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    How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Ok, so I have a few single gay friends who have always been gay and have known I have always been straight.They have no idea that I have been "exploring my sexuality" or that I spend time on a gay site like this one..
    How do I, out of the blue, mention, "hey do you wanna suck my cock or rim my ass?"
    I dont want ruin a good friendship and wonder if this would...plus I dont think I have the balls to be so direct and just come out and say those things..."hey, you wanna give me a hand job before you go home tonight?"
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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Are you as good-looking as they are? If so, then you're not going to ruin a friendship by telling them you're interested in trying it. If they get offended then they're not friends. Just find out if they're super monogamous and in a relationship. Some gay guys are just as "faithful" as heteros. If they are then that could be a potential friendship issue.

    In general, men are only unhappy when being propositioned by someone who isn't physically attractive to them, unless they have an ideological thing going like monogamy or religion.

    And, men will settle for people who aren't as hot as they would ideally have, depending on the situation. Alcohol and horniness helps. Maybe watch some bi porn together? Or watch a non-porn movie that has a hot naked guy in it to get him aroused.
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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    If they already know you know they're gay what's the problem?
    Just be casual about it.

    "Ya wanna suck my dick" might be tad forward.......

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    I do nto need much prodding if a straight buddy come over, chatting about how horny he is we talk sex and I see his bulge growing, like one guy came over in shorts and tank top after a run as he talked he would open and close his thighs and he was getting hard I usually ask ma if you want head we can go in the bedroom I am hungry I has worked for me.

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Quote Originally Posted by every-other-day View Post
    Are you as good-looking as they are? If so, then you're not going to ruin a friendship by telling them you're interested in trying it. If they get offended then they're not friends. Just find out if they're super monogamous and in a relationship. Some gay guys are just as "faithful" as heteros. If they are then that could be a potential friendship issue.

    In general, men are only unhappy when being propositioned by someone who isn't physically attractive to them, unless they have an ideological thing going like monogamy or religion.

    And, men will settle for people who aren't as hot as they would ideally have, depending on the situation. Alcohol and horniness helps. Maybe watch some bi porn together? Or watch a non-porn movie that has a hot naked guy in it to get him aroused.
    I think I look as good as they do...I know they are all single.We usually just drink beers and bullshit about work..they have mentioned some gay porn at times they have all seen..
    I may mention to them to bring one of those films over and we can all watch it together.
    I usually wear tight jeans when we get together that show a nice bulge that at least two of the guys look at often...If we watch a porn movie together, I have a loose,baggy pair of shorts that definitely show my cock and balls when i have my legs separated...I might wear them!

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Quote Originally Posted by seven2go View Post
    If they already know you know they're gay what's the problem?
    Just be casual about it.

    "Ya wanna suck my dick" might be tad forward.......
    Thats true....
    no, i don't think i would ever just
    say, you wanna suck my cock and then whip it out but after a few beers, its tempting!

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pierresro View Post
    I do nto need much prodding if a straight buddy come over, chatting about how horny he is we talk sex and I see his bulge growing, like one guy came over in shorts and tank top after a run as he talked he would open and close his thighs and he was getting hard I usually ask ma if you want head we can go in the bedroom I am hungry I has worked for me.
    As I mentioned in a post here, I always wear tight jeans, no underwear when we get together...my cock does stiffen up in my jeans while we are all downing a few brews and talking smack....Also, I have a loose fitting pair of shorts that definitely are good for freeballing....I just need to have the balls to wear them in front of them!
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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pierresro View Post
    I do nto need much prodding if a straight buddy come over, chatting about how horny he is we talk sex and I see his bulge growing, like one guy came over in shorts and tank top after a run as he talked he would open and close his thighs and he was getting hard I usually ask ma if you want head we can go in the bedroom I am hungry I has worked for me.
    I gotta try that!

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    You can get a good idea how he will respond by how well you know him. If he's made comments that you're good looking, that's one foot in the door. If he's in a relationship, or has never given you any sign he LIKES you, then move along to another friend. If a guy is interested in you, you will know in the same way you know when a woman is. Eye contact is a dead give away, a guy that wants you will return your gaze...and then some, unless he's really shy. But don't just come right out and ask for a blow job, they might not take you seriously anyhow. I would start by telling a friend that you've wanted that you've been thinking about guys lately, that all this new to you, that you're curious. I really can't imagine a friend not understanding if you put it like that, you might even get laid if you play your cards right. The only word of caution is make sure this friend is a good enough friend that having sex (especially a one time thing) won't ruin your friendship. Who knows, you might end up with a regular fuck buddy that is happy with such an arrangement, or you might find true love. You won't know unless you try. Practice with a dildo in the meantime (orally and anally).

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Quote Originally Posted by seioussuction69 View Post
    You can get a good idea how he will respond by how well you know him. If he's made comments that you're good looking, that's one foot in the door. If he's in a relationship, or has never given you any sign he LIKES you, then move along to another friend. If a guy is interested in you, you will know in the same way you know when a woman is. Eye contact is a dead give away, a guy that wants you will return your gaze...and then some, unless he's really shy. But don't just come right out and ask for a blow job, they might not take you seriously anyhow. I would start by telling a friend that you've wanted that you've been thinking about guys lately, that all this new to you, that you're curious. I really can't imagine a friend not understanding if you put it like that, you might even get laid if you play your cards right. The only word of caution is make sure this friend is a good enough friend that having sex (especially a one time thing) won't ruin your friendship. Who knows, you might end up with a regular fuck buddy that is happy with such an arrangement, or you might find true love. You won't know unless you try. Practice with a dildo in the meantime (orally and anally).
    Thanks for the good advice! I've never used a dildo...I have fingered my ass and enjoyed it.

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Quote Originally Posted by moviesfan17 View Post
    Thanks for the good advice! I've never used a dildo...I have fingered my ass and enjoyed it.
    Oh yeah, you NEED a dildo! You've tried your fingers liked it, it's time to take the next step. Start with a normal penis sized one, you don't want to start with something that's huge. Make sure it has balls or a base that's wider than the shaft so it won't get sucked up into your ass. A vibrating toy will feel much better, and you'll cum much harder. Once you have a prostate orgasm, it will change your life. Most dildos require water-based lube, although some you can use oil-based, just follow the directions. You can always put a condom on it to make clean up easier. And learn about douching or enemas to get that hole sparkling clean. Practice with a dildo/prostate massager/butt plug daily while jerking off, practice makes perfect. You don't want to spread for a guy, only to beg him to pull out because it hurts too much. You might surprise yourself and find that you've been a born bottom all this time, or maybe you'll prefer topping. Buy a masturbation toy, one that looks like an asshole, and practice boning it. Sucking on a clean dildo will help you practice sucking a real dick, it looks easy but it's a talent to be great at it (watch those teeth!) and deep throat it. Learning to breathe through just your nose will be a big help.
    When you're hanging out with your buddies this summer, make sure to wear shorts that show off your ass and package. Going swimming or tanning is great way to get closer to them, put suntan oil or lotion on each other. Smoke some weed, that's always great for relaxing and getting horny. Ask them to bring over some gay porn. Who knows, you might find yourself in the middle of an orgy!
    If you go to http://www.tlavideo.com/gay-toys-vib...rder_by=rating you can find a perfect assortment of toys, this is where I shop online. They also have porn and regular gay movies. And if you want to see my idea of a perfect bottom http://www.xtube.com/video-watch/fol...migos-28505771.
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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Wow, it sounds like you have this one. A few drinks, gay porn, loose shorts, practicing in advance with a dildo...the stage is set. You have to keep us posted.

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    bump the fuck out of this

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    bump the fuck out of this
    My ass agrees!

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Quote Originally Posted by mbynpm View Post
    Wow, it sounds like you have this one. A few drinks, gay porn, loose shorts, practicing in advance with a dildo...the stage is set. You have to keep us posted.
    Next time he comes over for a few brews, I'll put on gay porn and wear my shorts that are good for freeballing

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

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    Quote Originally Posted by moviesfan17 View Post
    Next time he comes over for a few brews, I'll put on gay porn and wear my shorts that are good for freeballing
    Love a freeballer! Make sure to sit across from him with your legs spread, bend over infront of him, give your package a casual adjustment while making small talk. If he keep looking, you've likely got somebody to play with. If he's wearing shorts too it will be even better! Beer is fine, and the gay porn (getting supplied by a straight guy) should tell even a moron what you want. But for really amazing sexual experience, smoke or vape a little weed. It's a perfect aphrodisiac, you'll both be drooling over each other in no time. And make sure to slap his face with your throbbing cock before you feed it to him, that always kicks it into high gear. Have condoms and lube in several locations around the house since you never know where a good fuck will take you.
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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

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    Love a freeballer! Make sure to sit across from him with your legs spread, bend over infront of him, give your package a casual adjustment while making small talk. If he keep looking, you've likely got somebody to play with. If he's wearing shorts too it will be even better! Beer is fine, and the gay porn (getting supplied by a straight guy) should tell even a moron what you want. But for really amazing sexual experience, smoke or vape a little weed. It's a perfect aphrodisiac, you'll both be drooling over each other in no time. And make sure to slap his face with your throbbing cock before you feed it to him, that always kicks it into high gear. Have condoms and lube in several locations around the house since you never know where a good fuck will take you.
    I have these shorts that are very revealing with my legs separated...my balls always hang out and usually the tip and a few inches of my cock...I hope to get together soon with him when work schedules permit..

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Saw one of my gay friends the other night for a few beers...he's so hot but unfortunately, has a partner...however, when we hugged goodbye, he gave one of my butt cheeks a firm squeeze...I so wanted to unzip his jeans..but I didn't
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    Sometimes a direct approach might work.


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    Sometimes a direct approach might work.

    I'm going to grab his cock and balls next time or just drop my jeans

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Quote Originally Posted by moviesfan17 View Post
    I think I look as good as they do...I know they are all single.We usually just drink beers and bullshit about work..they have mentioned some gay porn at times they have all seen..
    I may mention to them to bring one of those films over and we can all watch it together.
    I usually wear tight jeans when we get together that show a nice bulge that at least two of the guys look at often...If we watch a porn movie together, I have a loose,baggy pair of shorts that definitely show my cock and balls when i have my legs separated...I might wear them!
    sounds all good!

    If you are hesitant and don't want to be too directly, just tell one of your gay friends that although you are straight you recently are pretty curious exploring some things...
    you could also put one hand on your bulge while you talk to him and try to look into his eyes... chances should be quite high that he'll offer you a blow job

    or you ask him: "I wonder if the rumor is true that most gay guys suck better than girls... somehow it would be interesting to explore... and I'm quite horny right now after this hot video..."

    If he is a good friend and gay and single, I would put the odds that he will lend you his hand and/or mouth defintely above 80%, probably close to 90%

    In the unlikely case that he reacts embarrassed you can still say a minute later "Sorry I was just fantasizing a bit too much after the beers" or "just joking"

    Good luck, have fun and enjoy yourself

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    I'm late to this party.

    If I had a straight friend I found attractive (and I find most of my straight friends attractive), I would probably suck his dick if he asked. The only time I wouldn't would be if he was drunk. I wouldn't want to risk someone feeling like they'd done something they wouldn't have done sober, especially since I don't drink myself and couldn't use booze as an excuse for my actions.

    If I were in one of your gay friend's shoes, I'd probably figure that any weirdness bridge was crossed when you asked for the blowjob, so I might as well go all in and have the pleasure of sucking some hot straight dick. The thing is: I have a lot of friends. While I'd miss any one of my straight male buddies, I wouldn't be devastated if they asked me to suck their dick, I did it, and then they were weird afterwards. Most of them are friends from recent years. If you would really feel the loss of any of these guys' friendships, then I would just line up a blowjob on Craig's List or some hookup site. There are tons of guys on all of those begging to blow straight guys, and you could probably be pretty choosy.

    If you're willing to take a chance on the friendship, then by all means ask. I say keep it casual. Gay porn fantasies are gay porn fantasies for a reason. I'd be turned on if a guy just casually lowered his voice and said, "So they say guys give better head...any chance....?"

    Whatever happens, please report back to us

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Quote Originally Posted by enjoyit View Post
    sounds all good!

    If you are hesitant and don't want to be too directly, just tell one of your gay friends that although you are straight you recently are pretty curious exploring some things...
    you could also put one hand on your bulge while you talk to him and try to look into his eyes... chances should be quite high that he'll offer you a blow job

    or you ask him: "I wonder if the rumor is true that most gay guys suck better than girls... somehow it would be interesting to explore... and I'm quite horny right now after this hot video..."

    If he is a good friend and gay and single, I would put the odds that he will lend you his hand and/or mouth defintely above 80%, probably close to 90%

    In the unlikely case that he reacts embarrassed you can still say a minute later "Sorry I was just fantasizing a bit too much after the beers" or "just joking"

    Good luck, have fun and enjoy yourself
    Thats helpful advice...just got to have or get the balls to be so direct!

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

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    I'm late to this party.

    If I had a straight friend I found attractive (and I find most of my straight friends attractive), I would probably suck his dick if he asked. The only time I wouldn't would be if he was drunk. I wouldn't want to risk someone feeling like they'd done something they wouldn't have done sober, especially since I don't drink myself and couldn't use booze as an excuse for my actions.

    If I were in one of your gay friend's shoes, I'd probably figure that any weirdness bridge was crossed when you asked for the blowjob, so I might as well go all in and have the pleasure of sucking some hot straight dick. The thing is: I have a lot of friends. While I'd miss any one of my straight male buddies, I wouldn't be devastated if they asked me to suck their dick, I did it, and then they were weird afterwards. Most of them are friends from recent years. If you would really feel the loss of any of these guys' friendships, then I would just line up a blowjob on Craig's List or some hookup site. There are tons of guys on all of those begging to blow straight guys, and you could probably be pretty choosy.

    If you're willing to take a chance on the friendship, then by all means ask. I say keep it casual. Gay porn fantasies are gay porn fantasies for a reason. I'd be turned on if a guy just casually lowered his voice and said, "So they say guys give better head...any chance....?"

    Whatever happens, please report back to us
    I'm not looking to just get great head from a guy..I want to have a good friendship that would include great sex. (that's what my brain is telling me but my cock tells me a different story at times!)
    Thanks for your opinion and good advice.
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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    The next time you're talking, you could say a guy hit on you online, and for the first time, you actually considered it. That will tell your friend that you are open to the advances of another man. See how he reacts. If he starts asking questions, you could say that you decided you wanted your first time to be with someone you already knew and felt connected/close to. That's a hint that's hard to misunderstand.

    Frankly, sometimes we don't consider the balancing act of how to approach a friend for sex (which isn't even close to the same thing as true intimacy) without harming a highly-valued relationship. And if the friendship matters to you - and it sounds like it does - the above approach leaves a lot of "wiggle room" in case they're not cool about having that type of connection with you.

    Just because he might be "as good looking as they are" doesn't mean he's their type and that they're foaming at the mouth to go to bed with him. (Jesus. Men!!!). And not every "friend" is going to want to have sex with you no matter how good-looking you are. Some people actually have boundaries, y'know.
    Try using a little finesse, guys.
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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Quote Originally Posted by mcbrion View Post
    The next time you're talking, you could say a guy hit on you online, and for the first time, you actually considered it. That will tell your friend that you are open to the advances of another man. See how he reacts. If he starts asking questions, you could say that you decided you wanted your first time to be with someone you already knew and felt connected/close to. That's a hint that's hard to misunderstand.

    Frankly, sometimes we don't consider the balancing act of how to approach a friend for sex (which isn't even close to the same thing as true intimacy) without harming a highly-valued relationship. And if the friendship matters to you - and it sounds like it does - the above approach leaves a lot of "wiggle room" in case they're not cool about having that type of connection with you.

    Just because he might be "as good looking as they are" doesn't mean he's their type and that they're foaming at the mouth to go to bed with him. (Jesus. Men!!!). And not every "friend" is going to want to have sex with you no matter how good-looking you are. Some people actually have boundaries, y'know.
    Try using a little finesse, guys.
    Good stuff..thanks for sharing..I need to go slow and make good sound decisions!

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

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    I'm late to this party.

    If I had a straight friend I found attractive (and I find most of my straight friends attractive), I would probably suck his dick if he asked. The only time I wouldn't would be if he was drunk. I wouldn't want to risk someone feeling like they'd done something they wouldn't have done sober, especially since I don't drink myself and couldn't use booze as an excuse for my actions.

    If I were in one of your gay friend's shoes, I'd probably figure that any weirdness bridge was crossed when you asked for the blowjob, so I might as well go all in and have the pleasure of sucking some hot straight dick. The thing is: I have a lot of friends. While I'd miss any one of my straight male buddies, I wouldn't be devastated if they asked me to suck their dick, I did it, and then they were weird afterwards. Most of them are friends from recent years. If you would really feel the loss of any of these guys' friendships, then I would just line up a blowjob on Craig's List or some hookup site. There are tons of guys on all of those begging to blow straight guys, and you could probably be pretty choosy.

    If you're willing to take a chance on the friendship, then by all means ask. I say keep it casual. Gay porn fantasies are gay porn fantasies for a reason. I'd be turned on if a guy just casually lowered his voice and said, "So they say guys give better head...any chance....?"

    Whatever happens, please report back to us
    Honestly, I love the idea of another guy wanting to rim my ass and suck on my cock but I don't want somebody on Craigslist...I would rather have a good friendship with someone that leads to getting naked with him.

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

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    Honestly, I love the idea of another guy wanting to rim my ass and suck on my cock but I don't want somebody on Craigslist...I would rather have a good friendship with someone that leads to getting naked with him.
    I see. So things are more complicated. Again, I say, as long as you won't be devastated if the friendship goes weird, go ahead and pitch it to one of them. You're proposing some fooling around, not marriage. Be prepared that your other friends might find out - whether the answer is no or whether you achieve your objective. But that's not the end of the world, and it will tell them that you're open to experimenting. Maybe then one of them will make a move.

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    Quote Originally Posted by Suburbanite View Post
    I see. So things are more complicated. Again, I say, as long as you won't be devastated if the friendship goes weird, go ahead and pitch it to one of them. You're proposing some fooling around, not marriage. Be prepared that your other friends might find out - whether the answer is no or whether you achieve your objective. But that's not the end of the world, and it will tell them that you're open to experimenting. Maybe then one of them will make a move.
    Good advice..thanks!

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    Re: How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

    I have a gay friend who is so hot and when I see him this weekend, I'm wearing my free balling shorts.

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