So, I met this gorgeous doctor and we have gone on six dates. The chemistry is great and we clicked. He text me the other night because he was horny and drunk. Up until this point, we have only done oral It was late at night and I told him I had work the next day but kept asking and so I decided to go. I'm a bit more endowed than he is so I told him I'd be right over after I stopped to buy some condoms. His response: Oh, can we please do it w/o a condom. I want to feel you and for you to feel me. I told him that I only play safe unless I'm in an exclusive relationship. He told me he was clean but finds it a bit of mood killer if condoms are used.
I politely declined and he said he understood. That was Wednesday night. I noticed since then our communication has dwindled. I just don't get it. In this day and age...why would a person want to bareback? Is it that much of a difference for the bottom?
It just sucks. I like him and I know he likes me. But I think things shifted with the condom thing. It might have derailed us. He did text me yesterday to say hi. We were supposed to hang out this weekend and see a movie. It wasn't set in stone. But he was supposed to let me know if he was free. I text him 2 hours ago and no response.
I am not sure what my next move should be