Just wondering what methods can be used for a new convert submissive in an exclusive relationship with a Dom to let other Doms know that it is taken and does not wish to be approached or "hit upon" by guys who are on the prowl. In other words, what can I have him wear or do that is not ( at this point yet ) a permanent marking and while inconspicuous to the unknowing eye, lets other Doms in say for an example, a bar setting, that it is not available. W/we live an hour and half away from each other so W/we do not live together or play on a daily basis but it has been hot on in bars by Doms who seem to sense that it is a total bottom even though it is not effeminate in any way. So is there any way that it can make it known that it has chosen a Master? I am not totally new to the D/s scene but I have never come across this sort of situation before. As W/we get deeper into this relationship, I will have it marked and/or pierced but its early and W/we both want to be sure that this will continue to be as good as it has started out to be before taking that step. Also, ANY markings must be discreet and low key as while it is no longer married, it still has kids living with it plus it has a full time job.