In the past 2 years, I let myself go, and I'm unfortunately, now I'm about 45 lbs overweight.
Last week I me a VERY attractive single gay gay (a friend of a friend). Not only is he very attractive, but he's very smart and we have so much in common.
We all hung out in a group, and although he was very friendly and cordial to me, I could tell that he wasn't physically attracted to me.
Now I've begun a serious diet, and I plan to casually "hang out" with him again after I lose the weight, and hopefully things will progress further....
...Have any of you tried tried to do this before?