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    Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Hey everyone,

    So I have this friend and we are in a platonic situation. We are both mostly straight. Well recently he invited me to share an apt with him. Thing is, even though we are mostly straight, one day the subject of my penis came up. Lets just say Im very endowed girthwise. Im six inches in girth. One day before I moved in he asked to see a pic which I showed him, and he was extremely turned on but is otherwise straight.

    Ive since moved in and we have separate bedrooms. However, every so often when we drink he gets horny and tells me how hot I am and talks about wanting to suck my cock.

    He will do things like pee with the door open and leave his underwear lying about. Recently he was even masturbating when he talked about it.

    Thing is, I dont want to ruin the friendship, and I want a gf. I just broke up with mine. But the thing is, it really turns me on, and lets say I am in serious... need.

    Neither one of us has a girlfriend at the moment and the last time he got horny, it was hard to contain my growing erection tenting. Sometimes, I think I should just join him in bed or get caught masturbating which I am doing frequently right now. I could really use a willing mouth but I dont want to let sex ruin our friendship. Should I let him suck me off next tme he asks?

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Yes, guys can get over this stuff. Blow him too, not that bad.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    I agree, sounds like a really hot thing you guys could have going on, I'd just suggest taking it slow, perhaps getting caught masturbating would be better than going to him and asking him to suck it, would just help it progress more naturally and then hopefully won't feel like the friendship is going the wrong way.

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    You don't have a girlfriend; he does not have a girlfriend. Suck each other already. This is the time for you two to explore man sex...while looking for girlfriends.
    Last edited by HunterM; July 9th, 2014 at 01:59 PM.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    I fail to see how a blow job could ruin a friendship. If anything, it should make you closer. Help out a friend in need... isn't that what friends are for??? You're turning this into a way huger drama than it has to be. Watch a game. Play some Basket Ball. Play PSP. Blow each other. You've said he's offered a few times. Next time say OK. When he's done, Say "Thanks" (hopefully give him one back), and life goes on same ol' same ol'.
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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    I agree with all of the above!

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    It sounds like you are both attracted to each other, If it was me I'd already be sucking his cock. I've sucked st guys cock there horny and unless you keep pushing for more it won't last long or hurt your friendship.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Quote Originally Posted by hornyboyusa
    ...the last time he got horny, it was hard to contain my growing erection tenting. Sometimes, I think I should just join him in bed or get caught masturbating which I am doing frequently right now. I could really use a willing mouth but I dont want to let sex ruin our friendship. Should I let him suck me off next tme he asks?
    So.. out of curiosity... how does a "mostly straight" guy find himself in JustUsBoys.com gay porn forum?
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    Quote Originally Posted by KaraBulut View Post
    So.. out of curiosity... how does a "mostly straight" guy find himself in JustUsBoys.com gay porn forum?
    Keyword: mostly meaning not 100% straight

    Im mostly attracted to females but like guys too and watch mostly gay porn. But Ive been attracted to a few guys before and mostly guys are attracted to me. The girls Ive fallen for tend to lead bisexual. Im attracted to people regardless of gender really, so I dont label myself either way, hence bi.

    Anyway, thanks everybody.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hornyboyusa View Post
    ... Im attracted to people regardless of gender really, so I dont label myself either way, hence bi.
    Much clearer. Thanks.
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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    this could be you.


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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    I am interested in see this 6 inch girth....

    But, it all depends on how both of you will deal with it afterwards. If it is something you both want, then go for it.

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    Let HunterM sleep with him and turn him completely gay.
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    No, you should definitely NOT do it.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Quote Originally Posted by sultrysam View Post
    No, you should definitely NOT do it.
    Why not?

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Quote Originally Posted by apsco17 View Post
    Why not?
    I'd suggest no because he's a roommate. In my view it's a lot like fucking someone you work with - it's usually not a good idea because most people aren't that great at casual, absolutely-no-strings-attached sex.
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    Quote Originally Posted by luckynumbah7 View Post
    I'd suggest no because he's a roommate. In my view it's a lot like fucking someone you work with - it's usually not a good idea because most people aren't that great at casual, absolutely-no-strings-attached sex.
    I'm agreed with you on this point. Having sexual activities with someone you live with and who's above all a friend could be the worst idea ever... On the other hand it could be the best if both of you are aware and ready to deal with the changes in your relationship, because once the step is taken there is no turning back.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Quote Originally Posted by luckynumbah7 View Post
    I'd suggest no because he's a roommate. In my view it's a lot like fucking someone you work with - it's usually not a good idea because most people aren't that great at casual, absolutely-no-strings-attached sex.
    Quote Originally Posted by Pickwick View Post
    I'm agreed with you on this point. Having sexual activities with someone you live with and who's above all a friend could be the worst idea ever... On the other hand it could be the best if both of you are aware and ready to deal with the changes in your relationship, because once the step is taken there is no turning back.
    Agreed on all counts. There is far too much likelihood of it all going very south, very quickly. Then you lose a friend, and possibly have to move house as well if it is that big of a mess.

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    I would say go for it. You both might discover that you like it a lot. Why not enjoy each other and see where it goes from there. If you're most straight then you'll help each other out and date chicks and things will be fine. There's nothing wrong in experimenting with each other. If things go further like wanting to fuck each other, then let it happen. You both could be bisexual and this would be a way to try out that side of yourselves. Don't let it be a should have, could have and would have situation. It seems he wants to experiment with you.

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    Seriously, before any of us can give you an honest and sincere response to your question, you will need to show pics of your penis.
    It could very well help us form the correct opinion on the topic.
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    The next time the two of you get drunk and he tells you he wants to suck your dick, pull it out and say, "Go for it!"

    It might be a one-time thing. Or it might lead you to explore man sex together. He initiated it. For me that's quite different than if you'd nagged him for a bj or crawled into his bed while he was asleep.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Well, hmmmmmmm..................you want to suck cock your roommate wants to suck cock.............
    so unzip & apply lips.

    Oh, one more thing..........
    are you a top or bottom? Do you know of your top or bottom preference or is it too soon to determine??

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    Seriously, before any of us can give you an honest and sincere response to your question, you will need to show pics of your penis.
    It could very well help us form the correct opinion on the topic.
    This is a pic of my dick

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    I think your roommate wants to have sex with you, not marry you. I don't really think it's gonna ruin anything since it's only sex and you both know it.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Has this happened yet? Should happen now

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    Quote Originally Posted by innocentbychoice View Post
    I think your roommate wants to have sex with you, not marry you. I don't really think it's gonna ruin anything since it's only sex and you both know it.
    Been there done that. Trust me if he is really your friend and you really want your relationship to stay this way then sex is gonna change everything. I didn't say that it's gonna ruin everything, but there are risks to consider like are you gonna be able to look at each other as friends after you will have put your dick in his mouth ? And that's only one thing. Well you're all grown ups so you do what ever you want...

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    In my experiences, "Playing" with friends has rarely changed Anything! If nothing else, it tended to bring us closer together, with even more "secrets" than we were free to share before, as long as we didn't share the knowledge of what we'd done with Anyone else.

    One "kewl" thing, about sex with other guys, is that is doesn't have to MEAN anything! Guys can enjoy getting off merely for the sake of Getting Off! As long as you both can approach it Objectively, as in "just for Sport", it doesn't have to be any more "weighty" than helping change a flat tire!

    Of course, "blowing up" your bud's dick, from "flat" to HARD, and maybe back to "flat" again, is Way much more FUN!

    If you're both of the same mind, which you seem to be, I'm voting to drop All of your inhibitions, take full "advantage" of your situation, explore as far as you're both willing to go, and "Bless Your Stars" that you're roomy feels comfortable enough with you to even Think of Going there!

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Be a buddy.

    A buddy goes downtown and gets 2 blowjobs and then comes home and gives his buddy one.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Normally, I'd come down on one side - don't do it - and that would be that.

    In this case, however, it seems as though it would be okay, provided you talk first. Something like, "Hey, if anything happened between us, do you think we'd be cool afterwards? You're my friend, man, and that's for real." See if he can even talk about it. If he can't even discuss it rationally, he's might fall into the the time-worn gay cliche of "Christ, was I drunk last night. I don't remember a thing." If he's psychologically cool, and can talk about it, it might be mildly awkward afterwards, but your friendship would survive.
    But if you think he'd freak - and you know him, we do not - then don't. You sound like you're really using your head (the correct one) to assess whether or not you should do this.
    I'm actually going with "yes, but…" which is already outlined above. This sounds a little different than the average story. He's trying to seduce you, from what you've written, which means he's putting a whole lot of energy into this. It's a little different than subtle hints. He's (literally) laying it out there - and watching you watch him!
    Just check it out before you leap. In my experience (and plenty of experience living in San Francisco), guys who can't talk about emotional/physical intimacy/connections with other men (whether they're straight OR gay) are not the best bets for recreational fun.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Although I've done it before, and each time it was wonderful, as a general rule, I'd say don't do it. Yes, a contradiction, I know.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    I advise yes! The situation is too good to pass up. Guys tend to be totally cool with the benefits thing. My two best friends and I always end up fucking around after a night of partying. We have an awesome relationship to this day, no qualms or regrets.

    Feed his eager mouth!

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pickwick View Post
    I'm agreed with you on this point. Having sexual activities with someone you live with and who's above all a friend could be the worst idea ever... On the other hand it could be the best if both of you are aware and ready to deal with the changes in your relationship, because once the step is taken there is no turning back.
    Agree. I suppose I am just lucky because when something similar happened between me and my college roomie, we essentially became boyfriends ('essentially' because we didn't call it that, but that's precisely what it was). And it was great for a long, long time....until he moved back home.

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    sweet_taboo .The same thing happened to me. Me and my college roommate ended up having a relationship that lasted untill we left school

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    Brilliant!

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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Don't. You're setting yourself up for a disaster, and he's a roommate who you live with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    Seriously, before any of us can give you an honest and sincere response to your question, you will need to show pics of your penis.
    It could very well help us form the correct opinion on the topic.
    OMG how did I miss this reply? Hilarious.

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    I agree with most of the other guys, you should both give each other head, then move on to rimming and fucking.
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    Re: Should I sleep with my roomie?

    Go for it!!! we're waiting for an update

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    just do it!

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