So last night I found out my boyfriend, M, and an longtime friend of his (not an ex) have not only been sexting with each other (including pics and videos) but they are planning on having sex the next time that this friend is in town.
And to make matters worse, I just moved in with my boyfriend 2 days ago
The main part of the message that I saw said "He lives here now though so we will have to play careful!"
I know that my boyfriend has somewhat of a more "wild" past but not to the point of cheating on his partners. I am exclusively a top on our relationship and I know that he would like me to bottom if possible but I just can't physically do it. We've tried multiple times and he has said he's ok with it.
But I'm wondering if this could be why? Maybe he's craving and the urge of topping. Which if that would be the case, I wish he would just talk to me and ask about it. We've made jokes about getting a random guy for him to top with, but if that's really an issue, Obviously he should be honest with me.
I just don't know what to do. Because I'm so upset because we truly do seem like we are on the same page with everything. Hence why we just moved in together.
Should I confront him now? Or wait it out? Is it just sex?
The friend will be here in 2 weeks so I could always try to "catch" them in the act and make it really dramatic! Lol. But I don't want to do that.