So I have a HUGE crush on this cashier who works at a local coffee shop. He's just the cutest thing. I think he might be gay or at least bi. But then again he might not - most people are straight so the odds are against me...
Anyway, I'm in there somewhat often and we've made small talk, but haven't really made a connection beyond that. It's always so busy in there you really can't talk to the cashiers without holding up the rest of the line. Problem is I really like this guy and want to get to know him!
So I'm seeking advice. I guess my problem is two-fold:
1. Is he gay?
2. How to get to know him?
Surely some of you have crushed on someone who is sort of inaccessible like this yet you see on a regular basis. How have you been able to break that barrier? And, how can you find out if a guy is gay or not in a situation like this?
I'd appreciate any advice! Thanks!