Hi guys. Okay so there is this guy who is a year younger than me that I talked to on grindr about 3 weeks ago (and he hasn't been on since) and then I had seen him on tinder and we both "liked" each other and talked a bit there, but something happened and my phone deleted the app. But now I found out that he works at the starbucks I go to at the mall. He's waited on me a few times but I don't know if he remembers talking to me (we didn't talk THAT much, nothing past small talk) OR if he's even out... so basically I don't know what to do because when you're on line at starbucks you can't just say "hey i saw you on grindr!" especially if he's not out.
So how can I connect with him? I found his Facebook because we have a mutual friend(a guy I used to work with) but I don't know what I should do, any advice?