Hmm, tell me about this top thing - how often are you getting laid? Are you just being on top, or are you giving good dick? What? Let me lay it out for ya...
Right then - you have to understand the flow of dominance in sex. when to rub the guy's head when he's blowing you, letting him know he's a good boy, when to pull him down hard on it - challenge him to deep throat it, and show your appreciation. He wants to please you, but he wants you to be strong and in control, too. let him submit - there comes a time when you have to stop him, hold his head still and fuck his face...but you have to know when, when he's totally spiritually open, giving you full reign, and you have to make that fill good for him. and all of this is just a prelude to what you're going to do to his ass, and he knows it - he's getting to know the shape and size of your cock, what it’s like to be filled up with it, it's what he's going to be seeing in his head when he's face down in a pillow a few minutes later.
When he turns around and offers you his ass, it has to be a moment of pure liberation for him. All that stupid male bullshit is gone; the role of beta male is SO warm and comfortable, because he knows exactly what his alpha expects of him. That when you spread that fuzzy ass and bury your face in it - let there no shame for him in his ass, you're glorifying it, kissing it, licking it. He’s face down, in a position of total submission, and rather than being belittled or punished for it, he's being worshipped and pleasured. But he has to know who's in control - that's why you slap it,
That gift of ass is precious, because in all honesty, having a dick shoved up your hole hurts. Sometimes a lot, but it’s the only way to get to getting your goodie filled, that fantastic prostate massage. he's trusting you to use just the right amount of force, and he flat knows you're aroused by causing him pain - all tops like to hear a bottom moan, causing another man pain topped with enough pleasure to make him want it - and doing it with your dick, is the ultimate power trip.
You have to know your assholes, too - which ones need fingering first, slow stretching and opening, also and utterly visceral pleasure for the bottom, to be teased into relaxing, opening up. You have to know if the guy wants you to slide in slow and gentle, bit by bit, or if he's the kind what wants it rough, wants to be challenged as to how much he can take. That kind - you have to help make him feel like more of a man because he can take more pain, more intensity, make him *grow* spiritually by his strength. but ultimately, always, there comes a point where you have to just let go and fuck the holy hell out of that hole, jack hammer it for all you're worth, put your heart into it - get the rhythm going then suddenly go in DEEP, all the way, flatten his ass, watch his eyes roll back then back to the jackhammer.
What, you're tight? Oh, no, baby, I’m gonna work your hole. Do you like having it licked and teased? I’m gonna take care of it right. I want your entire awareness focused on your asshole, and when I finally push my dick in there, there won't be any room in your head for worry or any of your daily bullshit - my dick is gonna fulfil like nothing else can, make you complete, sated, done - and then I’m gonna pull it out and teach you what it’s like to have WAY more than you need, just but not quite more than you can handle.
Where you were full before, I’m gonna hammer it in. I’m gonna put so much dick in you all your problems and worries will have to just get lost. I want you to have that happy glow well into the next day, I want you walking around fully aware of how I pushed your ass to its limits, how you took it like a man and gave it back to me just as good, how you EARNED my cum when I bust my nut deep in you (in a condom), but you'll feel my energy in there, like a warm ball of power in your prostate that you keep with you. when you leave that bedroom, mf, you better have a bit of swagger in your step, swing in your ass, walkin' tall - smile at people with that secret knowledge smile cause while we may not look like cover boys, we owned some gd porn star sex the night before, and we KNOW it.
And just in case I can't make you cum like that, if I must admit defeat, I’ll surrender like a real man. I’ll roll over on my back, look you in the eye and pull my legs back, showing you what you've won - that you're not the only one with a nice, fuzzy hole. And at that moment, every drop of testosterone in your furry bod with be shot into your brain, like you just mainlined a fat dose of primal fucking caveman. And I’m not the kind that needs teasing - I want you to suit up and push it for all you're worth. man, when you see what that does to me, like its tearing me apart but my eyes are begging you not to stop...and if you do, I’ll flat tell you, 'I need it all, man, slide it slow all the way in, balls deep the first time. I can handle it, can take it, it's what I need, dammit' and when you've totally plugged me with your fat cock, I want you to kiss me like you mean it, kiss me like you've got every inch of your dick up my ass, take my fucking breath away - and then you'll pop. No fucking way you get beyond the first stroke, though you fucking know I know how to give up ass by now, I’ll throw you back, sit on your cock, pin down your arms and pull your fucking nut out of your prostate with my ass lips if I have to, while I kiss you like an mf movie star. Dammit, because you're fucking GORGEOUS and gd deserve it. Peace.