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    Uncertain

    So if I are reading this I greatly thank you.... So I have been in this state of confusions and uncertainty.... As I have been labeling myself as gay but yet I worry about this because I am so uncertain. I do not want to live a lie. I have recently been hell bent on finding a relationship and I guess it get worse as time goes along and I can't find anyone. I am afraid that's telling my I'm incorrect in my decision of what sex to be with. I get close to people very easily and as of late I have burnt a lot of bridges by doing this and people have burnt bridges with me for various reasons. And I'm very close to a female friend but I'm afraid I am great friendship with love emotions/wanting emotions. Long story short is I'm terrified to date anyone or make bad decisions as I have been hurt a lot, and wish not to hurt others. Do you guys or gals have any thoughts on this...

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    Re: Uncertain

    Quote Originally Posted by Scoot222 View Post
    .... I am afraid that's telling my I'm incorrect in my decision of what sex to be with....
    Who told you that you had to make a decision?

    Quote Originally Posted by Scoot222 View Post
    .... Long story short is I'm terrified to date anyone or make bad decisions as I have been hurt a lot, and wish not to hurt others. Do you guys or gals have any thoughts on this...
    There's no difference in a relationship with a man versus a relationship with a woman when it comes to the core communication and honesty issues.

    The sooner that you are honest, the less likely either person will get hurt.
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    No one told me to
    Make a bad decisions, I worry so much... I've never lied to anyone I tried to be with, I'm always one who gets hurt, but recent when peoe are interested in me I get scared and push them away afraid they r gonna hurt me or I might hurt them... Emotionally thst is

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    Re: Uncertain

    Tell them the truth about how you're feeling. Explain that you need to go slowly so you don't each other and they will understand.

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    Re: Uncertain

    Sometimes people want a relationship above all else. That's a problem because it does some negative things, like trying to force a relationship with every date or hook up and scaring off people who sense that too early eagerness. Try to make your dating life more relaxed to see how things develop on their own. Dates are really interviews and both parties have an equal interest of eventually accepting or rejecting the other.
    "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."--Dr. Seuss

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