So I mentioned this first date I was gonna have with a guy I met online in another thread. Now I'm back from the date...
Short version: We met at a coffee shop and went back to my place.
I suggested meeting at a coffee shop and go for a lunch. However, it was rainy that day and was supposed to be a thunder storm. Thus, he suggested that we should hang out at my place and watch a movie (reason being he was driving to me because I dont drive). However, although I was debating, I did not want to invite a stranger over without meeting him in public. So I said it's not pouring down yet, I prefer to meet at the coffee shop and even joked about him being a possible bad guy and I might be a pervy (just trying to make my point without being awkward). Anyway he said he was fine with it. So we met at the coffee shop and talked. He was really nice and kinda cute. So after he said if I wanna go to my place afterwards and I agreed. Because I know if we keep dating it's gonna happen anyway and I was not gonna agree to have sex anyways.
So we were watching a movie while he was holding me in his arm. I could tell he had an erection through his pants. It was just too cozy and I suggest playing a game that is kinda naughty..... Finally we were both naked and he mentioned he wanted to have sex. I turned him down with the excuse of not having condom. He then said he was clean and got tested twice couple month ago and never had sex since. He then suggested several times and I still said no. It ended up him grinding/humping my lower back and cumming on my back.
He seems genuine in general and was being specific about getting tested and having clean results. So should I worry about STDs? I even gave him a lecture on HPV when he asked me to blow him and I turned him down.
some key points:
1. We had lots of body contact including kissing mouth to mouth, on the body
2. He blew me for a very short time
3. He ejaculated on my back
4. While he was giving me hand job, he kinda pulled the foreskin bit hard and it hurt a bit but no visible open wound. It does not hurt during shower afterwards. But it does feel a bit itchy/irritating sensation.
Other than the STD part...I do not really know what to ask at this moment. I'm being a bit messy at this moment. So I just typed these details... I will post more of my observation later if anyone cares to read...