I'm having this problem where I'm losing my erection when my bf rides me. It doesn't happen much when I'm fucking him in other positions. Unfortunately, riding is his favorite position.
I don't have trouble staying hard when he goes down on me, or when I masturbate. In fact, I can get hard pretty easily, when we're just kissing or cuddling. My penis is usually rock hard in the morning when I wake up.
Also, it seems like using a condom makes it worse. I think a lot of it is probably psychological too, because I now worry about losing it when we're in that position.
We have sex about once a week, and I masturbate probably every other day. When we have sex, we typically go at it for at least 15 minutes, sometimes 30 (not including foreplay and all that).
And btw, I'm in my early 30s. Is that a real case of ED?
Anyone have a similar experience or any suggestions?