Lately I've been feeling into the idea of getting an erotic male massage...I think I would arrange it through a site like Masseur Finder, where it's pretty explicitly about sensual massage. But I don't really know exactly what to expect and I'm feeling a little nervous about it for that reason.
I've found posts that are pretty direct in saying they work in the nude and there are lots of allusions to a full release, so I get that it ends with the client cumming. But how exactly does it all happen? Is it a regular massage and it just ends with getting jerked off? Or is the whole thing sexual? Some of the ads also mention that mutual touching is okay. How much is the client expected/allowed to touch, and where? Does the masseur get hard? Does the masseur cum at the end too?
I'm also worried about whether there's a stereotype around this...one of my friends made a joke that getting a gay erotic massage is for "old hairy men." Obviously that's an insulting joke, but will it be weird for me to get one as a 22yo, slim, young guy?
I would love to hear if anyone has any personal experience or advice to share. I would really love to find some kind of blog post or something about a first-hand experience (that isn't obvious fiction) but haven't found that either.
Any help is much appreciated!