Techniques for Tops

[evilest]

I found that mixing positions is better than keeping it the same, and if there are a few you both enjoy it's good to play around with when and how you get into them. My favourite with my guy is to get as close as possible and leaning over his chest with his legs on my neck. It allows deepness but also closeness and eye contact. That for me is the best.

[breathe]

Many guys love to feel the balls of the top slapping into his ass, so I agree that it's good to switch up positions throughout the session and sometimes do doggystyle. It's also really animalistic when you sort of crouch behind his ass and hump him doggystyle like that. And that really gets the balls slappin'

I also like to flex my cock inside him when I first slowly ease in, to help him adjust as well as to feel the power of my dick inside him heh heh

[bike10]

One needs to try as many positons as possible to get full pleasures for top and bottom. Love feel of balls banging against the ass during man to man fucking. Also getting ass slapped during fucking.

[Toddxxx]

I am fairly versatile but more often than not end up being the bottom, which is fine for me. So here is a my advice to tops who seek mutual satisfaction.

1) Lots of foreplay. Frot always gets the juices flowing.

2) Lots of lube, especially with an inexperienced bottom.

3) Gentle penetration. No one likes pain.

4) Long, slow strokes at first. Make the pleasure last for both.

5) Vary positions, but finishing with one like missionary where there can be eye contact and engagement more than just cock and ass.

6) Don't pull out when you cum. Bottoms like the sensation of a cock pulsating.

7) And don't leave promptly afterwards. Savor the experience.


Just some personal observations.

[RicanKicks]

Man I bust two nuts lately..the first nut I powerfuck him..Note hes a beefy powerbottom and I last only about 2-5 minutes but feels great for me and getting monas out of him OMG..I get the second nut up and going in about 10 or 15 minutes...lots of head if yoru good at it..Kissing and frot is the best. I blow him until he starts seeing colors lol..im good at giving head i just dont realy like doing it, then I get down to business...Eat his booty make him feel good..and start the pounding..I like to push it all the way in..and pull it out..nice n slow...then own him and make him nut...trust me the second nut you can last over an hour and remember, lots of lube

[bulge]

I am fairly versatile but more often than not end up being the bottom, which is fine for me. So here is a my advice to tops who seek mutual satisfaction.

1) Lots of foreplay. Frot always gets the juices flowing.

2) Lots of lube, especially with an inexperienced bottom.

3) Gentle penetration. No one likes pain.

4) Long, slow strokes at first. Make the pleasure last for both.

5) Vary positions, but finishing with one like missionary where there can be eye contact and engagement more than just cock and ass.

6) Don't pull out when you cum. Bottoms like the sensation of a cock pulsating.

7) And don't leave promptly afterwards. Savor the experience.


Just some personal observations.

Good advice except I always tell well in advance he will have to give pussy. I order him to duly prepare. (wash, lube, buttplugg for optimal dilatation so that I can penetrate as I want, hard or not hard). He must put femdom up arse.

I penetrate always as the boss. He has to wear something femme and I leave immediately after so that he feels used as a hole, a chick hole.

[Muzart1]

Man! I love to fuck a guy! Lately, there have been a few threads where guys have been asking questions about the pros and cons of being on bottom or on top during sex.

I've always been a top. I guess that it just comes naturally to me. Don't misunderstand - I have been fucked and I have enjoyed it, but the vast majority of times, I wind up on top of my buddy. So, I have questions for all my top brothers-
What makes you a "top"? How do you go about fucking a guy? What favorite technique do you use in your role as a top man?

I'll share a few things that I like to do when I'm fucking-. I make sure that I go deep inside my buddy when I'm with him - balls deep. I fuck for a good long time - no quickies, and I make sure that he cums first. Finally, I try to arrange it so that when I am ready to cum, that I'm in a face-to-face position with my dick deep inside so that my buddy can feel the bottom of my shaft pumping my sperm into him. Some of my buds say that they really enjoy that sensation of being inseminated.

Okay, bros. Your turn to share your "techniques".

I think I need you to marry me now... Just sayin'

[RicanKicks]

Nice man. Hey as far as how long can I stay hard? I can go for Housrs I suppose. I never tried spooning like you did Superboy69

Might give it a try

I love to rough him up though he loves it like that too. Plus we both can take that kind of abuse
I always love giiving him a good Full Nelson Fucking!!
Missionary while driving it down on him face to face is the best!!
I love when im riding him from behind grinding down on him body to body n his ass fucks back to where i will hit the edge!!

[RicanKicks]

Sounds hot! RicanKicks. I think that we latino dudes know how to use our dicks! hehe!

We sure do

Hey BTW have you ever tried squating and holding him up in your arms? basicly fucking him while standing. My dude im fucking is 210lbs and 5'9 Im 180 5'11 So its pretty easy for me but
Then you just drop him on his neck with his legs still around ur waist with u still standing and just go for it..make sure u pound it good
I love recording it and watching myself do my thang hahaha...

[cklover]

I am fairly versatile but more often than not end up being the bottom, which is fine for me. So here is a my advice to tops who seek mutual satisfaction.


3) Gentle penetration. No one likes pain.

4) Long, slow strokes at first. Make the pleasure last for both.


6) Don't pull out when you cum. Bottoms like the sensation of a cock pulsating.

7) And don't leave promptly afterwards. Savor the experience.

Speaking as a bottom only this is what I like best. I will also add that I like my top cum in me a second or even a third time.

[cklover]

...So, I applied a small amount of lube and slowly maneuvered my dick in. But, I didn't pump or thrust. I just stayed hard inside him for a good long time: three - four hours! During that time, I played with his balls, foreskin, and nipples. And, I kissed and licked the back of his neck, his cheeks, and around his ears. We rested at times, talked, played, and just fucking had a great sensual time. When we were done, I just withdrew my dick which was still rock hard!...

Damn, that is hot. I love having a cock in me I would love for a partner to hold his cock in me for 3 to 4 hours at a time. I'd like to try having a partner keep his cock in me all night. It would be even hotter if he would cum at least once or twice and still keep his cock in me.

[versatileplayer]

When I'm bottoming, it's always better when the top just fucks me for his own pleasure. It's more pleasurable for both of us - just make your cock feel good.

When I top it's exactly what I do as well - it's what the bottom really wants anyway, and I get off really good.

[RicanKicks]

So Im here today because my guy's sister came over...smh BITCH GET SOME FEMALE FRIENDS TO BITCH ABOUT UR MAN!! Cause I could of gotten some good ass today!! lol

Shout out to Superman69!! WHATS UP MY DUDE!!

[Muzart1]

When I'm bottoming, it's always better when the top just fucks me for his own pleasure. It's more pleasurable for both of us - just make your cock feel good.

When I top it's exactly what I do as well - it's what the bottom really wants anyway, and I get off really good.

I agree. I want the top to take control and get satisfied anyway he wants. So hot when the top is "on a mission" to get the job done!

[jmadaf]

Man! I love to fuck a guy! Lately, there have been a few threads where guys have been asking questions about the pros and cons of being on bottom or on top during sex.

I've always been a top. I guess that it just comes naturally to me. Don't misunderstand - I have been fucked and I have enjoyed it, but the vast majority of times, I wind up on top of my buddy. So, I have questions for all my top brothers-
What makes you a "top"? How do you go about fucking a guy? What favorite technique do you use in your role as a top man?

I'll share a few things that I like to do when I'm fucking-. I make sure that I go deep inside my buddy when I'm with him - balls deep. I fuck for a good long time - no quickies, and I make sure that he cums first. Finally, I try to arrange it so that when I am ready to cum, that I'm in a face-to-face position with my dick deep inside so that my buddy can feel the bottom of my shaft pumping my sperm into him. Some of my buds say that they really enjoy that sensation of being inseminated.

Okay, bros. Your turn to share your "techniques".

You sound so sensual I wish I was your bottom that face to face and balls deep, is my favorite position, on my back, love to be kissed at the same time.

[jmadaf]

hearing everbody's advice and skills makes me glad I love being a bottom. Having a man giving himself to me pulsating inside holding me firm making me his, I love that control. Thank you Tops? keep up the good work, we need it.

[UncutBrit]

Variety is the thing. I like to get fucked for a long time and have a guy who can take us through several moods - from sensual emotional lovemaking to fucking me like a cheap whore. It's sexy playful and satisfying.

[Muzart1]

I must say that when I bottom I like it when the top goes balls deep and then fucks me with long, slow to medium speed strokes. I hate that fast shallow fucking.

I agree. Bury it to the hilt and then long dick me!

[Peterdragin]

[Storybook_Man]

Unfortunately the guys I have had sex with, are fish. Meaning they just lay there and do nothing. So I end up going limp, then its a pain to get hard again with them just laying there doing nothing which in return makes me feel bad that I can't get it up to fuck them.

But recently there was this one guy who did all the right things during sex. I stayed hard completely (well except for the first time) while fucking him. I think he noticed how I was having difficulties on the first fuck and then got more into it.

Sometimes I can't get hard just from looking at stuff, I usually only get hard while interacting with the other person. But as for fucking wise and making me prolong it. I usually go slow while fucking the person, nice long strokes. Change positions, or if I do go fast ill do it for about 2 or 3 minutes then slow down or just cumming an hour or two before sex by jerking off lol.

My major problem was never jerking off with lube. I think because I never jerked off with lube, I never got my dick used to the slippery feeling so I tend to cum faster, but I can fuck for at least a half hour to an hour. My head is very sensitive, so I think if I had been using lube, I would have gotten used to that slippery feeling of fucking a guy or fucking a girl (this scenario is more suited for a woman).

Sorry for being all over the place lol.

[Críostóir]

Hmm. While I'm sure I could get along OK with the bottoms who just want me to fuck for my own pleasure and ignore their needs, what I personally prefer is making the bottom's eyes roll back, his head lash back and forth, and his breath come in gasps in and moans out. He should entirely lose the power of speech if I'm doing it right.

It's really not that hard to learn how to make sure your cock is slamming right into the prostate. Learn the anatomy and practice, practice, practice! (I know it's SO tedious!)

I do like to put them in a variety of positions. One of my favorites is half on his side, from behind him, but with one leg over my shoulder while I straddle the other. That way I get to see my cock sliding in, I have the leverage to pound that prostate hard, and I can grab his dick and work it if I want. Which usually, I do want.

To finish, I like to turn him on his stomach. This is the best view of the butt available. If he's cum already, I aim straight up his ass; if not, straight down toward the bed (this is how you hit the prostate in that position).

If you're a bottom to whom this sounds good, or a top who agrees, please say so!

[razyrsharpe]

Nice! love your attitude

[razyrsharpe]

A question for my top bros- How long can your cock stay hard inside your buddy?

Like I said before, I don't like quickies - they just don't let me savor the act of fucking a guy. I'll share this one experience with you - let me know what you think:

Years ago, an old boyfriend (Gerry) and I used to spend a lot of time fucking. I would usually top him, but I also bottomed for him a couple of times. I remember one afternoon- in particular. We had finished fucking and cleaning up. I was still super horny and my dick was fully erect. We jumped back in bed, played around a bit, and ended up cuddled in a "spoon" position. Then, I asked him if I could insert my dick back into him, but without really "fucking". He agreed. So, I applied a small amount of lube and slowly maneuvered my dick in. But, I didn't pump or thrust. I just stayed hard inside him for a good long time: three - four hours! During that time, I played with his balls, foreskin, and nipples. And, I kissed and licked the back of his neck, his cheeks, and around his ears. We rested at times, talked, played, and just fucking had a great sensual time. When we were done, I just withdrew my dick which was still rock hard!

Anything similar, guys?

that is fucking hot

[gayboy204]

I have been with just one man (my boyfriend) who is always top. He always makes me cum first. usually he starts by kissing, then i suck his cock, then he lifts my legs up and eats my ass, he licks it really good and in earlier days of our relationship i ejaculated when he did that now i can take it.

he licks my ass and sometimes fingers it until he thinks i am ready.

then he turns me and lies on top of me with his cock inside me. then he starts fucking slowly. he is tall and muscular and i am skinny and small. the weight of his body, his musky manly smell, and his muscles make me feel very horny.

it feels like he has connected his body by plugging my ass with his cock. and by taking me under the cover of his manly body.

he then increases his pace and power and he enjoys if i moan.

we both know that i will cum quicker if he fucks me in missionary so he pushed my knees to my chest and comes on top of me face to face and seeing his magnificent body and feeling his manliness inside me i cum. I think he feels proud at that moment i dont know if thats common with other tops too.

he will keep fucking me sometimes he will then take me in doggy.then he will cum inside me and yes it is a wonderful feeling when a man inseminates the ass. I feel very satisfied and sleepy and romantic and very thankful too. he then withdraws his cock. sometimes he kisses me a lot but most of the time he will just take it out and go to washroom or watchtv. or just sleep right there.

[Sexy8531]

My bf and I know what we both love and because of that he can please me and i can please him. You see i cum fast so he sucks me off first and keeps the cum in his mouth to make out with me during sex which turns us both on. Then he uses a bit of the cum on his dick for lube and slides it in slowly. A 9" dick hurts me at first but with his gentle touch i get used to it quick. Since he knows that he can go faster and pound me harder quicker. My favorite position is when i put my legs around him and he lifts me up pounding me as hard as he can. I always like to ride his dick so he can lay back and feel my ass and relax. As a finish however i like to lay on my side as he fucks me from behind and ill turn me upper body around to make out with him(im VERY flexible). I stay that way till he cums in my ass then we lay there for a while with his dick still in my ass. I love it that his dick will shrink a little but then get long and thick again while we are laying there.

[InoshimaLance]

Those things sound so good. I would like a top like you guys, caring and cute but at the same time proud and powerful. That thing of leaving his cock for 3 or 4 hours inside totally turned me on.

[gayboy204]

@Sexy8531 most of the time, my boyfriend withdraws after filling me and then he either watches tv or falls asleep. I really love it when he kisses after cumming inside me, it makes me feel very good.

do all tops feel sleepy after fucking?

I really love it when he wakes me up in the morning with his hard cock pressing my hole. I think he fucks better in the morning. but mostly he is in a hurry for work so this only happens on weekends.

[Sexy8531]

most of the time, my boyfriend withdraws after filling me and then he either watches tv or falls asleep. I really love it when he kisses after cumming inside me, it makes me feel very good.

do all tops feel sleepy after fucking?

I really love it when he wakes me up in the morning with his hard cock pressing my hole. I think he fucks better in the morning. but mostly he is in a hurry for work so this only happens on weekends.

Must be hard work lol. We both discovered that by leaving it in it not only feels good for both of us but keeps at horny.

[Saybrooke]

This is a really hot thread lol

[Críostóir]

Orgasm releases chemicals in the brain that tend to make men sleepy. If you've also been exerting yourself to the extent any decent top should, it makes you even sleepier.

As I once said to a woman who complained of this, "If you resent your partner falling asleep after sex, stop sleeping with men."

[breathe]

I might be hooking up with a fuck-buddy later today. We were talking last night about how we can't wait for my cock to first side inside his tight little puckered hole. I always flex my boner when I first get it inside him and he loves how I talk dirty to him... "Do you like my fat cock in your hole?" and he loves telling me how he loves how my cock stretches him out. Mmmm. His ass is so tight too. I love grabbing him by the hips and pulling him closer so that I can get my balls slapping.

[HornyHenry]

When I'm bottoming, it's always better when the top just fucks me for his own pleasure. It's more pleasurable for both of us - just make your cock feel good.

When I top it's exactly what I do as well - it's what the bottom really wants anyway, and I get off really good.

The is my philosophy exactly. I learned that the purpose of sex is for the Top to enjoy using the bottom for his pleasure and the bottom to please the Top and facilitate his sexual enjoyment and orgasm.
My best position is with the bottom on his stomach with me laying on his back or taking a semi-push-up position fucking his ass. I have also fucked doggie-style and standing up usually with the bottom bent-over but sometimes with him standing up as well. I had also side-fucked a few holes in the spooning position and tried the missionary position, but missionary was too awkward for me and the hole was too loose.The only time I liked missionary was when a Top wanted me to spit in his mouth when I came up his ass.
I sometimes varied my thrusts in speed and stroke according to what stimulated my dick more and either hilt myself and pump the first major spurts up his ass and then thrust to pump the rest of it up his ass or I'd keep thrusting until I'm spent, again depending on what worked out best for me.

[Sexy8531]

Orgasm releases chemicals in the brain that tend to make men sleepy. If you've also been exerting yourself to the extent any decent top should, it makes you even sleepier.

As I once said to a woman who complained of this, "If you resent your partner falling asleep after sex, stop sleeping with men."

My bf is incredibly tired afterwards. Its mainly because he is tired that we do this. Sometimes however he pulls it out and sucks up the cum to spit it on me ( sorry if my usages of cum are sometimes weird we've both got HUGE cum fetishes). But one time we both just fell right asleep (how we just feel asleep we both still dont understand) and his dick was still in my ass and when i woke up that next morning and pulled it out of my ass hurt like HELL!

[asianstudlover]

woah that'll do it.

[asianstudlover]

My bf is incredibly tired afterwards. Its mainly because he is tired that we do this. Sometimes however he pulls it out and sucks up the cum to spit it on me ( sorry if my usages of cum are sometimes weird we've both got HUGE cum fetishes). But one time we both just fell right asleep (how we just feel asleep we both still dont understand) and his dick was still in my ass and when i woke up that next morning and pulled it out of my ass hurt like HELL!

Variety is the thing. I like to get fucked for a long time and have a guy who can take us through several moods - from sensual emotional lovemaking to fucking me like a cheap whore. It's sexy playful and satisfying.

this i like too. When i bottom I love submitting and letting him be dominant and controlling-basically a full TOP (borderline selfish) and then he leans in for a tender kiss to keep it personal.

[tatertot]

We sure do

Hey BTW have you ever tried squating and holding him up in your arms? basicly fucking him while standing. My dude im fucking is 210lbs and 5'9 Im 180 5'11 So its pretty easy for me but
Then you just drop him on his neck with his legs still around ur waist with u still standing and just go for it..make sure u pound it good
I love recording it and watching myself do my thang hahaha...

Well share some of those recordings on here

[ckryde]

This isn't exactly a "technique for tops", but I love to have my bottom buddy suck me off like this before I fuck him.

Yeah - I love getting face fucked like that before my ass is opened up.

Have one fb that's a really good top. Helps that he has a nice big dick with a bit of an upward curve, but he also just has this innate sense of how to fuck. The other day he'd been fucking me for a while and then told me to turn over so I was on my knees, ass in the air, head down. He pounded me like that for a while and then shifted so he was kneeling on my calves and pressing my shoulders down with his hands and really drove his cock in deep and hard. Don't know whether it was just a change of angle, or having my legs, torso and ass controlled by him or what, but felt great and really turned me on. Pushed me right over the edgehttp://www.justusboys.com/forum/images/smilie/icon_biggrin.gif

[cocksucker4use]

Takin or givin it from behind is the best...bent over, standing, legs apart, ass pushed back...that is hot, but as top or bottom, when it gets really goin, missionary with the bottom's knees by his ears, top goin full bore....The BEST nutt...woof.

[cocksucker4use]

Bent over, legs spread, ass pushed out...takin dick or pushin it up a guy's ass....works in the bedroon, bookstore, bath house, parking lot...

[bsidney]

Hmm. While I'm sure I could get along OK with the bottoms who just want me to fuck for my own pleasure and ignore their needs, what I personally prefer is making the bottom's eyes roll back, his head lash back and forth, and his breath come in gasps in and moans out. He should entirely lose the power of speech if I'm doing it right.

It's really not that hard to learn how to make sure your cock is slamming right into the prostate. Learn the anatomy and practice, practice, practice! (I know it's SO tedious!)

I do like to put them in a variety of positions. One of my favorites is half on his side, from behind him, but with one leg over my shoulder while I straddle the other. That way I get to see my cock sliding in, I have the leverage to pound that prostate hard, and I can grab his dick and work it if I want. Which usually, I do want.

To finish, I like to turn him on his stomach. This is the best view of the butt available. If he's cum already, I aim straight up his ass; if not, straight down toward the bed (this is how you hit the prostate in that position).

If you're a bottom to whom this sounds good, or a top who agrees, please say so!

As a bottom you can top me anytime. I like the top to get off, but if he can find some of my spots too it is a really hot time. I am really happy just to have a guy cum in me and anything else is a bonus.

[Kensei]

Well, this thread has got me going so I'll tell you the situation I'm in at the moment with a potential hook up who is apparently a "power bottom."

First off, I'm a virgin. 23 years old almost. I only had 1 boyfriend and that was very brief and sex was so awkward those 4 years ago I won't even call it sex. I was uncut until I received a partial circumcision 2 months ago where I had some foreskin removed from the tip of my penis. This was one of the best decisions of my life.

You see, when I was uncut, I couldn't pull the skin back at all when I was erect. Because of this, I was self-conscious and could never ejaculate with another guy because I felt zero sensation, thus, I avoided sex because I could never feel a blow job at all. I was so horny I was jerking off 4 times a day because of this (which is my average now.)

Fast forward to today, and my problem is the opposite. I own a flesh jack, and with my newly partially cut cock, I can't last more then 2 minutes! I know this is because its the first time my head is exposed and I'm feeling sensation and not just pressure, but damn, my eyes rolled back and I exploded into my flesh jack.

Now, this is my dilemma. This guy is experienced. What if I don't last more than 5 minutes with this hot power bottom? He's so cute, blond, about 5'10, slim, smooth, while I'm 6'0, 200 pounds, average build, more hair, Greek background, and horny as hell. The night I met him at the bar he works at (he wasn't working that night) he invited me back to his place, but I couldn't go because I was with a friend.

I'll pop a nut so fast for sure with him, not to mention I'm a virgin so I have no techniques. Although, I don't believe it'll be an issue because my sex drive will kick in. My buddy said to just take it real slow for the first few minutes, go in and out to loosen him while I adjust.

It's funny, because before I would feel so much pressure during sex to hurry up and cum. Now it's the opposite and try and last. Now,he's expecting a phone call from me within the next few days... don't know what to do, but damn, I do want to slam him so hard!

[trouvé]

We sure do

Hey BTW have you ever tried squating and holding him up in your arms? basicly fucking him while standing. My dude im fucking is 210lbs and 5'9 Im 180 5'11 So its pretty easy for me but
Then you just drop him on his neck with his legs still around ur waist with u still standing and just go for it..make sure u pound it good
I love recording it and watching myself do my thang hahaha...

I agree! I wanna see this recording, can you hook a brother up?

[Kyle3000]

yay! i'm going to try these

[7inchuncutguy]

i love to spread my cheaks with my hands so can get the bois cock in every little bit! and do the same to him!

[asianstudlover]

Yeah, ckryde - a good top knows how to take charge with his bottom buddy. It's a matter of using your whole body along with your dick to provide him with the pleasure of a good fuck. These two vids below demonstrate two tops taking charge:

The second is the perfect example!! its something about his athleticscim.

[breathe]

And the best part:
Those balls slapping the bottom's ass. Such a good feeling for both bottom and top.

[jmadaf]

I agree too, ball-slapping is a turn-on. In the first pic I don't like the hair pulling.

[wolfypdx]

I love it when my top slowly pushes his dick all the way, and then slowly pulls out completely, then repeat stroke after stroke. The sensation of having his cock first penetrate my ass, then go all the way in, and then pop out is delicious, and can be repeated over and over again. This works best early on during a fuck session - before my asshole has completely relaxed.

I'd love to have somebody fuck me, then leave it in for an extended period, and perhaps trying rubbing one out while he's in me.

[gaystorm]

You all are forgetting something very important. It is not just about sliding the cock in and out of the ass. The best is swivling hips to really hit the anus walls. Speed changes often help keep the bottom going and not knowing what to expect. Listen to his moans for what he needs. Tells of needing a pounding. In doggy, pull his hips back into you to push you length up in there. I can turn tops to bottoms.

[wolfypdx]

I love it when I get yanked backwards like that. Each time feels like a little orgasm.