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    Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    My job moved to a new building recently and there is this really cute guy who works on the same floor as me. We don't work for the same department so we don't know each other but we've exchanged a lot of glances. We finally ended up talking for a bit last week twice.

    Now, I just learned that today was his last day in my building and that he was going to work somewhere else.

    I don't have any reasons to believe he is gay or interested in me but I was wondering if it would be weird to send him a friend request on Facebook?

    We don't have any friends in common so by sending him a request, I would basically give away that I specifically looked him up lol.

    One weird thing: We don't work for the same people and until last week, we hadn't talked to each other but a few weeks ago, we walked by each other and he said Hi Dino (that's my name). There's no way he could have known my name unless he looked me up or asked about me to people at work. My name is also written outside my cubicle but mine is really far from his and there are hundreds of people on my floor...

    What do you guys think? Am I going crazy lol?

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Go ahead and do it. The worst that'll happen is he won't accept it. He's moving to a new building anyway, so you probably won't see him again; you really don't have anything to lose.
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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    I don't see much of a downside to a friend request. The worst is he will reject it.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Go ahead and send him a friend request. It is not weird on Facebook. It's how you make friends online.

    Now...if you send him a request on Fuckbook...then it's a different story.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    I really want to but now I'm scared to send him a request because my friend said that would be a psychotic thing to do lol.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    That doesn't go Anywhere NEAR "Psychotic", Dino. It's actually quite harmless, and very prevalent "these days", to the point of being WELL within "Normal".

    It certainly seems you've both shown some "Interest" in each other, already. Until you get to know each other better, though, you'll never know if those signs of Interest match. And, there's nothing there to say they don't!

    SO ... Before it's too late, "Just DO It!", and discover where it might lead, or not.

    I've been on this Planet long enough to Know that most of our Regrets come from the things we DIDN'T Do!

    I'm voting on not letting the tenuous connection that you Do have with him evaporate.

    GO for it, Buddy!

    And, of course ... No Matter What ...

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    So... why do you want to send him a friend request again?
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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    People send friend requests to people they barely know all the time; old acquaintances they could take or leave, people that went to their school that they never spoke a single word to, etc. Just go for it, what's the worst that can happen eh?
    I wouldn't think it's a big deal if someone I spoke to once or twice at work added me. In fact, I had several friends at one point that were casual acquaintances.

    Some of them deleted me for stupid reasons... the idiots who post status updates that say, "I'm cleaning out my friends list! post an essay telling me why you think you deserve to be my friend on Facebook!" have been weeded out from my list.... but that's another story.

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    I want to send him a friend request because he is ridiculously cute and I want to get to know him better.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by mcbg22 View Post
    i want to send him a friend request because he is ridiculously cute and i want to get to know him better.
    SO ... DO IT!

    And, keep us posted about what happens!
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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by mcbg22 View Post
    I want to send him a friend request because he is ridiculously cute and I want to get to know him better.
    You wanna get working in his trouser department eh?

    I say go for it!


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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Don't be stupid; DO IT!

    What have you got to lose? Perhaps it will be the beginning of a pleasant friendship.
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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Go for it. I have done similar to guys that I wanted to get to know better. Usually with good results...

    Plus, he at least knows OF you...so it's not like you're a complete stranger to him.
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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by mcbg22 View Post
    My job moved to a new building recently and there is this really cute guy who works on the same floor as me. We don't work for the same department so we don't know each other but we've exchanged a lot of glances. We finally ended up talking for a bit last week twice.

    Now, I just learned that today was his last day in my building and that he was going to work somewhere else.

    I don't have any reasons to believe he is gay or interested in me but I was wondering if it would be weird to send him a friend request on Facebook?

    We don't have any friends in common so by sending him a request, I would basically give away that I specifically looked him up lol.

    One weird thing: We don't work for the same people and until last week, we hadn't talked to each other but a few weeks ago, we walked by each other and he said Hi Dino (that's my name). There's no way he could have known my name unless he looked me up or asked about me to people at work. My name is also written outside my cubicle but mine is really far from his and there are hundreds of people on my floor...

    What do you guys think? Am I going crazy lol?
    If you had never spoken, it would be weird.

    But if you've exchanged small talk, then you have nothing to lose. Don't feel bad if he doesn't add you because some people don't add people they don't know well, but if he does, you have an opening to talk about things of mutual interest.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Stop second-guessing yourself and just send it.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Just sent the friend request. Let's see what happens now lol.

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    Yay, I can't wait to see where this goes! I'm sure he'll be fine with it.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    I'm stuck at trying to figure out why the frak I'd even want to be on Facebook.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by mcbg22 View Post
    Just sent the friend request. Let's see what happens now lol.
    Any update?!

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Farcebook is a waste.


    Dislike!


    They just want to get to the next level of Candy Ass Crush and their friends don't play.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Farcebook is a waste.


    Dislike!


    They just want to get to the next level of Candy Ass Crush and their friends don't play.
    Facebook is more than a waste, it;s a disease.

    I don't do Facebook, and almost never even bother with anything anyone links me to there. But twice now I've had to clear out dozens of "contacts" that have shown up in my email address book that are all facebook crap.

    "Thirty-one* states allow all qualified citizens to carry concealed weapons. In those states, homosexuals should embark on organized efforts to become comfortable with guns, learn to use them safely and carry them. They should set up Pink Pistols task forces, sponsor shooting courses and help homosexuals get licensed to carry. And they should do it in a way that gets as much publicity as possible. "

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    I, too, refuse to do Facer, MyBook, or TwitSpace.

    I have absolutely NO desire to air out Anything, let alone my "Dirty Laundry", to those who have ZERO "Need to Know"!

    I simply don't understand why letting Anyone "find" You, that wants to, or Knowing about You, have that Power over You!

    If I want to be "found", I'll "find" them myself!

    I guess that comes from my joining an early "Social Site", and having it's software sending out "invitations", to everyone in my email contacts, without my knowledge, nor approval.

    I'm quite capable of making an Idiot of myself, all on my own!

    However ... Those of you who are comfortable with it, and find it useful, by All means, Go For It!

    All the more reasons to ... No Matter What ...

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by Kulindahr View Post
    Facebook is more than a waste, it;s a disease.

    I don't do Facebook, and almost never even bother with anything anyone links me to there. But twice now I've had to clear out dozens of "contacts" that have shown up in my email address book that are all facebook crap.
    Yeah ...and you get your email flooded with trivial messages from them too "So and so shared a link" and so on...

    Now if the message said "So and so shoved link sausages up their ass...video here"...then hey..it might be worth the click...

    But Facebook is just another spammy ad engine...

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    lol at all the "too cool for facebook" kids.


    Quote Originally Posted by orton86 View Post
    Any update?!
    and yes...please update us.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gentleheart View Post
    lol at all the "too cool for facebook" kids.




    and yes...please update us.
    Haha, exactly! All I care about is the next chapter of the story/thread.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by Gentleheart View Post
    lol at all the "too cool for facebook" kids.




    and yes...please update us.
    Quote Originally Posted by orton86 View Post
    Haha, exactly! All I care about is the next chapter of the story/thread.
    Exactly! Would LOVE more updates!

    However ... Please post them "Here", and not on "Facer", or whatever it's called.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by orton86 View Post
    Any update?!
    I sent the request but I haven't gotten a response yet. Who knows if he ever will accept it lol. He doesn't seem like someone who's often on FB though. Oh well, I did what I could haha.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by mcbg22 View Post
    I sent the request but I haven't gotten a response yet. Who knows if he ever will accept it lol. He doesn't seem like someone who's often on FB though. Oh well, I did what I could haha.
    Exactly! We're happy that you had the courage to do that in the first place.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by mcbg22 View Post
    I sent the request but I haven't gotten a response yet. Who knows if he ever will accept it lol. He doesn't seem like someone who's often on FB though. Oh well, I did what I could haha.
    Is anyone actually on Facebook anymore?

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    I just noticed he has deleted his Facebook profile... I thought he had blocked me but I can't look him up either on my friends' profiles. Oh well lol.

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    Well, you did what you could.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by mcbg22 View Post
    I just noticed he has deleted his Facebook profile... I thought he had blocked me but I can't look him up either on my friends' profiles. Oh well lol.

    I did that when I thought I had a stalker too.

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    Re: Sending a friend request to someone you don't know on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    I did that when I thought I had a stalker too.
    lol I just sent him a friend request though. I don't think I've done or said anything to him that might indicate I'm stalking him.

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    He might just be a hyper-closet case.

    Oh well.

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