I am very overweight. When soft I have little to show (though fortunately grow easily).
I was thinking of visiting a bath house on one of my upcoming travels. Not so much about having sex, in fact I am too afraid of w2hat I would catch to do that. But just to be naked and sit in a sauna or pool, and openly check out other guys and not worry about getting hard.
Is it sort of expected to only have sex while at a bathhouse? Is it OK to just hang out? Especially if you are not attractive?