I've ignored this for a long time now, and talking about it was never an option I thought I should consider. I'm a listener, not a talker. A person who people tell things to, not the other way around. To put it simply, I'm confused. I identify myself as straight, maybe curious, but I don't know if it's something deeper than that, or not. I'm not even sure if I should come out and say I'm a little curious or not. Emotionally, I feel a very strong connection to women. I envision myself happy and with a wife and kids. However, sexually, I feel more attracted to men, while my emotional connection with them is weaker. I'm not sure if that's a product of me not talking about this and shutting the idea of men out as a significant other, coupled with the backlash I'd get from my family, or maybe I just really am only connected with men sexually. I'm not sure what to do, I'm a virgin when it comes to both sexes, but I can say there is a girl that I really care about. Any help or thoughtful advice would be much appreciated.