married guy addicted to gloryholes.

[slnattak]

Have you actually done this? Seems like in reality it might give you nothing but an std or a bad time.

Anonymous sex is a gamble. It could be a good time, but then again- it couldn't. If you risk getting to know the person beforehand though, that diminishes the thrill you experience from such activities. So you know, it's a trade-off.

[MarkDW]

any other married guys out there that are addicted to sneaking off to gloryholes to suck cock?

Yes, I have, but prefer being sucked thru one vs doing the sucking.

Just ignore those on their high horse.

[Sultan]

I'm not married but I was always too paranoid about gloryholes. Any kind of sex with a stranger is risky but with gloryholes it seems twice as risky since you can't see the other person. Seems easier to catch a disease.

Be careful. It would be really messed up if you caught something and then gave it to your wife.

[sktguy]

Yes, I have, but prefer being sucked thru one vs doing the sucking.

Just ignore those on their high horse.

Well Mark, come on over and I'll suck you all you want. And ingore the you could cstch a disease people. You could do that just as easily picking up a girl or guy at a bar, through a friend or any other place.

[gsrdj2001]

This seems pretty disgusting and repulsive...seriously you have rationalized this as being okay??? Next you will be posting about tuck driver public restrooms.

[fabulouslyghetto]

Interesting. I was just reading an article earlier about women getting stds from their promiscuous husbands.

Honesty may be too much to ask for, but condoms shouldn't be.

[Edward Twinkletoes]

If you are married and having sex ---with guys OR girls--- behind your wife's back.....you are an asshole.

Being an asshole isn't a crime. Knowingly putting someone at risk for an STD without their knowledge probably should be. If I ever found out someone did that to me or someone I cared about, they'd need a restraining order against me.

[Edward Twinkletoes]

I'm not married but I was always too paranoid about gloryholes. Any kind of sex with a stranger is risky but with gloryholes it seems twice as risky since you can't see the other person. Seems easier to catch a disease.

Be careful. It would be really messed up if you caught something and then gave it to your wife.

It's not just that. If the person is at a "gloryhole" when you have sex with them, the chances are they do it frequently and the chances that they have an STD are therefore very high.

[DVM26uk]

Well Mark, come on over and I'll suck you all you want. And ingore the you could cstch a disease people. You could do that just as easily picking up a girl or guy at a bar, through a friend or any other place.

I'm not a gambling man but I'm fairly sure the risks are considerably higher when you're sucking some random dick through a hole in the wall.

[Telstra]

no interest in gloryholes.

i can't stand piss smells in the toilet or anywhere else.

[westindianstud]

Ok so here is what I wonder...

How can you stick ur dick in a hole and not be worried somebody will cut it off? Seriously, people are crazy, I bet that has happened somewhere at some point, and then what? What would you say at the hospital?

Ugh... no thanks.

I hate when you're in a public toilet and you have to take a dump (which is bad enough) and someone sticks their cock under the stall. Thats messed up... and then they get angry when you kick it...

[fabulouslyghetto]

I hate when you're in a public toilet and you have to take a dump (which is bad enough) and someone sticks their cock under the stall. Thats messed up... and then they get angry when you kick it...

They do that because for every one person that kicks their dick away, there are ten who drop to the floor and suck 'em off. Look at our std rates, you don't get those kinda numbers by being selective and cautious.

[Homewrecker]

mmmmi LOVE sucking married men thru gloryholes..

[bike10]

Guess that's one reason see number of married men at the baths and one place they head for are the glory holes.

[fabulouslyghetto]

Well Mark, come on over and I'll suck you all you want. And ingore the you could cstch a disease people. You could do that just as easily picking up a girl or guy at a bar, through a friend or any other place.

That makes sense. You can catch a disease so.....do it anyway?

It's okay, some people need to start itching or burning or develop a rash to learn about safe sex, apparently 9th grade health class didn't do the trick.

[slnattak]

All men should have the balls to externalize their homosexuality in the real world. Keeping it underground like that is how diseases and nastiness (gutter butt trollop thanks b. scott) are spread.

You might think 'it's just sex, what's the big deal?' It's a HUUUUUUUGE deal!

Seriously, the chance of getting an std from that is like a 25% chance! That's WHOPPINGLY huge.

[Reprobate]

Yes, I have, but prefer being sucked thru one vs doing the sucking.

Just ignore those on their high horse.

Why ignore them, they are right. You don't have the right to put your significant other at risk just to satisfy an urge. I am married and about once a week I get together with a friend and jack him off or suck him off, the difference my wife knows about it, she has the choice to decide what is right for her.

I wouldn't even touch my wife after I gave head the first time, after a week she pinned me down and wanted to know why and I told her what I had done. She wasn't surprised because she knew I was strongly attracted to men, I am not saying she was happy about it but I had to tell her because I was not going to risk her health without her knowledge because I was having sex on the side with men or even women for that matter. It isn't about high horses or the morality of maintaining a monogamous relationship, it is about the persons right to know what risks they are assuming every time she has sex with you.

[youngnihilist]

It's not a high horse, it's a matter of life and death.

[slnattak]

We just care about you. I got a std from doing that the first time lol. It's not good. People who do that have all kinds of stuff. You have to get to know a boy before you get to *know* a boy, you know.

If you get horny and have the urge to do that, just jack off....

If you want a guy to fulfill your fantasy then trust has to be built up, gotta learn a little somethin somethin about him. Otherwise you are playing russian roluette with your life.

That is why people encourage gay men to practice their social skills and join socialist movements. It just makes sense.

[Sportsman]

@peterpanties. these replies are so judgemental. you know they probably all cruise the restrooms for gloryholes.

[PetCuddlePuppy]

You're cheating on your wife no matter how you try to rationalize it. You may end up bringing home an STD and give it to her. How will you explain yourself then?

Get a divorce or stop doing it. Figure out what's more important in your life.

Better hope the guy on the other side doesn't have a switch blade next time.

[mike_n_herrin]

Folks post your opinion if you feel like it. But keep the judgmental BS to yourself. This is one of the str8 bi forums so there are BOUND to be guys here who are married and experimenting with guys on the side. Several posts have been deleted or edited, but the next judgmental/insulting post may result in a subforum ban.