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Do you REALLy care about size?
You always hear about Gay people being size queens. Back in March, when I was a member here, before I left and came back I did a poll similar to this, I'm curious as to how people feel about it now as well--seeing as there are plenty of new people on the forums. Do you care about the size of a guys equipment? Ho big do you prefer? And how big are you?
I'm around 7 inches myself, but I like my guys to be a little larger when I bottom.
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I am 6.5 and I do care about size....
I cannot be with someone eight inches or bigger.... it fucking hurts and I am no pussy... my ass just wasn't built for that sort of thing....
BTW there aint no poll.... you should build one and ask MODS to add it in there.....
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JayHawk
I am 6.5 and I do care about size....
I cannot be with someone eight inches or bigger.... it fucking hurts and I am no pussy... my ass just wasn't built for that sort of thing....
BTW there aint no poll.... you should build one and ask MODS to add it in there.....
This is true, once people starting getting way up there in size, its not pleasurable, it's painful, and quite the burden to take it to be honest. There's no enjoyment in that.
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*sigh* not another size thread.
I'm average.
I've seen 5"-10.75"
Do I find big ones fascinating? YES.
Do I mind small-average ones? NO.
I care more about the guy it's attached to, how I feel about him, and how he treats me then I do how ever many inches he's packing.
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Way too big ruins oral too. They just aren't fun period imho.
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GregKII
This is true, once people starting getting way up there in size, its not pleasurable, it's painful, and quite the burden to take it to be honest. There's no enjoyment in that.
Answered up on your poll on pole. Based on Bendy, Cupid and You then I could get to lucky 21.... anyone up for Black Jack? I am in the sling first.....
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I'm 4.5" As for my partner, it really depends on my mood. I usually don't mind small to average. But I can also enjoy slightly bigger to hung ones. See, if I had a boyfriend, he'd better be able to change his size according to my mood o.o
Now, if the guy is tall and built, hell yeah I'll swoon for him.
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My "buddy" is around 8 inches exactly. It hurts at first, but afterwards it's pure heaven. He's the perfect size for me.
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“No lady man wants to see anything under 4 inches.” - Gabrielle Solis
But i've said it before and i'll say it again, I don't do jaw ache, and i'm not into pain. So if you're huge, move along.
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TheLyingGame
“No lady man wants to see anything under 4 inches.” - Gabrielle Solis
That made my day! I love Desperate Housewives, I've watched all the seasons twice.. I'm a bit of a zealot when it comes to that show.
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The size may not come into play.
The girth does.
Been around.
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GregKII
That made my day! I love Desperate Housewives, I've watched all the seasons twice.. I'm a bit of a zealot when it comes to that show.
Hands down one of the best shows ever! I'm so sad it's over. It had everything...
It also made me look at my neighbors differently... :lol:
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TheLyingGame
Hands down one of the best shows ever! I'm so sad it's over. It had everything...
It also made me look at my neighbors differently... :lol:
It really was! It was sad, the ending threw me for a loop. I'm just glad I can go back and watch anytime--which is what I plan to do after exams during my Christmas break lol.
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GregKII
It really was! It was sad, the ending threw me for a loop. I'm just glad I can go back and watch anytime--which is what I plan to do after exams during my Christmas break lol.
Haha. That's the great thing about 8 seasons, you forget a lot of what happened which makes it exciting when you re-watch. I literally finish re-watching for the second time a few days ago :D
The only thing i can fault the series on is Edie being killed off...
Marc Cherry definitely slapped the wrong housewife!
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This thread is now about Jean Luc Picard and the Starship Housewife-aprise? :)
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I don't care, average or up to eight. Anything over single digits, while amusing and/or fantasy material, just isn't a desired reality for me. I kind of feel bad for guys with 10+ inches. Half the stuff they'd ever want to do just isn't practical with most partners.
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TheLyingGame
Haha. That's the great thing about 8 seasons, you forget a lot of what happened which makes it exciting when you re-watch. I literally finish re-watching for the second time a few days ago :D
The only thing i can fault the series on is Edie being killed off...
Marc Cherry definitely slapped the wrong housewife!
Ikr! I enjoyed Edie, she should've been there until the end!
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CupidBoy
Are we talking about Desperate Housewives? That is my show!
Haha we definitely are talking about DH.. wasn't it such an amazing show?!
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People usually state this as an either/or issue. Either "size makes no difference" or "X inches or gtfo". And I'm more in the middle. It's more like the question "Do you like whipped cream on your ice cream sundaes?" As it ends up, I do. Does that mean if you give me an ice cream sundae without ice cream, I won't eat it? Fuck no. :) Or if you make an ice cream sundae with ice cream and toppings that I hate, I'll still like it if you put whipped cream on it? Fuck no. :) Whipped cream is just an extra that I enjoy if it's available, but I've been plenty satisfied without it.
Large cocks are just like that. If all things are equal, sure - the bigger the better. But it's not a requirement, or even a huge plus. It's just a bonus. I've had great sex with guys with average and smaller cocks. My best two experiences were with smaller than average guys, in fact. :)
Lex
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there's a lot of guys that are 7-8 inches. who voted for 10 plus? pic please. :wave:
anyways, i'm actually kind of frightened about having a dick in me because of the pain that might come from it. if it looks like it could hurt, then i dunno. watching all those porns and watching the guys go from being :drool: before it's in them to :cry: when it goes into them just makes me wonder. it doesn't look like it feels good. i think i have hemroids too so that might also be a problem. :bartshock
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refujiunderground
there's a lot of guys that are 7-8 inches. who voted for 10 plus? pic please. :wave:
anyways, i'm actually kind of frightened about having a dick in me because of the pain that might come from it. if it looks like it could hurt, then i dunno. watching all those porns and watching the guys go from being :drool: before it's in them to :cry: when it goes into them just makes me wonder. it doesn't look like it feels good. i think i have hemroids too so that might also be a problem. :bartshock
My personal policy is to pretty much completely disregard self-reporting on the internet, because round-upping (even by 2 inches) is so incredibly common. No offense to anyone, not calling individual people liars, but I think guys even lie without realizing it or meaning to. It's one of those self-bias things. But there's no consequence for lying in an anonymous setting anyway with people you'll never meet, so some guys just do that too. If you go by the internet and self-reporting then only a small minority of guys are +/- 1 inch of average when if anything it should be just the opposite.
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refujiunderground
i think i have hemroids too so that might also be a problem. :bartshock
If that be the case, then no matter what size is going to cause pain.
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6.2 thick.
If my calculations are correct, the average size here is about 6.7 inches.
(For the first and last options I had to guess the size so I put a 4 and a 11).
The average size in scientific studies are usually around 6 so most here are probably telling the truth or not exaggerating a lot.
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backagain
If that be the case, then no matter what size is going to cause pain.
Also the thickness of it would be more important than the length.
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xbuzzerx
My personal policy is to pretty much completely disregard self-reporting on the internet, because round-upping (even by 2 inches) is so incredibly common. No offense to anyone, not calling individual people liars, but I think guys even lie without realizing it or meaning to. It's one of those self-bias things. But there's no consequence for lying in an anonymous setting anyway with people you'll never meet, so some guys just do that too. If you go by the internet and self-reporting then only a small minority of guys are +/- 1 inch of average when if anything it should be just the opposite.
funny that you mentioned it because i don't think that guys do the ruler test or for that matter know how to measure their dicks to begin with. but on the bright side, i don't think guys will ever be bigger size queens than women in general. there's many women that stay looking at dicks and miscalculating the size. they'll look at a dick and say that it's 10 inches when it's 6 or 7 inches long. i used to get worried sick when i would think about having sex with a woman because even though i'm 7 inches, my girth is considerably small. i was worried that she might laugh at me upon seeing my skinny dick or worst yet, it would put it into her insides and she wouldn't feel my dick and i wouldn't feel her walls. it would be like putting a pencil into a paper towel tube. :cry: one reason why i'm happy to be gay.
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Average and somewhat over usually have the best shapes in my opinion. The giant ones often look weird and its a common problem for them that they can't keep them rock hard.
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backagain
If that be the case, then no matter what size is going to cause pain.
well, then i'm a top by default then. is there no way to get the hemroids taken care of where i could bottom and stuff? i would much rather receive then give. would much rather have my shit on somebody's dick then the other way around.
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Geiri85
Average and somewhat over usually have the best shapes in my opinion. The giant ones often look weird and its a common problem for them that they can't keep them rock hard.
honestly, dunno about you guys but i also think circumcision comes into play too in terms of looks. an uncircumcised dick usually looks bigger and less weirder than a circumcised one in my opinion.
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M10000
A guy showed me his cock. It was flawless, beautiful. Much better than size
For example:
Rodney St Cloud. His cock is huge but not attractive
Ye I agree. Size alone is not the only attraction about penises. An average size with perfect shape and skin tone can be more attractive and also practical at the same time, than an unattractive giant cock. I try not to be a shallow queen obsessing with penis sizes because there is so much more to good sex than size of genitals. I have been with couple of guys that were 8 inches. I'll admit that at first I was excited because porn teaches us that big dick=good sex...ain't true. Big dicks HURT!! They are hard to suck, they choke you, they go limp, they tare your colon, they give you anal prolapse, they just TERROR. (little exaggeration but you get the point.) I will take a partner with average size who has good chemistry and passionate in bed over any lazy, boring lump of coal with a large penis.
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I'm about six and a half inches and do not care about size.
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Geiri85
Average and somewhat over usually have the best shapes in my opinion. The giant ones often look weird and its a common problem for them that they can't keep them rock hard.
I agree. I actually like it to be "shapely" rather than "huge, but looks kinda like an amorphous undefined blob of skin."
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I'm above average, but have no preference when it comes to a partner. I'm more interested in the closeness and intimacy of sex than anything else.
Provided we are able to pleasure each other in whichever ways we choose, I'm completely indifferent to how large or small he is.
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I'm 8, my partner is 7 1/2, and I love getting fucked by him. But I need to add that I've been fucked by guys who were smaller, as small as 4, and I loved gettting fucked by them also. A great body, technique and attitude, individually or in combination, are more important to me than the size of the cock.
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Remember...it was a man who invented the road map. I mean who else would think that one inch equals 10 miles?!
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I have very limited experience with men, and the only real live penises I've seen have proven to be above average according to statistics, so I don't know what I'd think of a smaller one. I know I like the size of my guy, but if it hadn't been that way it wasn't a criteria or anything.
BTW, I know everyone is different when it comes to physical comfort and motivation, but I have now seen enough and tried enough to believe that if it's a human penis, it will fit somewhere fun, no matter what the size. I think size is a greater issue for oral sex than anal. But it's all good.
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any dude got 70cm or a 24 inch ans a bit by a thick 2 or it 3
a prince a got shoe wanna you a slide in
* anyone got meta? *
mean butt or taxi?
* dunno now *
Kool dat gurd
thankyou
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I am 6.25 you need to add to your poll these sizes 6-7 & 8-9
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Personally, anything over 8 inches and I'd probably hang my hat on it and walk away. For me, there's no pleasure in pain. There are times when good old fashioned sayings like 'it's not the size of the hammer, but the force behind it' ring true.
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I'd be lying if I said no. I do get excited when a guy has a big cock! The challenge of trying to take it all really turns me on.
That said, I would also not turn someone down for having a small cock, and some of my best fucks have been from guys on the smaller side!
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joswanprince
My goodness... that looks so un-pleasurable. FAR too large, I don't think I could handle that..
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I am below average but I usually bottom anyway, so my size is a non-issue but I topped a few times, the feedback is good. I don't really care about the size, I have a 8.5 inches before and it feels the same with someone with 5 inches.
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Yes, size matters to me! Not so much the length, but the thickness. I love a thick cock!
Also, skills play a big role in satisfying the bottom. I have had guys with short cocks that could rock my world!
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joswanprince
Lol excuse my rudeness.. is he sick? It's like a little baby dick. Keep that thing away from me, it looks gross.
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I wana post a pic on this site but I am worried I am small. Would people on this site judge and take the piss?
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You're not supposed to post cock photos in the Hot Topics forum, but you can post them on the amateur self-pics forum. What exactly are you looking for by posting the pictures? An honest appraisal? A list of guys who would "do you"? You'll probably get both. :)
Lex
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I want honest opinion but not rude, I don't mind people saying its small lol. And i like knowing people can see me :o
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Then post it in your gallery, and send me a private message with the link. I like looking. :)
Lex
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Johndavis587
I wana post a pic on this site but I am worried I am small. Would people on this site judge and take the piss?
If you look around in the Amatuer section where people post self-pics, everyone is very very complimentary. If someone doesn't like it then chances are they just won't post anything at all. Take a look and see for yourself, it's pretty safe I think.