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    greedy to want open relationship? Will it work?

    Hi guys,

    I been with my bf 8 years. Sex is slowing down, although we occasionally have a threesome but our rules are we only play together.

    I am keen to open the relationship up, but I dont think he is keen. I want to explore all kinds of men and fantasies, but he seems very set in his ways - and very picky on what or who he wants to do.

    I don't know if I should ask about maybe a 'free pass' or something - permission to go out and have one event. I have never cheated but worry that I might in time...

    I love my bf, we are very close and do everything together. Any tips or advice here?
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    Re: greedy to want open relationship? Will it work?

    If you get a free pass, will you let him have a free pass?

    You should talk to your boyfriend of wanting to explore other types of men. Ask him if he wants to explore other types of men. Then make the decision together.

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    Re: greedy to want open relationship? Will it work?

    You must talk to him about this.
    It is quite possible that you can't have the best of both worlds. There are people who are monogamous, and that's it.
    For me, even a one time threesome would be a huge stretch, let alone, an open relationship.

    If his desires and expectations of a relationship are too different from yours, maybe it is best to end it. It is not fair to either of you to hold each other back.

    Relatinships need the approval and work of both people to work. IF those are missing, it is best to move on.

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    Re: greedy to want open relationship? Will it work?

    I don't think any advise you get here will really help since it all comes down to communication. You need to talk to him and one of you is gonna have to compromise. The question is, if it ends up being you who has to give you to your plans, will you be willing to?

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    Re: greedy to want open relationship? Will it work?

    good points guys. The bottom line is if he is not willing to open the relationship up, I will understand. We are practically inseparable in every arena of our lives and we love each other very much - but I really get off on the idea of other men. I will try to talk to him about it. I would, of course, give him a free pass - im very turned on by the idea of him being with other men.

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