him that drove me out. I found a place with a much better friend for half the rent. I've seen Casey maybe 2 or 3 times since I moved out and each time was at a bar with mutual friends and aside from a quick 'hey what's up?' we didn't speak to each other. I've heard he broke up with his girlfriend. I do sometimes wish I could see him in his underwear again but not worth the aggrevation I went through before.

[justnine-inches]

keep us update

[AngolaZee]

Glad you are now free from the narcisstic idiot. Enjoy yourself and enjoy life

[newt72]

i would call his bluff, tell him if he is man enough to pull it out your man enough to suck his cock but stop the fucking bullshit unless you enjoy the games then from the sound of it they are kinda a turn on, or come out to everyone but him and see how well his jokes continue just a couple of options if you give me time i could come up with more

[jleon83]

Call him out on it next time you too are alone. I would have had sex with him a long time ago lol

[hanzosword]

Older dude here who experienced a lot of this same stuff when younger. Here's what I learned about "straight" guys--those who are truly hetero, don't do this. It's the ones that are unsure about their own sexuality that pull this crap.

Senior year of high school I was tormented by the jock football player. Wore me out with the taunts, teasing--always in front of his posse. Ha ha. Well, I turned the tables on him in front of his posse when I simply asked if he wanted to go out sometime. His face was a beautiful bright red! Guess who was laughing then? And best of all, no more bother from him or his friends that year. Fast forward--saw him in a gay bar in Washington DC about two years later. And he wasn't there by mistake!

IMO--this alpha guy is struggling big time with his sexuality.

H

I agree! A normal straight guy doesn't need to talk about his dick and give all the details of the sex he's having all the time like that. There seems to be something off about your roommate. It's as if he has to constantly reassure himself of how straight he is.

Like the others say I would probably get tired of all his narcissism and start to ignore it.