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    Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    The original name for this topic was going to be "Have you ever fallen in love with a homophobic man?" But then I realized. Love is a very strong word and who in their right mind would want to fall in LOVE with a man who hates them simply for who they are? I understand fantasizing about fucking a smoking hot homophobic man, but to fall in love with said man is a completely different ball game.

    That being said, I can't really say that I've wanted to fuck a guy who was definitely overtly homophobic. I've definitely found guys who MIGHT be homophobic to be hot. An example would be Tim Tebow, a lot of male country superstars from the 2010...

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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    I guess I'm a bit different from most people when it comes to this sort of stuff. And it's not the easiest thing to explain.

    Once I find out something about a guy that makes him unobtainable, he ceases being what you might call a "direct object of lust". That doesn't mean I stop finding him hot - it just means he becomes something of "raw material" for me to mold in my brain....and after my alterations, I can use the finished product as something to lust after.

    So let's say there's a guy named Fred who I find really hot...but he's homophobic. Then I wouldn't lust after Fred. I'd do some work on him in my head, change him around so he wasn't homophobic (and presumably wasn't straight), maybe make a few other alterations...and then I'd have this finished guy. Fred II. And I'd find HIM attractive. I could jerk off thinking of Fred II, who is like Fred in many ways but ISN'T Fred. And when I saw Fred, I'd only find him attractive in that he was similar to Fred II, that just-as-attractive-but-gay-and-interested guy. I don't confuse Fred with Fred II.

    And I've done this across the board with guys who are in some way "unobtainable". If they're straight. If they're in a committed relationship. If they live really far away. I can fantasize about sex with their semi-dopplegangers, but I don't confuse that with having the hots for THEM.

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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    ABSOLUTELY NOT! If I think a guy even might be homophobic...or racist...or Republican...any attraction I might have had dissipates immediately...in a second. I guess I might be able to overcome the Republican part but they would have to make a good case for their politics AND be a complete social liberal for that to happen. There is nothing the homophobe or racist can do to change my mind.
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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    nope. deal breaker.

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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    I grew up straight around what seemed to be mostly homophobics. They used the f-bomb so freely to make fun of someone or cruelly insult them. From the inner city even when I moved to the suburbs on the outskirts of town to a very prestigious upscale community. That was the rhetoric the kids I went to school with, my friends, teammates, and guys in general chose to use. I'm bisexual, and somewhat remained camouflaged through it all by dating and being with women. I dealt with it because I felt that they weren't talking about me. Back then, in my county, my city, my state...they made it seem like being gay was the worst thing anybody could be. As I gradually grew older, my interest shifted more to guys, despite my conservative environment. Hiding who I am, sneaking around to indulge in my true nature. Everybody knows me from being popular in school, throwing parties in high school, sports, other stuff, and just by reputation. I grew up normal, but in a way I didn't . The same friends I acquired growing up are the same ones who DESPISE me. I haven't come out yet, but I have nothing to come out for. My hook ups and on-call subjects are just that and nothing more. I don't have a close intimate relationship with a guy at the moment. Regardless, I can't be friends with the group of people I came up with anymore. I put that life behind me.
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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    No, i don't put up with cunts.
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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    If by being hot for you mean being disgusted by...then, yes.
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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    No but Bisexual men do.

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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    No and I don't plan on doing so either.
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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    Nope nope. Similar to Lex once I find out the guy is straight I don't even think about him that way anymore. Sure I'll still find the guy attractive but that's as far as it goes.

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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    There are thousands of hot guys who aren't idiots in the world. Go to the beach on a nice day and forget about that guy.
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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    Nope. Even a good looking gay guy with a bitchy or a douchebag attitude is a boner killer for me.

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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    I guess I'm a bit different from most people when it comes to this sort of stuff. And it's not the easiest thing to explain.

    Once I find out something about a guy that makes him unobtainable, he ceases being what you might call a "direct object of lust". That doesn't mean I stop finding him hot - it just means he becomes something of "raw material" for me to mold in my brain....and after my alterations, I can use the finished product as something to lust after.

    So let's say there's a guy named Fred who I find really hot...but he's homophobic. Then I wouldn't lust after Fred. I'd do some work on him in my head, change him around so he wasn't homophobic (and presumably wasn't straight), maybe make a few other alterations...and then I'd have this finished guy. Fred II. And I'd find HIM attractive. I could jerk off thinking of Fred II, who is like Fred in many ways but ISN'T Fred. And when I saw Fred, I'd only find him attractive in that he was similar to Fred II, that just-as-attractive-but-gay-and-interested guy. I don't confuse Fred with Fred II.

    And I've done this across the board with guys who are in some way "unobtainable". If they're straight. If they're in a committed relationship. If they live really far away. I can fantasize about sex with their semi-dopplegangers, but I don't confuse that with having the hots for THEM.

    Lex
    Excellent description!

    I'd second it, but I wouldn't even be able to fashion a "Fred II" in my head, because of the origin. I couldn't do it with someone in a committed relationship, either. Heck, I can't even do it with someone who smokes.

    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    If by being hot for you mean being disgusted by...then, yes.
    LOL

    I'll second that!

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    No but Bisexual men do.

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    No, I don't get it. Your "humor" is just a way to insult bisexuals.

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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    No.

    I may fantasize about straight, married co-workers, but it would be squarely in the realm of fantasy, usually built on their personalities and kindness or playfulness as much as their appearances.

    But, in my mind, I never lose sight of them being married or fathers, so it doesn't go far mentally. I love them as friends and would not want to have sex in reality if it meant cheating on their wife or turning them from their kids.
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    Re: Have you been hot for a guy even though he's homophobic?

    No. I have a very strict boundary which guy is a mate, friend, enemy, coach, teacher, mentor, dad, uncle, etc and that include to homophobes, it's a big NO to them, no matter how cute. ( I can't be bribed)

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