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    Losing Weight to Make a Specific Guy Attracted to You

    Hi Everyone,
    In the past 2 years, I let myself go, and I'm unfortunately, now I'm about 45 lbs overweight.

    Last week I me a VERY attractive single gay gay (a friend of a friend). Not only is he very attractive, but he's very smart and we have so much in common.

    We all hung out in a group, and although he was very friendly and cordial to me, I could tell that he wasn't physically attracted to me.

    Now I've begun a serious diet, and I plan to casually "hang out" with him again after I lose the weight, and hopefully things will progress further....

    ...Have any of you tried tried to do this before?

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    Re: Losing Weight to Make a Specific Guy Attracted to You

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    Re: Losing Weight to Make a Specific Guy Attracted to You

    You are doing it for the wrong reasons.

    Do it for yourself and your own health.

    Forget this guy.

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    Re: Losing Weight to Make a Specific Guy Attracted to You

    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy
    You are doing it for the wrong reasons.
    Do it for yourself and your own health.
    This I agree with 100%

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    Re: Losing Weight to Make a Specific Guy Attracted to You

    IF this is the motivation you need, go ahead.

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    Re: Losing Weight to Make a Specific Guy Attracted to You

    I don't think you are doing it for the wrong reasons. Sometimes intrinsic motivation is simply not as strong as extrinsic.

    HOWEVER, it is unlikely dropping the weight will attract him. There are possibly multiple reasons why he isn't attracted, and that is what it is.

    If you want to use his potential as motivation though, go right ahead, with the inner knowledge that it is a bit of fantasy, akin to porn. But, if you shed the pounds, the NEXT guy whom you will meet and will be attracted to you, is going to be a nice surprise to you, now isn't he? Good luck.

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    Re: Losing Weight to Make a Specific Guy Attracted to You

    Use whatever motivates you to lose weight. Just don't bank on scoring your dream guy, this way if he's still not interested at least youre thinner and have more confidence in yourself to go get another guy!
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    Re: Losing Weight to Make a Specific Guy Attracted to You

    The people who use an external force like snagging a boyfriend are much more likely to fail than those who do it because they value their own health first.

    When the magical boyfriend doesn't come along, the sense of failure will drive them back to sloppy eating habits.

    Or let's say that the guy of your dreams finally decides to fuck you when you've dropped the 45.

    But then you gain back five.

    Or do you live with the fear every day that every pound might drive him away.

    This is how bulimics and anorexics are spawned.

    I stand by what I wrote.

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    Re: Losing Weight to Make a Specific Guy Attracted to You

    Quote Originally Posted by Tilly5 View Post
    Hi Everyone,
    In the past 2 years, I let myself go, and I'm unfortunately, now I'm about 45 lbs overweight.

    Last week I me a VERY attractive single gay gay (a friend of a friend). Not only is he very attractive, but he's very smart and we have so much in common.

    We all hung out in a group, and although he was very friendly and cordial to me, I could tell that he wasn't physically attracted to me.

    Now I've begun a serious diet, and I plan to casually "hang out" with him again after I lose the weight, and hopefully things will progress further....

    ...Have any of you tried tried to do this before?
    Before a relationship, never.

    However as the relationships progressed, we often ended up wearing the same (kind of) clothes.

    If he truly likes you, he won't mind the extra weight.
    Have long hair at the moment, because I had a relationship with a hippie.
    Last edited by Harke the Boeotarch; July 24th, 2016 at 05:54 AM.

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