So I met an awesome guy my junior year of college. After a year of dating we decided to move in together and things have been pretty good. But our schedules conflict (I work evenings and weekends and he works weekdays and mormings) both of us are extremely tired all the time. But there are times when we both want it at the same time. Right before he's about to go to pound town he asks "wait are you clean" I tell him no, but that he can just take off the condom and throw it away. He insists, I go take a shower douche out. Yet, by the time I'm all done I'm not even in the mood anymore.
Should a couple after 1 and a half years care so much?
Should I just clean out everytime I think I'm going to get laid.. I heard its unhealthy by clearing the good bacteria in your rectum frequently
Would taking fiberpillls help for a more solid/cleaner bowl movement?