I been with my bf 8 years. Sex is slowing down, although we occasionally have a threesome but our rules are we only play together.
I am keen to open the relationship up, but I dont think he is keen. I want to explore all kinds of men and fantasies, but he seems very set in his ways - and very picky on what or who he wants to do.
I don't know if I should ask about maybe a 'free pass' or something - permission to go out and have one event. I have never cheated but worry that I might in time...
I love my bf, we are very close and do everything together. Any tips or advice here?