Hey guys whats up..
I just read some of your advice and I must really, honestly admit that it was quite hard to read. I felt like I was reading about a different person when you were talking about my buddy.
I know we are not biological brothers but thats what we refer to ourselves all the time because we are so close.
Let me just state some things that I know:
I know he is not using me.
I know that he will not get mad if I play tough love with him.
I know, no matter what happens, we will always be this close
And as much as I am in love with him and would sleep with him given the chance, I am fully aware of the benefits of a friend like him for life and have been making decisions with him, with my love for him NOT in my mind.
For example, I CAN see myself staying here in NYC and having a great life, whether he is here or not..I would miss him..but then again my life here will make up for the missing him part.
I live rent free. Im getting the building(3 story house) here inherited to me in a few years...I can make a great life here.
I think I will help him out, but with a warning that this will be the last I can do for a while.
I appreciate all of your feedback as hard as it was to read..I know you guys were/are being just honest and I love you for it...thats what I am looking for by posting on here...thank you ..brian