Well said. On a related note - I was talking to a friend of mine who is a proctologist and we were talking about prostate exams (we had a few wines at this time) and he mentioned how his straight male patients react to having a finger in their arse and all the dramas and anxiety this causes. By contrast, his gay clients enjoy the experience.
Perhaps if we take this observation and project it onto "gay for pay" porn stars it makes some sense around how much bullshit we are fed about actors being straight or experimenting. Seeing a porn star with 2 cocks up his arse being fucked senseless and enjoying it and then being told he is straight is ridiculous.