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    Did it happen to you

    Hey everyone
    I've been with my fiancé for almost 5 years. After a while did the sex become less frequent for anyone who's in a long term relationship?

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    Re: Did it happen to you

    isn't it common knowledge the sex lessens? You always hear about marriages/ltr's where the sex isn't as frequent or has stopped altogether. not sure why, but I don't think its all that uncommon.

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    Re: Did it happen to you

    It's a common irony that people get married so they don't have to look for sex anymore, but often times it's after you're married that the sex stops.
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    Re: Did it happen to you

    Start reading 50 Shades of Grey to spice up your love life.

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    Re: Did it happen to you

    Not always, and not for everyone..

    we have been together for 30yrs.....and we have better sex now than before. We evolved, tried, tested, experimented, role played, BDSM, water sports, light fisting, 3ways, weird places, in cars, buses, planes, driving in the car.......

    and it has made us that much closer.

    You have to be totally open with your partner and be able to talk with ant crazy fancies you may have but are afraid to ask..

    we still have sex at least 2x a day in one form or another and some weekends it could be 3 to 6 times.....
    You cant change the way the wind blow's, but you can change the angle of your sail to take you somewhere else!!

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    Re: Did it happen to you

    Quote Originally Posted by racer2438 View Post
    Not always, and not for everyone..

    we have been together for 30yrs.....and we have better sex now than before. We evolved, tried, tested, experimented, role played, BDSM, water sports, light fisting, 3ways, weird places, in cars, buses, planes, driving in the car.......

    and it has made us that much closer.

    You have to be totally open with your partner and be able to talk with ant crazy fancies you may have but are afraid to ask..

    we still have sex at least 2x a day in one form or another and some weekends it could be 3 to 6 times.....

    Lucky us! We are right there with you. We have been together 31 years now and the sex is even better now than ever! Communication, in my opinion, is the best way to keep things interesting.

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    Re: Did it happen to you

    I think you'll find plenty of couples that fall into both camps (barely have sex anymore, and still having it all the time) and everything in between. I think the couples who are passionate about keeping it fresh and new and exciting will keep the sexual flames going longer...
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    Re: Did it happen to you

    I've heard it said that Marriage and Sex tend to devolve in stages ...

    Whole House Sex
    : Spontaneous FUN in all rooms, at any time, in "Adventurous" positions.

    Bedroom Sex: Sex becomes more "formalized", even scheduled, and confined to the bedroom.

    Hallway Sex: Passing each other on the way to the bathroom ... "Fuck You!" ... "Fuck You, Too!" ...

    Familiarity, over TIME, can often breed contempt.

    SO ... Make the effort to keep things "Shaken UP"!

    And, of course ... No Matter What ... Seriously ...

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    Re: Did it happen to you

    In our case we have medication going against us. Each of us are on different life that kill your sex drive. Currently we can go months without it

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    Every couple, like every person, is different. They key is to be content with what you have. If not, it's up to you do do something about it.
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    Re: Did it happen to you

    Quote Originally Posted by rmfnb24 View Post
    Hey everyone
    I've been with my fiancé for almost 5 years. After a while did the sex become less frequent for anyone who's in a long term relationship?
    Yeah, I'm in a 4 year relationship right now and yes sex is wayyy less frequent. Like once a week, maybe twice but that's it. I would love to do it more often but my boyfriend doesn't seem to be interested in experimenting different things so it is what it is.

    Just talk to him about it and tell him what you think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rmfnb24 View Post
    Hey everyone
    I've been with my fiancé for almost 5 years. After a while did the sex become less frequent for anyone who's in a long term relationship?
    It happened to me, and it will happen to you...

    There's a reason I believe in open relationships.

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    Re: Did it happen to you

    Quote Originally Posted by rmfnb24 View Post
    In our case we have medication going against us. Each of us are on different life that kill your sex drive. Currently we can go months without it
    This, I am on medication and so is the hubby. Our sex drives have taken a nose dive into the ground. But I think the hubby gets horny after a while, as for me the medication really does damage to my sex drive to the point where I am hardly horny.

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    Re: Did it happen to you

    That's our situation except I'm the one who will get horny but I ignore it where as he doesn't hardly get horny

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    Re: Did it happen to you

    We still have sex three to four times a week but it's a far cry from when we would have sex two to three times a day.
    Last edited by Ninja108; August 6th, 2014 at 11:52 PM.

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    Wow dude. Nice

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