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    Bi-curious guy needs advice

    So I'm straight, have a gf, and am very bi-curious. I love watching gay porn almost as much as straight porn, I actually probably watch more gay. I've been this way for about 10 years and my bi-curious cravings are only getting more stronger. I never did any real experimenting while in college or in my younger years, and now that I'm older it's not real easy to do. I do know that I want to be with women, but for some reason I really want to mess around with guys (just a physical thing with the guys). Will these cravings go away or do I need to try and fulfill my fantasy to see what it's like to be with a man? It's consuming all my thoughts and is only getting worse. Any recommendations what to do?

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    You are sexually attracted to your GF, but also sexually aroused by guys - thats less curious and more straight up bisexual. but thats beside the point.
    cravings is not the right way to think about it. they are sexual impulses. the same as you get for women - biologically there is no difference. the same exact neurological and endocrinological pathways are being used. so no, they wont stop.

    there are 4 options as far as i can tell.
    1, do nothing and stay in the closet (psychological not a good option, but a common one)
    2, tell trustworthy people, including your GF, but stay monogamous
    3, tell your GF you want to experiment, if she says ok, do it; if not tell her its a dealbreaker and end the relationship, or cheat on her
    4, cheat on your GF while in the closet - if youre caught, you will likely be thrown out of the closet

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    I am in a similar situation. Females turn me on. Every one I see I check out sexually. Men don't turn me on. But I love looking at gay porn. Love looking at pictures of cocks. I have had some sex with men and really loved it. My fears of getting and STD keep me from having casual sex with men. I put adds on Craigslist looking for a married, monogamous, discrete and occasional boyfriend for daytime "lunch" encounters. Now I have another married guy friend. About once a month we meet at an adult book store. We'll meet in the parking lot and then go in and pay for entry into the back. We get a little booth and lock the door. It is amazing how frantic we are in getting naked. Sometimes we watch a little of the porn on the screen and talk about what is going on. But mostly it is about playing with each other's cocks. At first I didn't want him to cum in my mouth but now I love it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by naztypanty View Post
    I am in a similar situation. Females turn me on. Every one I see I check out sexually. Men don't turn me on. But I love looking at gay porn. Love looking at pictures of cocks. I have had some sex with men and really loved it. My fears of getting and STD keep me from having casual sex with men. I put adds on Craigslist looking for a married, monogamous, discrete and occasional boyfriend for daytime "lunch" encounters. Now I have another married guy friend. About once a month we meet at an adult book store. We'll meet in the parking lot and then go in and pay for entry into the back. We get a little booth and lock the door. It is amazing how frantic we are in getting naked. Sometimes we watch a little of the porn on the screen and talk about what is going on. But mostly it is about playing with each other's cocks. At first I didn't want him to cum in my mouth but now I love it.
    Men don't turn you on, yet you've had sex with men and really loved it?

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    wow someone in the exact situation as me, no help but i have no idea what to do either

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    Quote Originally Posted by midwesthg View Post
    Will these cravings go away or do I need to try and fulfill my fantasy to see what it's like to be with a man?
    I don't think they'll go away...

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    I'm in the same situation...

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    Quote Originally Posted by TomDavo View Post
    wow someone in the exact situation as me, no help but i have no idea what to do either
    Maybe you guys should hook up and solve each others dilemma?

    It isn't going to go away. I think I would do some self discovery before one day when you are old find yourself cruising/perving/ voyuer'ing a rest area or park where you could get baited and busted and that would be worse then the gf finding out. Sexuality is a hard beast to keep at bay and time without finding out what you desire is torture.
    Last edited by vulgar_newcomer; February 4th, 2015 at 10:44 AM.

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    Damn how many of us are there? That one guy was right. We all just need to hook up and suck the hell out of eachother lol

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    Quote Originally Posted by ant811 View Post
    Men don't turn you on, yet you've had sex with men and really loved it?
    For some guys it's NOT about the MAN.......it's strictly about the dick.
    Dick dick dick dick dick.

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    Quote Originally Posted by naztypanty View Post
    I am in a similar situation. Females turn me on. Every one I see I check out sexually. Men don't turn me on. But I love looking at gay porn. Love looking at pictures of cocks.
    Thought I was the only one......

    And yeah, gay guys wont understand it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PoppaJunk View Post
    Thought I was the only one......

    And yeah, gay guys wont understand it.
    Why don't you and the like look at tranny porn instead of gay then if it's simply just about the cocks? That way you guys can keep your warped sexualities still somewhat intact. For yourselves anyway.

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    Funny choice of words there lil feller. "Warped"?...on a site/ forum that doesnt discriminate? Love big tranny dick too. Hell, maybe even yours. Just dont wanna kiss u. Too far out there? What ever will I do? When I came to this site, I wasnt looking for attention. I just wanted to talk to other guys that like looking at cock, maybe sucking a cock.."Straight/Bisexual seemed like a good place to start.

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    Post a picture so I can see who Im...oh no picture? Why? Hmmm. Crawl back in your cave and I wont degrade u again. Leave us to our far out warped shit. Fair enough?

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    I love women and they turn me on sexually and emotionally. But with guys, it's just sexual, and it's a certain type of guy, fem, twink, smooth and thin. Some gay guys I've been with are ok with it, but some can't accept that it's just a physical thing. I've been insulted several times, told I'm just lying to myself. But an orgasm is an orgasm, with me anyway.

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    Same with me I love fucking a girl but prefer a guys hard cock !

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    Start to associate yourself with others where you may find someone in a similar position. Have you got any nude beaches in the area, this is always a great place to meet bisexual and gay men. My recommendation is to not hold back, if you have those feelings carry them out. I have trying to hook up for the first time myself and have aspirations once the warm weather arrives to hit a few nude spots and carry out my wishes. I met someone last summer and have stayed in touch via email. Also when you are around others, just start talking, don't be shy.

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    Quote Originally Posted by naztypanty View Post
    I am in a similar situation. Females turn me on. Every one I see I check out sexually. Men don't turn me on. But I love looking at gay porn. Love looking at pictures of cocks. I have had some sex with men and really loved it. My fears of getting and STD keep me from having casual sex with men. I put adds on Craigslist looking for a married, monogamous, discrete and occasional boyfriend for daytime "lunch" encounters. Now I have another married guy friend. About once a month we meet at an adult book store. We'll meet in the parking lot and then go in and pay for entry into the back. We get a little booth and lock the door. It is amazing how frantic we are in getting naked. Sometimes we watch a little of the porn on the screen and talk about what is going on. But mostly it is about playing with each other's cocks. At first I didn't want him to cum in my mouth but now I love it.
    You literally just described me, except I have never messed around with a guy

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    You guys should start updating your profile to at least show what state you're in. That way guys like me in the same boat as you can see if your close

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    Re: Bi-curious guy needs advice

    I'm convinced that ALL Human Males are HARD Wired to be Omni Sexual. When we're young, all it takes to get us UP is a light breeze!

    If I were to start a list of all the things Guys use to get off, I'd end up writing a novel!

    The thing about that Natural URGE is that we recognize it in ourselves, and are attracted to it, since that's the way we're built, and Know that other Guys UNDERSTAND the same thing!

    Forget all the Labels! Depending on our individual Social constructs, that Innate URGE is attempted to be controlled in the interest of Civil conduct.

    ALL of "Us Guys" are encouraged/taught that we must submit to what is Expected of us, in spite of what we Truly are.

    And, I'm not just talking about SEX, but also our Emotions, and what is considered "Acceptable" to be a Guy!

    Yeah! We're designed for Sex, with whatever/whoever, yet repressed, in many more ways than just that. Our basic Drive is the "Root" focus of how we're pressured to comport ourselves.

    Females, in general, are more about Feelings while Males are more oriented toward Feeling, if you catch the subtle difference in that.

    None of "Us" are as odd, weird, "bent", as much as we're lead to believe.

    The question is ... How do each of us choose to deal with it?

    All the more reasons to ... No Matter What ...

    Keep Smilin'!!
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