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    I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    I attend a "bro" gym (read: straight) that has a very young, fratty membership, and as of late I've begun to feel that I'm being perceived as "creepy." Here's what I do:

    1) The locker room has these disgusting rugs in front of the lockers so I stand just beyond them at the benches where I place my bag. That means when I change, I face outward vs facing the lockers. I think the other members find this creepy because they think I'm trying to take in the sights. I'm not, but I have never liked having my back turned towards anyone either (well, not in the gym ).

    2) I'm always looking around the gym as I walk from station to station. As such, I catch glances and sometimes from the same guy more than once. Okay, okay, I am looking at the guys, but I'm not staring or cruising. Sheesh.

    Anyhow I just feel like I'm one of the creepy guys. Is this all in my head? I also tend to have a serious if not angry look on my face. That's just how I look, but I know it doesn't help. Thoughts?

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    They think you are ogling them in the locker room, and that is within your ability to change. I suggest you turn and face the lockers as you change.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    It sounds like something that is in your head. What makes you think they perceive you as such?
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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    This is creeping me out.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Sounds like you ARE the creepy guy at your gym

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Great. I guess I just need to not look at anyone and face the lockers even though my damn backpack is sitting behind me. If I could join the gay gym I would but it's too far away/inconvienent.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Quote Originally Posted by JockTalk View Post
    Great. I guess I just need to not look at anyone and face the lockers even though my damn backpack is sitting behind me. If I could join the gay gym I would but it's too far away/inconvienent.

    This would probably be perceived as creepy at a gay gym (whatever that is) as well.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Since your intentions of doing what you are doing are not creepy, I would continue doing it if it makes you comfortable. If some members think you are the creepy guy at the gym, who gives a rats ass. It's not like you plan on befriending these guys or asking for a date. You belong there as much as they do and your behavior is not breaking any rules. Don't over think it. I would suggest if you catch some ones eye that you smile and say hi. That is being friendly and I think they would perceive you as a nice guy.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Who cares what others think, you creep as much as you like.
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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Quote Originally Posted by JockTalk View Post
    The locker room has these disgusting rugs in front of the lockers so I stand just beyond them at the benches where I place my bag.
    That's the creepy bit. The place sounds like Verruca Central. Why does everyone face the lockers while changing anyway? Surely you have to sit on the bench to take off your socks and shoes?
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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    No you are not creepy.
    You just want somebody to love ...


    NEVER LISTEN TO A ONE SIDED STORY AND JUDGE.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    So you're looking at the guys, and some guys are catching you looking at them... and you think the problem is the rugs?

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    All gym behavior is creepy.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Quote Originally Posted by MoufOfKhaos View Post
    So you're looking at the guys, and some guys are catching you looking at them... and you think the problem is the rugs?
    ^ ^ t h i s .

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    Quote Originally Posted by palbert View Post
    All gym behavior is creepy.
    Meaning all the gym people are creepy? lol


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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Quote Originally Posted by JockTalk View Post
    ...I face outward vs facing the lockers...
    Do you caress your inner thighs?

    Do you lift up your feet to massage your calves and ankles?

    Do you spread your buttocks to ensure they are quite dry?

    Do you have pictures?

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Do you preach to them about anti-hiv drugs?
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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    I cant go to gym rats/bunnies nest ..I just cant
    I go to public gym- that if I hv extra income to renew my membership.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Facing outward to change?

    That's kind of weird to be honest...

    Who cares what others at your gym think but I do agree that you SHOULD change facing towards your locker. It's just proper etiquette.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    The serious expression scowling bit makes me think this is a trolling thread.

    Who says "my face is stern and frightening, so I guess that coulda made the girl scream?"

    Smiling, nodding, and NOT being stern are within anyone's reach, so noting that they are factors proves one is self aware.

    I don't buy this whole thread or its premise.
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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    ^bingo.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dejavudoo View Post
    The serious expression scowling bit makes me think this is a trolling thread.

    Who says "my face is stern and frightening, so I guess that coulda made the girl scream?"

    Smiling, nodding, and NOT being stern are within anyone's reach, so noting that they are factors proves one is self aware.

    I don't buy this whole thread or its premise.
    I don't write threads for the heck of it. I AM serious. To answer some of the questions:

    1) No, I don't talk to fellow members about Prep. I gather most men at my gym don't have man on man butt sex.

    2) The rugs, which are directly adjacent to the carpet and often smell like feet, push me away from the lockers about 30" where the bench and tiled floor are. That's why I face the bench where my bag is. And I'm not always facing directly out. At times I face sideways.

    3) I do have a naturally stern face and surprisingly I look kind of like JPGhost!

    4) I don't caress my thighs, show my butthole, shave my crotch at the sink or lick my lips. I don't even adjust my junk or touch it like my trainer likes to do with his.

    I'm going to try to not look at the guys I find hot. They are the ones catching my glances.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Found one of the ex's at a gym. He was clearly showing himself up to me. Ended in his bed same night.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    So there are only a few options here...

    1. You are a creepy guy, or 2. It's all in your head.

    Which is it?
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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Hun, pay those guys no mind. It's not like you're going out of your way to make them uncomfortable.

    Their insecurity is their problem.

    Just do you. Fuck the bullshit.
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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Quote Originally Posted by palbert View Post
    All gym behavior is creepy.
    This......

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    ^ OMG! I'm dead.
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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Quote Originally Posted by JockTalk View Post
    I don't write threads for the heck of it. I AM serious. To answer some of the questions:

    1) No, I don't talk to fellow members about Prep. I gather most men at my gym don't have man on man butt sex.

    2) The rugs, which are directly adjacent to the carpet and often smell like feet, push me away from the lockers about 30" where the bench and tiled floor are. That's why I face the bench where my bag is. And I'm not always facing directly out. At times I face sideways.

    3) I do have a naturally stern face and surprisingly I look kind of like JPGhost!

    4) I don't caress my thighs, show my butthole, shave my crotch at the sink or lick my lips. I don't even adjust my junk or touch it like my trainer likes to do with his.

    I'm going to try to not look at the guys I find hot. They are the ones catching my glances.
    He has the history of a trouble maker and accusing people of such and such.
    Just ignore is best.


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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    You really have a problem at your gym: http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...=1#post9407699

    Have you considered counseling?

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Quote Originally Posted by palbert View Post
    You really have a problem at your gym: http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...=1#post9407699...
    You don't have a problem, others at your gym do. http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...hlight=pervert

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    He has the history of a trouble maker and accusing people of such and such.
    Just ignore is best.
    Yeah, stick close to Telly -- his judgement is unerring.
    There are TWO kinds of people in the world -- the kind who believe there are two kinds of people, and the kind who don't.

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    ...Just ignore is best.
    It's more sensible to place someone on ignore rather than being continually aggravated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    He has the history of a trouble maker and accusing people of such and such.
    Just ignore is best.
    At last someone else see's it.
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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    Quote Originally Posted by palbert View Post
    You really have a problem at your gym: http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...=1#post9407699

    Have you considered counseling?
    It is interesting how some of my gay brothers are quick to throw me under the bus and call me a perverted troll who needs counseling.

    ANYHOW for the rest of you I did take some of your advice. There was this guy tonight at my gym -OMG- semi shaved head, sleeve tattoo, developed, hairy calves and bulgey biceps. I wanted to look at him every chance I got but I didn't! I wanted to put him in glass and drink him with a straw. I would have gotten on all fours and licked those calves but I played it cool. So there! Happy?

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    Re: I feel like I'm perceived as a creepy guy at my gym.

    You shouldn't pretend not to look.
    Just look and smile at them and maybe chit chat ?


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