I have a friend, who lost his mother about 2 months ago. He started dating this guy, and it was obvious to me that hewants to seem him as more and better than what he actually is.
I think that, when his mother died, his grief affected his good judgement, and he needs someone to hold on to.
My friend is an amazing, wonderful, and extreemely intelligent guy. He just finished his studies, and he was the best student, he also received honors. He however blindly trusts his boyfriend.
The issue, that I want to discuss is this: His boyfriend (call him Z) is online on various dating sites all day long. He brought up the shitty excuse that he is only online to chat with some friends (skype/facebook anyone?). My friend believes it all.
Today, he started to send flirty messages to me on a dating site. I played along to see his true intentions, and he invited me out to have sex with him. He sent pictures and everything.
I recorded our entire conversation as proof, and I want to show it all to my friend. I am worried that he will be so deperate that he'll do something stupid though. I want to help my friend out of this, as he told me that if anything like this were ever to happen, he would want to know, but I still worry.
I guess I just kinda looking for you guys to tell me that I am doing what is right for my friend, but feel free to disagree.