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    Losing erection when bf rides me

    Hey guys,

    I'm having this problem where I'm losing my erection when my bf rides me. It doesn't happen much when I'm fucking him in other positions. Unfortunately, riding is his favorite position.

    I don't have trouble staying hard when he goes down on me, or when I masturbate. In fact, I can get hard pretty easily, when we're just kissing or cuddling. My penis is usually rock hard in the morning when I wake up.

    Also, it seems like using a condom makes it worse. I think a lot of it is probably psychological too, because I now worry about losing it when we're in that position.

    We have sex about once a week, and I masturbate probably every other day. When we have sex, we typically go at it for at least 15 minutes, sometimes 30 (not including foreplay and all that).

    And btw, I'm in my early 30s. Is that a real case of ED?

    Anyone have a similar experience or any suggestions?

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    Re: Losing erection when bf rides me

    Being ridden is my least favorite position. When I am the top, I like the feeling of thrusting my hips, it's just more intense for me. I don't have the problem you do when being ridden, but it is just less pleasurable, so we do it that way sometimes but not for the big finish. Maybe you need to be thrusting your hips, too? Maybe it's a control issue.
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    Re: Losing erection when bf rides me

    FWIW, I find that over-stimulation without without ejaculation makes me go soft.

    I like my guy to ride me too but if I hold off trying to make him happy, then I go limp.

    Better to just have a quick fuck and wait a bit, then have him ride you again.

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    Re: Losing erection when bf rides me

    I suggest trying a cockring to help you maintain an erection while doing the deed. A leather or jel ring can be put on at any time; a metal ring must be put on before you have an erection.

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    Re: Losing erection when bf rides me

    Quote Originally Posted by redips View Post
    I'm having this problem where I'm losing my erection when my bf rides me. It doesn't happen much when I'm fucking him in other positions. Unfortunately, riding is his favorite position...

    And btw, I'm in my early 30s. Is that a real case of ED?
    No, not "ED" in the sense that there's a disorder that warrants treatment with meds. Some physicians would give you a prescription for meds if it's something that bothers you but what you are describing is a common and very normal situation.

    Not every position works for both the top and bottom. Some tops find that there are positions that are uncomfortable, positions that put too much pressure on the penis and some guys have trouble with circulation in certain positions.

    What is it that your boyfriend likes about cowboy/reverse cowboy- does he like the closer body contact, does he like the feeling of being in control, does the position hit the spot that makes him come? A more practical solution would be to start with positions that work for you and then switch periodically to a position your boyfriend enjoys. if you begin losing your erection, then change positions again. Instead of getting stressed about the possibility of losing your erection (which just adds to the stress), find practical solutions that you both enjoy.
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    Re: Losing erection when bf rides me

    I don't get anything out of my guy riding my cock. I do it because he way gets off on it. I try to flip over somehow so I can do the driving. I don't feel a whole lot that way, and I always worry about losing my hard on if we stay that way too long. Try to vary the the positions, so that you end up on top.....

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