Would you date a guy that says he isnt gay, he just like to fuck with men sometimes?
I have been "dating" this guy for 3 months, he is 33, separated from wife, has 2 kids, one 5 years old and one 3 years old, he works in construction. At first i thought he was gay because i met him through a friend (that is gay), he told me that they knew each other from their natal town. And my friend told me that he knew that he liked to play "both sides".
The second time i saw him was again at my friends house, and i asked him for his number and we began texting, and eventually we had sex. The first time i started to kiss him and he started to laugh and told me that please dont kiss him in the mouth that he didnt like it, and told me he was sorry, and kissed me in the cheek the whole time. I thought it was weird, but anyways, i let it pass. Then when we are hanging around, eating or something, he keeps staring at women, and making comments like, "wow she has a nice ass" and stuff like that, that i really get somewhat annoyed but just go with it.
The problem is i think i might be getting a little emotional with him, like im begining to like him, i keep thinking about him in the day like a stupid teenager (which im not, im 29). And its worst because we see each other every week at least 2 or 3 times, we dont always have sex, sometimes i just give him a blowjob and watch tv, or we just go to eat somewhere and talk, and then he goes to his house. He usually comes after he gets out of his work, and after that he goes to his house (which is like 1 hour away).
Yesterday he told me that if i wanted to go shopping with him, and when i got to the mall he was with his 5 yr old son, he was going to buy him a pair of shoes. So i was there with a man with his kid, and i wondered for a moment "what the hell am i doing here...?", it was kinda cute though, i mean, its not like im going to raise his kid, but at least he trusted me enough to meet his son. And we had a good time. Sometimes he really seems to care for me, but i feel is kinda like "i like you as a friend that i can have sex, or free bjs sometimes". I mean he texts me but like "whats up dude", nothing cute or anything.
I think with my rational mind that it is just trouble and that i should get away from him, but its hard because i kinda like the attention and the little bond we have made in these months. Im really confused and im afraid in the end i will be hurt. What would you do?