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    My straight best friend

    Hey guys
    It's me again
    Some of you might have read my previous threads about my miserable life
    But today I want to share something about my best friend who is 4 years younger than me I basically know this guy since the day he was born and we spend a lot of time together
    I have an extremely hot crush on him and I feel guilt for always lusting for him
    I know nothing will ever happen between us because he is straight and I am in the closet and will never come out but guys do you think I should feel guilty because I sneak a peak whenever I get the chance or because I "accidentally" touch him and always wanting to be with him?
    If you think this is normal do you have similar stories and how you got to see more of your best friends

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    Re: My straight best friend

    I'm not so sure you should feel guilty about sneaking a peek every now and again, but personally, I'd caution overstepping your bounds. Speaking from personal experience of lusting after friends who are straight, and I've had a mixed experience believe me, there are certain boundaries you don't want to cross unless you want to lose your friends. Some are comfortable with being 'accidentally touched' but only up to a point.

    As for is it normal? Of course it is, you can find someone attractive and sneak a peek regardless of who they are and what they are to you. If they're comfortable around you and you respect them, you'll get to see more of them. I have a friend who's comfortable being naked around me. I have others who prefer to be clothed around me, but I don't try to make them either way.

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    Re: My straight best friend

    ughk.... this is such a tired thing.

    OK so... this is what you do:


    Come out. Go meet some actual gay men, make some gay friends, have some gay sex and maybe even get a gay boyfriend. When you surround yourself with actual available men, you stop clinging to the closest male whether or not he's available to you.

    You'll stop thinking about your friend in those inappropriate ways and think of him as a friend... which is what he is.

    We've all made the mistake of falling for a straight friend. That's usually because we don't have any gay men in our lives. Once we do... that usually goes away.
    Gentlemen.... Thank you.

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    Re: My straight best friend

    He's straight and you shouldn't "acidently" touch him anyway. Find a gay man and move on.

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    Re: My straight best friend

    Quote Originally Posted by christoforomarz View Post
    ...................I am in the closet and will never come out .......................
    This is the worst life decision you could possibly make. You may well manage to survive but there will come a time when you realise what a mistake you have made and how you have wasted your life.

    If you remain in the closet you will remain a stranger to every person you meet; how do you ever hope to develop a healthy relationship with them if you are incapable of being who you really are. Would you be happy with all the people you know being totally dishonest with you?

    It takes courage but start somewhere by telling someone you trust.
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    what's the point of living if you're living on someone else's terms?

    You should feel worse about that than you do for perving on your friend.
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    Re: My straight best friend

    A quick look at christoforomarz's post history reveals that he is living in Jordan.

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    Re: My straight best friend

    Oh. Then I take that back.

    Yeah... your best option is to try to emigrate to a country where you won't get your head chopped off if you come out.
    Gentlemen.... Thank you.

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    Re: My straight best friend

    It's tough having a crush on a straight friend, knowing they'll never have the same feelings for you as you do for them. Plus, if they find out you like them, they might not want you around anymore.

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    Re: My straight best friend

    I know once you posted that your Mother was Italian, do you hold dual citizenship for Italy? If so you could try for work there.

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    Re: My straight best friend

    Let it go...I tried it and it ended terrible. He was an asshole after all I did for him. Should've never went down that road

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    Re: My straight best friend

    It seems that Jordan is not as homophobic legally as other Arab countries; I just did a quick search to see what it is like there.

    It is possible to be openly gay, with a gay community and press; though obviously family pressure and intolerance is still a problem for many gay men. But it is possible to establish a gay life and there does seem to be support out there for young gay men.

    Would I want to live there? No.
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