Ok, this may seem odd, but as a bigger guy, I get more play than I know what to do with most days and there are many that I simply turn down because I'm not attracted to them. I honestly never thought I would be in the position to turn anyone down, but for some reason, I am. Luckily, guys almost always want to and do come back for more and more sex with me and they seem to love the conversation and cuddling afterwards too. The guys that I really like are so sexy and we have so much fun in and out of the bedroom, but I really want an ltr. One guy, I was absolutely head over heals for and the sex was amazing (he had the perfect three inch dick that I've always loved to find on a guy), but when I asked him to go out on an actual date, he cut all ties with me even though he was calling me non-stop to come over again and again for sex before I asked him on a date. That one hurt.
So what should I do here? An ltr is really my goal, and I tell the guys straight up, that is what I'm honestly looking for, and finding a guy with as high a drive as mine is somewhat important to me (along with many other attributes). My last 4 year relationship, I was lucky to have sex once a month with him. I guess I am really missing something in my search for something greater.