As many of you know I recently posted how I am in the midst of an identity crisis and kind of freaking out the last few weeks http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...ome-things-out
So at the same time as all this is going on, for the first time I start looking online (other than craigslist) for people to potentially meet to test the waters so to speak. Now I am not out to anyone other than my mother kind-of as explained in the thread above, but In my searches online I find a guy I went to high school with a few years under me who is listed as BI, which I could not believe.
The long short of the story is we chatted on there me with no photos or any thing and him with multiple and all his other information matches up it is definitely him. I did go as far as to say that I went to school with him and would it be weird to meet etc. not too much after that.
Then out of the blue weeks later he contacts me and asks if I want to fool around a bit. Now I know him and I know that NO ONE knows that he is bi at all and he still doesn't know who I am but he still is willing to meet anyway.
So the long short of all this is this--Is it better to meet someone who you are aquanted with that you know is a normal person, but could tell the whole world your business (which I totally could not deal with now) Or do you find a complete stranger and hope for the best.
This guy is extremely conservative and you would never guess, much like me so I highly doubt he would say anything, but I am still hesistant. At the same time something needs to give here--I need to start experiencing life so as to confirm/deny my identity myself.