August 17th, 2014, 12:36 PM
Ideas on spanking fetish
Hey guys, looking for some guidance, suggestions, ideas, etc.
I'm pretty kinky & understand the dom/sub fetishes. My new boyfriend is very submissive and has a very strong spanking fetish. He wants to be spanked, disciplined, punished, etc--it's very hot, but I don't quite understand this.
Can somebody sort of explain why it may turn it on? I know part of it is being submissive, but I don't get the spanking. He has a very low pain tolerance, he's pretty small at about 130 lbs.
What can I do to really turn him on? What sort of fantasies?