Hello!
I have a few questions about anal orgasms and cumming hands free from being fucked. I've bottomed a bit before but only because my first boyfriend was a top. It's not until recently that I truly started to enjoy being fucked and I want to work on experiencing these
So about a month ago I was getting fucked, really turned on. I was face down with my ass off the side of the bed and he had one foot on the floor and the other proped up on the side of the bed, fucking me

. As he fucked me I started moaning "harder faster harder faster" and as he pounded me harder and faster, I suddenly started feeling things in my ass that I've never felt before!!
It felt like my cock was getting really super hard but I couldn't really see it so I'm not sure; the head of my cock felt like it wanted to explode in orgasm but I didn't reach ejaculation. At the same time, this sensation in my ass started to develop and strengthen as he fucked me harder and faster; it felt kind of similar to that "pushing" feeling you get while doing your business on the toilet.

Almost as if I were pushing his cock out because my body thought it was waste?? (My ass was very clean though so I know there was nothing else in there besides his cock!!) Anyways, as the feeling became more intense, it seemed as though an involuntary reflex made me "push" or squeeze harder on his cock. It felt so good, and made me scream, I had to bury my face into a pillow. Was this an anal orgasm? I had a few of them but felt like they could have continued to get stronger and I thought maybe I might ejaculate. But he couldn't maintain the speed and rapid fucking pattern that I required to feel those feelings for more than a minute or else I think he would have creamed
And second, I want to be able to cum without touching my cock just from being fucked!! Does anyone have any tips for this? I bet a lot of it is being in the moment while getting fucked hard!!

I guess I need to talk to my fuck friend and see if we can try milking my prostate or something so any tips with how we can play would be great
Maybe I just need a night with a guy who is like 28 and has lots of top experience and a big dick and who loves showing younger guys how to find their secret orgasms

hehe or maybe I'm just super horny, IDK.
Anyways, thanks for the help!