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    Meeting older guys

    How does one meet older guys without looking like a complete fool? I'm assuming just about any gay guy would have a hard time meeting other guys seeing as most of them are straight. With older guys I find it a little more difficult, where do people find ways to meet older guys?

    On a unrelated note anyone else have zero attraction to guys their age? I just have no psychical attraction to guys my age... I'm assuming this tends to shift as people get older?

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    I've been meeting alot of older men and I'm 24. Basically, take my advice on this one. You have to keep up with conversation. It's like talking with your friends, but make it more interesting and the guy may get closer to you.

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    I mean to say where would you meet older guys? A lot I them seem to be married or otherwise very uninterested in the gay community. And I'm just this 25 year old hitting on some older guy who I can't be sure would reciprocate.

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    Seriously? Go on any hookup app/site, and make a profile. The eldergays should flock to you. In my experience and from talking to many older guys, they all love young guys. You should have no problem.
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    I wouldn't say that I have zero attraction to guys my own age (27) but I am much more attracted to older guys (40+ or so).
    Last edited by bort138; August 29th, 2014 at 01:26 AM.

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    A lot of people are attracted to men or women much older or much younger. Make some profiles on some daddy / gay bear dating/hook up sites.
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    I'm 54 and I'm only attracted to much younger guys. Usually in their 20's.

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    I'm an older guy. All you young guys have to do is come up and say hi. The gym is a good place to start.

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    Re: Meeting older guys

    Try Silverdaddies.com

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    Re: Meeting older guys

    Quote Originally Posted by JimLahey View Post
    anyone else have zero attraction to guys their age?
    Yes, I'm 22 years old and only like guys from like 50+, guys my age are just like girls for me: I'm having no sexual attrection to them.

    I think you will find something through a dating site/app (never tried it myself).

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    Jim are you talking about the best way to realistically meet older chaps?

    Go to a pub. Have a few sherberts and take it from there. Offer to buy a Daddy a drink....they love that.

    Alcohol makes it so much easier to relax, and in a pub at least it's a level playing field as most punters will likely end up twatted.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bubble View Post
    I'm 54 and I'm only attracted to much younger guys. Usually in their 20's.
    I'm shocked.
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    The dating sites are ok I guess. I'm not in the best position to be using them. I live with 4 room mates and I'm just starting university. So to actually attract older men it seems to be difficult, I mean if I just wanna fuck in a city an hour away I guess I could but I'd prefer to have more than just fucking. Also my lck of being Asian seems to affect things, I'm a little over weight that don't help either. So to whomever mentioned the gym that could be a great way for more ways than one! But still how would you go about figuring out if someone's gay? I find getting that one wrong with older guys seems to be a bit rougher.

    The bar tends to be a no go for me, just isn't my scene at all. I've never actually been to a gay bar, but I already don't like regular bars to go out and meet people and I don't think in going to enjoy a gay bar either. I'm what people tend to call "straight acting" the people who find out I'm gay are usually pretty shocked.

    Does anyone recommend any good dating sites? I used silverdaddies before, I had a couple dates from it but I don't seem to fit what most older guys are looking for.

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    Gay websites and venues are the only place that guarantee the people there are of the same sexual orientation as you.

    Being Asian (or whatever ethnic background) has nothing to do with how attractive you are. There are Asian who only date Asian and there are Caucasian who only date Asian, etc... People who pre-judge you by your ethnicity are not worth wasting your time on them. A well rounded person would know to look beyond the packaging and appreciate what's inside.

    Your weight is only an issue if it's something of your concern. What kind of partner are you looking for? Gym fit or an average guy, maybe a bit chubby? Average and chubby guy don't care if their partner is gym fit. It's true that some people prefer a little something to hold on to. Loose the weight if you want for health reason. It's more important how you present yourself and your self confident. Older guy into long term relationship are more interested in your personality and if you can hold a conversation than how much you weight.

    From my personal experience, the main difference between a gay bar and a straight bar is the deco, entertainment and the music they play. The clientele looks the same between a gay and a straight bar. A small number of people dress and act more outrageously at gay bar because they can but most do not as its not how they are. Pick a weekend and go to a gay bar. Be open minded, friendly and approachable. Smile at people when they smile at you. Smile at people you want to talk to. Unless it's a theme bar/night, you will find all kind of people there.

    If you want to meet people, you have to put yourself out there. Someone have to make the first move, occasionally it has to be you. You get what you give.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JimLahey View Post
    The dating sites are ok I guess. I'm not in the best position to be using them. I live with 4 room mates and I'm just starting university. So to actually attract older men it seems to be difficult, I mean if I just wanna fuck in a city an hour away I guess I could but I'd prefer to have more than just fucking. Also my lck of being Asian seems to affect things, I'm a little over weight that don't help either. So to whomever mentioned the gym that could be a great way for more ways than one! But still how would you go about figuring out if someone's gay? I find getting that one wrong with older guys seems to be a bit rougher.
    You can still use apps to figure out who at the gym is gay.

    The bar tends to be a no go for me, just isn't my scene at all. I've never actually been to a gay bar, but I already don't like regular bars to go out and meet people and I don't think in going to enjoy a gay bar either. I'm what people tend to call "straight acting" the people who find out I'm gay are usually pretty shocked.
    I understand that you don't like the bar, but it's still sound advice. You know the guys in there are gay and hopefully you could get to know the guys there as friends and they could introduce you to other gay guys, which will increase your chances of meeting someone. It's really a numbers game to some degree.

    Does anyone recommend any good dating sites? I used silverdaddies before, I had a couple dates from it but I don't seem to fit what most older guys are looking for.
    You might try something like okcupid or another mainstream site and see what happens if you just search for older guys. I used a website called www.clubsilver.org

    If you don't mind my asking, why do you think you don't fit what most older guys are looking for? Did someone specifically say something or is it just you guessing that they didn't like something?

    For example, one guy I met decided not to date me because he thought I looked taller in my picture, but I clearly stated my height on my profile. I decided that either he doesn't like short guys or there was something else that he didn't like about me, but it didn't cause me to have a hang up about my height. If anything, it made me realize that to the right guy my height will be either a non-issue or a plus.

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    I would like an older guy to go down on me

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    Quote Originally Posted by JimLahey View Post
    The dating sites are ok I guess. I'm not in the best position to be using them. I live with 4 room mates and I'm just starting university. So to actually attract older men it seems to be difficult, I mean if I just wanna fuck in a city an hour away I guess I could but I'd prefer to have more than just fucking. Also my lck of being Asian seems to affect things, I'm a little over weight that don't help either. So to whomever mentioned the gym that could be a great way for more ways than one! But still how would you go about figuring out if someone's gay? I find getting that one wrong with older guys seems to be a bit rougher.

    The bar tends to be a no go for me, just isn't my scene at all. I've never actually been to a gay bar, but I already don't like regular bars to go out and meet people and I don't think in going to enjoy a gay bar either. I'm what people tend to call "straight acting" the people who find out I'm gay are usually pretty shocked.

    Does anyone recommend any good dating sites? I used silverdaddies before, I had a couple dates from it but I don't seem to fit what most older guys are looking for.
    It actually surprises me how many men I like have in their profile, on for example Silverdaddies, that they like asians, so that is definately not a minus for you.
    Other than that, you sound pretty much the same like me (especially the bar thing), although Ive never tried anything. I think you should just keep trying sites like silverdaddies and you will find something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JimLahey View Post
    On a unrelated note anyone else have zero attraction to guys their age? I just have no psychical attraction to guys my age... I'm assuming this tends to shift as people get older?
    Yup, just my case, I have zero attraction to guys my age (I'm 26 yo) I only find men 40+ attractive with some exceptions of course but this exceptions are on men that look older anyway, they are still 35+

    Now that you brought this up, I would like to add something a little bit odd, I actually feel kinda grossed out by guys my age, not just a turn off but I find it disgusting, does anyone else felt this way before?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eddtesla View Post
    Now that you brought this up, I would like to add something a little bit odd, I actually feel kinda grossed out by guys my age, not just a turn off but I find it disgusting, does anyone else felt this way before?
    Well, disgusting is not the word I'm looking for but I just have no sexual interest in them. Touching a young dick is just the same as a vagina for me: I don't want it. Well, maybe disgusting is the word I'm looking for as I really don't like the thought.

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