so this past saturday i gave my male bestfriend head after we went out downtown and after he said he was straight and for me not to tell anyone and i agreed. the next morning we joked about me having carpet burn and he said i should have gone back for seconds. does that mean he wants to keep on? i havent talked to him in two days cause were in different cities for school but how do i bring it up? i wouldnt mind having a straight fuck buddy lol
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I just met up again with my straight friend who I sucked when we were in our twenties. He's married now and domesticated!
Anyway we talked of old times over a few drinks and he said how he soemtimes thought of our bedroom romps. He moved closer on the bar sofa as he reached for his beer.
Our thighs touched and it was just like the old days! He was coming on to me, said how his wife didn't understand his needs. His knee rubbed up and down against mine.
Soon we were back at my place and he was kissing me, begging me to suck him.
I knew he was using me as he had done all those years ago, but I didn't care.
He had me strip him to his briefs and I stripped off to mine. I kissed him and rubbed my lump against is bump. I knew he only wanted one thing, but I was going to get more from him.
I pulled my erection out and slipped it up his thigh and inside his briefs, so that out hard cocks were locked together inside.
He went along with it and kissed me to get me even more turned on. I knew he was only doing this so that I would suck him.
Eventually I gave in and he lay down on my bed for me to pull his briefs off. His cock was just as I remembered it and I was soon down on him, giving him the blow job he so much wanted.
I swung around and he half-heartedly licked my cock, but it was only to encourage me to keep going on him.
Soon he was pumping his load down my throat. Panting he lost interst in me and lay supinely while I jerked myself off, shooting my cum over his flacid cock.
I have these male friends, who think If I suck them off and they don't suck me, there still straight, even so I suck them anyway because I love to suck.
Who cares, just suck those dicks!
I don't really understand how sex ruins the friendship between your straight friend and you. In all of the cases I've had, it actually strengthened it; we feel closer. Prime example is the one I gave head to on his birthday. He texts a lot more than he used to and likes to hang out more and no it doesn't always end up with me sucking his dick.
I'm a straight guy, but i've really been wanting to try sucking off another guy or vise versa... can anyone help me out !? hahaa
Na i couldnt ever do that to a friend haha..and i dont have gay friends..what tha??!
Yeah me and my friend blew each other once, liked it, then did it again a couple of weeks later.
The reason they flip out is they are either insecure or homophobic, or both.
The secure, non-homophobic ones are more casual about it and don't flip out.
All my "straight" friends know I am gay, so as usual we all meet up, go out, drink copious amounts of alcahol and usualy end up back at someones house, where the talk always get round to sex. And the usual question "who gives the best BJ comes up"
Now I am sorry to say but to me a cock is a cock and if some is saying they would like to know what it feels like I feel I have to offer ( to date I have 9 close male friends and have blown all of them at least four times )A few have even gone further but thats for another post.
We are all stii friends, and no alcahol hasn't been involved at all times.
It like I am always asked "how do I know I'm gay, if I have never been with a woman"
Too which my reply is "how do you know your straight if you've never been with a man"
In all honestly don't push things, if some are courious they will ask, if they arn't than just dont bother ( or at least be prepared to find new friends ) if you do.
I've convinced a few straight friends to let me suck them off. Ironically they're all bisexual now, so technically I don't have anymore straight friends to do that with.
In my experience sex tends to ruin friendships between opposite gendered people more often than same gendered people.
*shrug* I have tons of lesbian friends who fool around all the time, and they're not dating.
Also, I fool around with my gay/bi guy friends. There's never any awkwardness there.
But my friend slept with her male friend, and suddenly their friendship is like totally wrecked. I don't get it.
SEX is 90%, or more, Mental/Psychological. I've found that if you're Trusted, not considered a Threat, won't Blab, most Str8 Guys will open up, and let you "Play" with them, since it Feels Good, butt doesn't have to MEAN Anything!
I've been fortunate enough to suck off quite a few of my Str8 Buds, and, NO, they're not Gay, or even Bi, butt I've found that most Guys can approach Sex as "mere" Sport!
A few have, indeed, "freaked out" after "The Deed", butt I can understand that, and don't push the issue, since I can understand their reluctance to TALK about it! If it's not mentioned, it didn't happen.
And, that's O.K.! And, that's because, once they've gotten past that boundary, once, it's more likely it will happen again! (Which it has!)
WISDOM is the Knowledge you've gained ... After you could have used it! _Me
Many times. And still am
I have never blown a buddy, but one did let me give him a hand job when he was drunk. He opened up his jeans and let me go at it. Unfortunately, he blacked out in the middle of it so that ended things. I did get a few pics of his dick though!
im 19 i have a friend whos 20 and been recently living with me and he knows that i am bi and hes told me hes had past bisexual tendencies but will never talk about it. hes the straightest guy i know who would punch a guy staring at him. a month and a couple weeks ago we ended up watching some porn after drinking a fifth of wild turkey and he asked me to give him some oral in text but no anal and we will still be friends after. we 69'd for a bit then just got him off. last weekend at night we were up drinking 40s and then he puts on some porn and starts touching himself through his jeans. i get up and whisper in his ear that if he wants anything to unzip and turn off the lights. 5 minutes later he gets up flicks the light, unzips and sticks his hard dick next to my face. i went at it for a while then he tells me to lay back and he started sucking me for a bit. we switched and i asked him to stick just the head in and go slowly. hes 7 1/2" and thick and he sticks its all the way in first then pulls out quickly. he went at it again slower and fucks me for a little then pulled out and we both jerked each other off. everytime we agree we will never speak of this and nothing will change.
then last night he wanted to drink again and i offered him just a little head if he feels like it and he said not tonight no. we were already drunk so we agreed a little later to put on a couple porn videos just to watch maybe jerk off. next thing i know in the middle of video he turns the light off and shoves his dick in my mouth. after mouth fucking he lays on the bed says get it super wet. i did and started to sit on his dick already rubbing against my hole. a second later im on my knees on my bed and hes fucking me like no tomorrow. i had to bit my pillow to not make noise. he told me he was gonna bust i said ok and he didnt pull out. we laid there for 15 minutes slowly still going, he wanted to stay hard in me. then pulled out and went to sleep on my couch in my room. the next day is always like nothing happened at all and everythings cool and normal. this all seems ok but i think we need to stop doing this stuff as friends and he needs to cope with some stuff
most of my friends know im bi and willing.
both times the guy was wasted and horny. one of the guys was so cute the way he stammered when he asked me if it was true a guy gives better blowjobs than a girl. i just looked him in the eyes and asked him if he wanted to find out. he stuttered and was so scared to say yes and he just nodded his head. the biggest shame was he only lasted about 2 minutes. he had the best tasting cum i have ever tasted. only wish i could taste it again.
Kind of...he's straight, and I used to suck him off regularly for a while, but he wasn't really a friend. Well, he was, but the only reason I became friends with him was so I could suck his dick, so he wasn't a "real" friend.
He was a maintenance worker at my apartment complex. Handsome Latino, early 30's, nice smooth brown skin, naturally athletic build. For some reason I was fixated on his calves. He would wear these long shorts that exposed only his calves. They were nice, naturally muscled and brown, mostly smooth with just the right amount of hair. As for him, he was not very friendly, not very smart, and not much personality, so befriending him was kind of a chore. I used to put in my maintenance requests one at a time so I would get more visits from him. Eventually he started dropping by after work for some beers, and after a few of those drinking sessions, during which he was always complaining about his girlfriend, I finally let him know I was available if he ever wanted a good blowjob. He turned me down at first, and stayed away for a couple of weeks. Then one night, actually morning as it was about 2AM, he comes knocking on my front door, staggering drunk. I invite him in, and have him lying on my bed with his pants off with his dick in my mouth in a matter of minutes. Nice dick, a little bigger than I'd expected, uncut, not thick or thin, just right for sucking. Unfortunately, he smelled like booze and cigarettes and was really shitfaced and the whole thing started to be a turnoff after awhile. I actually had to mentally psyche myself out and remind myself that I'd been wanting this for months and I'd better fucking enjoy it. After I gave myself that little attitude adjustment I actually did enjoy it, and I guess he did too, because he kept coming back...but he was always drunk, sometimes really sloppy drunk, and always waking me up at some godawful hour to blow him. He was a pretty dead lay too, he'd just lay there silently. No moaning, no grunting, no dirty talk, no fucking my mouth, just laying there passively while I did all the work. Sometimes I was really horny and really into it and really enjoyed it, and sometimes I just went ahead and sucked him off to get rid of him. Eventually he stopped coming by, and I learned that he no longer worked at the complex. That was about a year and a half ago. I never saw him again until this past New Years Eve, I was driving into the parking lot and I saw a familiar figure getting out of a car with a couple of small kids and an obese woman. I guess he was spending New Years Eve with one of his friends from the apartments. He did a double take when he saw me. The attraction is pretty much gone now, and I'm glad I don't have to deal with all that anymore just to suck some dick.
Threads like this almost make me wish I was out of the closet, yet had a lot of straight friends cause honestly I would have no problem asking them if I could suck them
but because I'm not out and all my friends think im 100% straight, I could never get the courage to even bring up the topic, like "would you ever get sucked by a guy" I guarentee my friends would be like "what the fuck dude" ahh super awkward
Im so jealous of this!!!
Zeostar, thats the thing, I am a very confident person and have no problem at all when dealing with either someone who is neutrual (like i just met them) or if they are part of the gay part of my life so to speak
But its just with the friends that I went to highschool with, they are very homophobic and I know for a fact that I would lose whatever friend I said something like this too
So although there is nothing holding me back from saying it like as far as nerves go, but common sense tells me to just keep my mouth shut or else I'll ruin a perfectly fine friendship
how do u ask them tho...i am so nervous to ask since am "in the closet" please help i want to suck this guy off so bad but don't know how to ask and i fantasist about him everyday and have seen his amazing dick please
^ This is a good starting point
Nope. Im bi and for reasons directly referenced in this topic "sucking a straight guy" i dont.believe in black and white tags tha sugges that sexual orientation is clearly hardwired into our brain. "Straight" guys cant have had another dude.blow them. A straigh guy wants pussy. Period. Engagingbin same sex activities is a direct contradictin to the notion of heterosexuality. I hate to ruin everybodys fantasy and maybe ten years ago , once, i was intrigued so im not innocent but come on guys.. Lets call a spade a spade. No guy has ever sucked off a straight guy
Who wants me? send private message
Wow, handsome guy
I know lots of str8 guys that wouldn't mind to have their cocks sucked by another guy, but they've never made any proposal.
But I have a friend that's not so shy. It all started six years ago. We were both 14 yo. He brought a porn magazine with him, so we went to my room to look at it. None of us ever said something about blowjobs or sex... but after a while we were looking at that magazine, we started getting horny. He asked me if he could unwear his shorts, just not to compress his dick in a little space. I said he could do as he wanted, that there's no problem for me, and just to make him feel more comfortable, I also wore off my shorts. And so we were there, both horny, both in underwear, lying in my bed. Then after a while he started touching his dick through his pants... I also wanted to start jerking my cock off, but i thought it was not a good idea. But he, suddenly, throw away the magazine, he took off his pants and started jerking off his dick... I stared at him, little surprised and he said: "Wanna try jerk it off?" I was thinking about whether to answer or not when he grabbed my cock and started jerking it off. It felt so good i started jerking his cock off till we came.
The week following we met again, and that time we also licked a bit, but no blowjobs.
Then we've never met again for 3 years. Then our sexy meetings started again, without fears or so. We started giving heads each other regularly. No-one knows about it, and we have no problems about it... for us is natural. He's str8 and has a girlfriend also....
"Straight" has no real meaning any more. It's just an advertising slogan.
I dunno. I sucked off many friends in High School. Are boys that young knowledgeable or experienced enough yet to know whether they are straight or gay? Or was that just naive teenage hormones ready to get off any way they could? I sure didn't mind.
Most of them quickly moved off to servicing girls and married and had children.
Honestly, with as persecuted as homosexuals have been for centuries, you'd think they'd be more open minded about labels/others' sexual preferance.
I'm straight. I've let two guys give me head before. Craigslist bullshit. Have a few at the bar, no luck with the women that night, you do shit. There's always hesitation going into it.
I've looked into many other times since, sometimes I'm horny enough to even consider topping, yet this all usually falls short out of my own hesitation and uneasiness about it. Just something about a guy and all that turns me off, sure if porn was involved, cool, but it's still a difficult thing to accept to in sober mind.
Why does it turn you off?
How many of you gay guys here who have sucked off a "straight" guy ... have had a straight girl suck you off?
I mean, a hole's a hole, and when you're horny, you're horny?
Or maybe not?
The world never changes if you're forever "minding my own business".
The mindset that no one knows you're gay because you haven't told them,
is like the dog that thinks you don't see him stealing the steak because he avoids your glance.
Staying in the closet is like continuing to sit in the back of the bus.
It's accepting that it's wrong to be who you are.
Girls just fucking don't know how to suck cock. Only one girl I ever had that did it to me was a match for the hundreds of dudes that blew me.
Most of them don't have a clue what feels good. Most have an attitude that says, "well, shit, if I must...", most are scared shitless they're gonna hurt it.
So. no thank you. I'll continue to have oral with my gay and straight male friends.