All my early sex was with guys. However, when I got married at 20, I believed I was bisexual. Over time it became obvious that I am gay. In the beginning my wife and I entertained men as a bisexual couple; after coming out, we entertained as a bi wife gay hubby. It seemed to me that the bi men were more open with me as a gay man and did more with me, then when I was bi. When we met our bisexual boyfriend he was primarily into sucking cock, which he had done with other bi guys for years; however, he said because I am gay he felt more comfortable trying other things. When he and I are in bed together, he refers to us as gay lovers and enjoys everything we do as lovers.
So, the question: are you more relaxed with a gay man and more open to exploring more?